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Providers that aren't into kissing nor giving oral


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12 hours ago, nycboi said:

How is it? Do they get to book clients? Would you hire them? If the provider is hot enough I can see many hiring them just to bottom for him. 

I would not consider hiring anyone who does not provide oral (mutual, giving and receiving) nor kiss.  Was recently chatting with a cute RM in NYC who only topped, but would not kiss nor do oral. I guess they exist for some clients, but not for me. I prefer a more interactive experience. 

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I think there’s someone for everyone, so if you find your niche, and your market finds you, and is large enough you’ll get business.

I met with another provider (an escort) last year to film some content for our respective fans sites. All was good, he’s a lovely guy and we had discussed the content beforehand (it was agreed neither of us would bottom so the content was everything else but penetration). However we hadn’t discussed about the cum shots and when I was ready to shoot I warned him and then shot all over his chest.

Unfortunately this freaked him out so much that we had to stop and clean up before he’d continue filming (for his cum shot….which ended up in my mouth). Afterwards he told me he had a problem with having cum on his body. I was really surprised by this. I know some guys won’t swallow it but I’ve not come across cum phobia before. I guess I should have asked him how he manages to escort if that is the case… but I didn’t like to make him feel awkward. Somehow he must manage to see clients and avoid any of their cum…I don’t think he kisses either.

 

 

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1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Afterwards he told me he had a problem with having cum on his body. I was really surprised by this. I know some guys won’t swallow it but I’ve not come across cum phobia before.

That's kind of intense. I admit to only find cum hot when it's fresh. After it cools off, I find it pretty gross and want it off of me as quickly as possible. 

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18 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

That's kind of intense. I admit to only find cum hot when it's fresh. After it cools off, I find it pretty gross and want it off of me as quickly as possible. 

Yes I found it surprising, especially given he’s an escort. It’s like being a carpenter but having an issue with sawdust. 
The only issue I have with cum is if it’s in my hair, so difficult to get out. 

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22 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Yes I found it surprising, especially given he’s an escort. It’s like being a carpenter but having an issue with sawdust. 
The only issue I have with cum is if it’s in my hair, so difficult to get out. 

Sorry if this is TMI!

I have a cum stained jockstrap used by my favorite guy and I actually took a sniff of it before doing laundry .... didn't realize how intoxicating that musty smell was...

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24 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Yes I found it surprising, especially given he’s an escort. It’s like being a carpenter but having an issue with sawdust. 
The only issue I have with cum is if it’s in my hair, so difficult to get out. 

So true about the hair. I had an older boyfriend when I was 20, who was pretty hairy. He taught me to shower off the cum with cool to cold water since the hot water removes the seminal fluid faster and bunches up the sperm, leaving it tangle in your body hair. ;)

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52 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

So true about the hair. I had an older boyfriend when I was 20, who was pretty hairy. He taught me to shower off the cum with cool to cold water since the hot water removes the seminal fluid faster and bunches up the sperm, leaving it tangle in your body hair. ;)

And here I learned that on my own when I was like 13 😁

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  • 1 month later...

I just hired a guy.  Almost fell through because he told me no kissing and no oral.  I told him that the I could live with the no oral by him, ( I really was more interested in giving anyway, but no kissing was a deal killer.  He reconsidered as he had been getting colds and felt that was the cause,  but I guess he needed the job.   But he apparently gets enough work to  pay his bills.  But the thing that puzzles me the most is that while a top, he provides a BFE experience.  Who doesn't kiss their boyfriend?

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On 1/10/2023 at 5:34 PM, Jamie21 said:

Yes I found it surprising, especially given he’s an escort. It’s like being a carpenter but having an issue with sawdust. 
The only issue I have with cum is if it’s in my hair, so difficult to get out. 

Reminds me of the old song" I'm gonna wash that man right out of my hair".

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  • 7 months later...

While I'm recently new/back to this, every guy I've met up with so far (even those who don't identify as gay) has automatically started off with kissing and making out.

Perhaps the oxytocin hit helps them make everything work? In fact, my only repeat pretty much needs to be making out with me in order to finish off for himself.

Hope I don't ever run across these no kissing guys!

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On 3/2/2023 at 5:54 AM, pubic_assistance said:

When I was younger and hooking up a lot, I also noticed when a dude wanted to make out I always ended up with a cold or flu. So I stuck to down-n-dirty hook ups for years. Never got sick from a hook up again.

For me it's the opposite.  Making out is fine for me, but I get a sore throat when I deep throat someone.    That's why I try to move from making out to anal with only a little oral if they are big.

 

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I saw that a masseur I've seen a few times had an escort ad, so I paid the extra for an escort session.  When I asked if we could kiss it was a closed-lip almost grandmotherly kiss.  When I asked if he'd suck me it was 90% a handjob, I don't think he got more than the tip of my cock in his mouth.  I think I'll stick with his massage sessions.

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