Monarchy79

7 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

And @Monarchy79and @pubic_assistance need to stop spreading that false propaganda making it seem like I’m the reason and fault for everything that I encounter. No, it’s not.

If what we are saying is “false”, why are you so triggered by it? 

Only a hit dog hollers….

And you Sir, are howling and hollering. . 

The shoe fits perfectly, you might as well wear it…. 

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

It’s a million other threads to respond and read. You don’t have to throw shade on my discussion, which is doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to better the situation and only serving to ignore and minimize the issue.

So please, leave. It’s nothing else to talk about ☮️ ✌

Ummmm…..Sir…..

This isn’t your private website, nor do you have any proprietary rights to this forum.  
Therefore, you do not have any leverage to tell me to exit a thread or dictate to anyone  how to comment. 
 

The only thing you own is that sophomoric soapbox you continue to carry around with your redundant rants and complaints on how “bad”, and “wrong” everyone else is. 
 

And guess what? I don’t even care. You can fuss, complain, argue, and type long posts until steam shoots out of your ears. 
 

More power to you. This changes nothing. You proved me right in your posts. Another former escort tried to give you sound well-intended advice (with no sarcasm or ill intent) and you shat on that. 
 

The truth about you is that you live in a microcosm of cognitive dissonance and no solution will ever suit you because you don’t want one. Your pathology is centered on fighting, arguing, drama and problems. You are a repellant of peace. You’ll find issues in every single thing you do.  You are the nucleus of your own misery. 

On 9/26/2023 at 9:52 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

The majority of Americans are unhappy in their jobs. And even those who like or love what they do have bad times and need to vent. Why is Jarrod not afforded the same latitude? 

Because he’s worn out his welcome with complaining. His trajectory of whining, complaining, defensiveness and irate behavior spans YEARS. 
 

if you read the threads over this extended period of time, you’ll see people go from having empathy towards him to full out exasperation. 
 

I’m one of those people. I used to attempt at seeing things through his lens, and trying to give him some type of deference, but no more. He doesn’t deserve it. The moment anyone tries to suggest a solution to his problems in a way that holds him accountable, he throws tantrums. 
 

So to hell with it. Let him do him and just enjoy the messy entertainment. 

2 minutes ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Bro please, keep that well wish to yourself because you don’t mean it. Especially after everything you just said above that. Don’t come to me with that fake well wish, and you lie in your sincerity.

You clearly have animosity against me, and it shows in your post. You can’t even make up your mind whether you’re for me or against me. You know the stuff I say is accurate, but you only side with the parts that you can relate with. Yet, you disparage my business model, and have no basis on anything directly relating to what I say.
 

You don’t have to defend me. Leave. I can do that all on my own. I’m not here to have you defend me. Sorry you were mistaken And you don’t even know the half of everything. Go to my RentMen ad right now, and see all the good reviews. What circles are you talking about? 
 

I can talk about whatever I want to talk about. Other posters like @Simon Suraciand @BenjaminNicholas are actually using factual and informative dialogue that understands what I’m dealing with, and takes that into sound. It’s not always about you, me or a common denominator. I have a right to express things in a way how I feel it needs to be said, and I said it exactly how I wanted. Some of these guys do come off impatient, and needy and passive aggressive. But I don’t need them to use that as leverage while they dangle money and then try to take it away from me. I don’t need them. For every client who falls thru, I always find someone else to replace. 
 

My issue with you is, you’re getting accusatory and talking condescending to me and trying to embarrass me. And I’m not even with it anymore. See your way out, please. Leave…

I have no animosity towards you. The only feeling I have towards you is sincere pity. 

And I’m saddened by it. 

Watching you waste precious time fighting with potential clients, members of this forum, (and now me), is troubling. 

I agree with you wholeheartedly…. You have every right to express yourself however you choose. But if you have the same issues over and over and there is never a resolution, yet your approach to them doesn’t change.. What good comes out of that? Absolutely nothing. 
 

1 minute ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

See, now you’re trying to be funny and I’m having a hard time believing if you say you weren’t trying to offend me. Because right here you’re now trying to insinuate something. When you say problems and common denominator, I know what you’re trying to do. And personally it’s non of your business what we discussed, that’s why it’s therapy in the first place.

Mind your own, please. Thankyou very much. 

Ohhhh… I smell a trigger….

And the reason for this trigger is because deep down in your soul, you know the common demoninator . It’s you. 
 

Not trying to offend you at all,
but you need to hear this. 
This is why other guys in the comments give you snarky remarks. It’s because they know it’s you. And this is why you keep going in circles, being presented with the same drama over and over.. month after month, year after year. The universe is trying to tell you it’s you. 
 

Until you rework your energy, your attitude, your baggage, your past trauma, and jaded parts of your past, you’ll never have peace. 
 

The only person who refuses to see this is you. Helen Keller, Stevie Winder and Ray Charles can all see this. 
 

I’ve defended you when others tire of your consistent ranting and whining, and I’ve even given you grace when others flat out insult you.

But you sir, need a reality check. A hard one. And until you do some introspective work, you’ll be forever angry, forever frustrated, and  perpetually bitter.

I sincerely wish you well. 

1 minute ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I don’t care anymore. I don’t even care if a client is in the same hotel as me, I will STILL require a deposit before I leave my room or give out mine. 

And in a few weeks or months… guess what your next rant is going to be? 
 

“These guys are horrible.. I’m losing prospective clients because they don’t want to adhere to my deposit guidelines.”

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

You say therapy like I’m supposed to be offended. Guess what? I went to a counselor. We would meet every 1 to 2 weeks. He knew also I am a sex worker. And he basically told me everything that I already know: lot of people project their bullshit on me, and are inconsiderate: and he didn’t recommend any medication or psych meds that will change that. And I went to a Black, gay, MARRIED counselor. Not some straight Protestant or evangelical White therapist who likely wouldn’t understand my position. But then again, maybe they would because: they’re usually the ones who know what these weirdos are thinking and why they do the shit they do. I confide in them often and they tell me stuff that doesn’t surprise me at all 😆 
 

I even suggested medication lol, because hell: that’s probably why many in the industry smoke weed and/or other anyway. But he said it’s just my personality and level of tolerance, and gave me some recommendations for anger management. And I definitely managed my anger yesterday because, the old me-(when I was younger) would have took a 🧱 or 🔨 to his window, did doughnuts in his yard, spray paint his door…anything. All I did this time was gently blow the loud horn a few times in front of his house, then I left and wrote an informative comment to warn others not to fall for this fraud. 
 

Plus : I also didn’t have full proof that was HIS actual home, and I know how innocent people often get caught up in unintended drama. Plus there is a story in Kansas City about a Black teen ringing a door bell, and getting shot. So, I rather take the Christian route: leave it in God’s hands, but warn thou fellows of the devil ☝️
 

How about this: worry about your own therapy. Or better yet, I’m not going to attack you because you’re innocent in this. Why don’t I email you the phone numbers of all the guys who do these things, and you text bomb them in one big group message, and suggest them get therapy, because clearly they are the one with the issue. I’m just minding my business, taking calls and texts. THEY are the one doing stupid inconsiderate shit, and poking the bear. I was having a perfectly fine day and plans of my own. 
 

I’ll go ahead and send you that list of clients you need to refer to therapy. Thankyou for the suggestion.

I specifically stated in my comment that it wasn’t intended for you to be offended. 
 

Now let me ask you this… in your therapy sessions, did he make a clear determination of the common denominator in all of your problems? Was he able to at least make this determination? 

22 minutes ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

t’s like saying: getting whipped is bad, but you must be willing to grow a thicker skin! No, how about those who are doing the whipping stop and educate themselves, stop being an ass and treat each other better 🤷🏾‍♂️

And THIS is your Achilles heel babe…..

You must understand that a lot of guys are ass-wholes. And they are universal ass-wholes. Their behavior isn’t about you, and you can’t “change”, or “teach”, them anything. 
leopards don’t change their spots, tigers don’t change their stripes, and men don’t change their antics. The best you can do is control how your react to people. 
 

Ignoring people and being unbothered is the biggest flex of all time. And it eats away at obnoxious guys…. Trust me. 
 

The time you waste arguing with men you’ll probably never meet, could he spent on better things, like maneuvering to build worthwhile clientele, enjoying a hobby, or just relaxing. 
 

Stop allowing people to play you out of your energy. 

1 hour ago, sf westcoaster said:

Jarrod, you have a rather long list of treads that express frustration with your profession, It  is becoming increasingly clear that you need to change to smoother job/profession.

 

That won’t help. 
No matter what one does, or where they go, they will always take themselves with them. 
 

Jerrod needs therapy. 
 

I’m not being sarcastic or facetious when suggesting this either. 
 

Otherwise, no matter what profession he explores, he will always have complaints and issues. 
 

9 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

And I really don’t think “massage” clients are any more reliable either. Case in point from the other night. Why are you calling me at 1:45 a.m.? Yeah I was awake, but I wasn’t about to be leaving my place for some sloppy last minute invite when I asked him twice the other day prior to confirm 🤦🏾‍♂️ 

 

Mistake #1, 

You replied to the text.

Mistake # 2,

You defended your rate.

“Never complain, never explain.” 

57 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Yes.

You've been telling us that for years.

When are you retiring and finally solving this problem ?

 

Stop being mean and nasty. 
if the man is frustrated and need a sounding board, give him the grace to do it here. 

 

11 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I'm gonna put this out there, but have you ever considered that clients treat you worse because you're a provider of color?

Can of worms conversation, I know.

But...  Let's be real.

I feel like minorities in this industry get the shit end of the stick a lot of times.

True Words….

However, minorities (specifically blacks) get shit treatment in just about every industry. I know from experience, and managed to come out on top every time. 
 

The key to succeeding in any business when you are black is to understand that you’re going to have people who will attempt at many forms of ill will towards you, but strategizing to navigate through it.  And note, this dynamic of disrespect and disregard includes other black people and other minorities as well (we get crap from just about all groups).  In Jerrod’s case, all of his clients can be problematic. The problem with Jerrod is that he has failed to understand human nature, the bias that comes with human nature, and he has not properly adjusted his expectations of people with the realities of people. Then the poor guy always winds up disappointment, and frustrated. 

I want to personally gift him the full collection of Robert Greene books (with a focus on “The Laws of Human Nature”) and just reprogram his thinking. 

The world (and the people in it) with never change. Black people who understand this, are the ones who succeed, in any business. 
 

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The “ Mint Chill” ones give a nice cooling sensation and fresh scent. 

I have them at work and at home. 
 

Greetings Guys, 

Any experience/feedback with this new guy?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46020/

Free to post here or message me privately, 

Kind Regards, 

-M-

I’ve seen him before. He has no massage skills. 

On 8/2/2023 at 2:40 PM, Spiritualadvisor said:

It would be great if the liars can be exposed on this forum. 

Why? The site would crash. Both providers and clients lie about many things, from their health, age, weight, etc., etc. 

People lie about various things for various reasons. The key is not to believe with much of what anyone tells you, and prepare and protect yourself. Your well-being is your sole responsibility. 
 

Altering one’s sex practices based on what some guy tells you is just as silly as removing your seatbelt on the highway, based on what other drivers tell you. 
 

Anyone in any profession earning $300+ an hour isn’t really that impacted by inflation. These rate hikes are simply the result of one of the simple principles of capitalism: if people are willing to pay the rate, then charge that rate. 
 

He’s fantastic. He has other comment threads on here confirming this as well. 
 

3 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

There is a provider that posts on these forums quite frequently who would benefit from a handler, and is in no danger of being exploited.

….. I’d love to be that provider’s handler and therapist….. 

I’d love to be a pimp. 

On 5/27/2023 at 4:00 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Or more like an overlap.

I see a LOT of escorts advertising on massage sites and they have NO idea how to massage

At least half of them have the decency to UNcheck the "Therapeutic" option on their profile.

Although some dont even have an intention of massaging you. I asked one fellow about his therapeutic massage rates and he answered it was $400. I countered that maybe he didn't understand me..I was asking about MASSAGE. He answered that it was all the same rate for one hour.

So I'm guessing his "massage" was going to be a lot of lotion and rubbing his dick in my face. 🙄

I’m glad you made this point. This recent crop of “masseurs”, over the past 5 years have found the magic formula to scam the naive…. These are the guys who want the RATES of an escort, but don’t want to perform the DUTIES of an escort. 
 

So these guys ( usually young, good looking with nice bodies) get on Rentmasseur, (with zero massage skills) advertise “just ask”, rates (usually starting around $200-$300). Once  they find their lustful sucker, the poor chap ends up with baby oil slathered over him for a few minutes which follows with  a mediocre tug, while the masseur shakes his dick in his face, calls this an “erotic” experience, collects his cash sending the victim on his way, snookered…..and waits for his next victim. 

Be careful when hiring, and pay attention to the signs. Don’t be lured by a hot profile. 

Hollywood’s strike is specific to unionized workers in that industry. 
 

The industry you work in is not regulated, and leans further towards individual entrepreneurship for each individual who works in your line of business. 
 

So if you (and possibly a few others) go on strike, the only major thing  that could possibly happen is this:

The savvy providers (who aren’t on strike)  would capitalize from all of the lost business the strikers gave away and will welcome your past and potential clients with open arms.

Then you’d come back from your strike possible having to start from scratch to rebuild clientele, and secure work. 
 

Strikes are a major gamble. Play wisely. 

Throughout the U.S., the market has been infiltrated with guys who are looking for a quick money grab. 
 

many have found that the “Rentmasseur” massage “business”, is an easy way to scam guys. 

1 minute ago, Coolwave35 said:

I know you are but what am I!  

I’ll tell you exactly what you are:

a 

C-onsistently U-nbelievably N-auseating T-error.

40 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

Oh my God, thank you so much for weighing in. I see it all so differently now. Your feedback has changed my perspective in ways I couldn’t have ever imagined when I started this thread. I am forever in your debt.

One more thing.

This is a forum and in a forum, people are allowed to state their opinions on the topic at hard. People like you, who feel the need to throw in snarky, nasty comments is the reason why so many gays hate communicating with each other. Because some miserable queen always has to throw “shade” in the mix and ruin the flow of the discussion. 
 

Grow up.