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Monarchy79

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  1. I know I’m going to get scolded for this... so I’ll first say that I’m truly sorry for the poster’s experience.

     

    I would like to emphasize the importance of clarity and saying “NO”.

     

    This whole massage/masseur thing is complex, specifically because the MTs have to give and read queues from the client, especially with more sensual aspects of massage, when YMMV is involved.

     

    With a single MT, he has a variety of clients, some who probably are begging for the massage to go into full on sex, others who want none at all, and others who want something in between.

     

    I’ve had instances where the massage got erotic, we’re both oiled up, and he started “knocking at the door”, and as that door was opening up... I immediately locked that door up “kegels”, lifted my head out of that headrest and told him “no thanks”, and the massage continued and was a lot of fun.

     

    I’m not at all blaming the victim, but I want to also make clear that there are two sides of this interaction... this MT may have been reading your queues as passive acceptance...

     

    It’s easy to call someone a rapist because you didn’t want it... but how are they supposed to know you didn’t want it, if you didn’t tell them “No”?

     

    Again, I want to reiterate that I am in no way shaming the poster.

  2. I completely understand... it’s also never a reason to be rude or disrespectful..... and although you feel that you wasted some of your time, at least, you didn’t waste your money...

     

    Imagine if he did schedule an appointment with you, the energy would have been so bad, and his touch would have been so disengaged, that you would have being angrier after wasting a few bucks to really know of his “preferences”.

    I personally wish all MTs would State their preferences, so I can scroll through what’s for me and be at ease, knowing we will both enjoy the session ☺️

  3. I’m sorry but many of the commenters are being flat out hipocrites.

     

    The truth is that EVERYONE has prejudices and that includes you all... the same archetypes that you claim he discriminates against (old, fat, hairy, Asian, etc.), are the same ones you are discriminating against.... because none of you are seeking out older, fatter, or Asian masseurs. All men are superficial and prejudicial, and it’s not fair, but sometimes you will be on the receiving end of such prejudices and sometimes you’ll be the one discriminating.

     

    My very first masseur didn’t particularly like massaging black men (and he was black LOL), and I wished he would have stated that initially so I wouldn’t have wasted my money on such a bad massage... so at least give this guy credit for being honest.

     

    If he’s a jerk, then everyone’s a jerk, because you all picked a classically good looking in-shape, white guy... and is shaming him for preferring what’s in his own likeness... another classically good looking, in-shape white guy....

     

    Now go and find a MT, that’s a good fit for you and have fun.... because no amount of money in the world can force someone to be “into” you...

  4. Paul gives an outstanding massage.

    He gets knots out, uses aromatherapy, heat packs, and he even snapped one of my wrists back in place too.

     

    In terms of everything else, the vibe was awesome, and the entire experience was great. I’ve been to him about five times, and will definitely go back.

     

    But this definitely is subjective, based on the energy between the client and the therapist.... I say give him a try!!!

  5. Why in hell should a masseur disclose that?!?!

     

    No offense, but the idea of demanding that perpetuates stigmas of those who are positive.... as if someone could catch HIV from being touched.... (that’s so early 1980s)

     

     

    However, if the massage goes down a sexual route, one should always behave using sound judgment and personal responsibility, and should treat every encounter in a way that preserves your own health.

  6. I've used Jim about 3 times for a two hour massage and he's therapeutic, but outstanding!!!!

     

    He knows how to use the perfect amount of pressure to get rid of knots, and knows the proper strokes to soothe Sore areas too (like IT bands)..... He also incorporates stretching into his technique as well.

     

    Although I wouldn't mind if the massage went towards the sensual route, I'm not at all disappointed. He's an excellent massage therapist, and definitely worth every cent!!!

  7. Following up wth this post, if anyone has had a massage at Aura Spa, at the Yards location, please PM me ASAP.

     

    I have some questions, not related to HEs or any fun, but I'm conducting some research as there's a massage therapist there who is possibly homophobic.

     

    Thanks

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