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Well congratulations, it happened again. I-40 west.

 

I told them there’s nothing to be found, but if they wanted to waste an hour of time searching...Go ahead now, I’ll do mine later.

 

I want to say I’m done with roadtrips, I’m just going to stick with flying. But even then...going thru TSA is the conveyor belt equivalent of a traffic stop.

 

It’s like one of the male porn stars on Twitter who’s sex toys were exposed in the TSA line.

 

It’s just a fucked up society we live in. Shit makes you want to leave because living in so much fear and anxiety. At the same time theres nothing to be scared of. They ask what I do? I’m a traveling male stripper. Here’s my card...

 

I’m convinced if you’re not some white family with kids like the movie “we’re the millers”, there’s always going to be some suspicion when traveling alone.

Please be safe. I feel better knowing you’re not traveling alone on the road anymore.

In some areas of the country his body would be considered average

I don’t think the standards of “beauty” are regional, but more so demographic, specifically in “straight” world vs. “gay” world.

A gay man’s “ugly”, is a straight man’s “average”.

A gay man’s “average”, is a straight man’s “good looking”

A gay man’s “good looking”, is a straight man’s “unattainably gorgeous”.

I always tell people that there are two areas of life where you will spend your entire life being scrutinized for your looks and feel the pressure to maintain your looks until the grave: 1.) being a professional model, and 2.) being a gay man.

The reason why gyms are packed with gay men isn’t because they are health conscious... it’s because they have to maintain a certain standard of physical attractiveness in order to have a sex life and find a mate (for a friendship, relationship, random sex, etc.)

Those who get out of the matrix of superficial bullshit either do onenof the following:

1.) say “fuck it”, and let themselves go and live a happy life, without seeking validation, and just orders escorts.

2.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a vice: (drugs, food, alcohol)

3.) Says “fuck it”, and becomes a hermit.

4.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a depression

Or .....

Says “fuck it”, exits out of the matrix, reprogrammed his values and sense of reality, lives his life to the fullest and focused of self-value, authenticity, and is clear of seeking the validation of others. ☺️??

Another point I’ll make, is that there is a possibility that the escort doesn’t see himself in the same image that many of the commenters see him. Just as many men in general have warped perceptions of themselves. It’s a screwed up cycle of men in general. Many guys think that they look better than they actually do.... this is why we commonly see the following:

1.) men lying about their age, when they obviously look older than their ACTUAL age

2.) men chasing around “hot” guys they never seem to get, all the while ignoring men who look JUST like them.

3.) men on apps tearing appart and objectivfying the looks of an escort/masseur, to such extremes, while not taking into consideration their own faults and flaws.

Everyone has types and preferences and that’s fine.... but many of you guys are waaaaay to bratty and bitchy about it... and only correct your ways when you are suddenly on the receiving end of the “troll treatment”.....

This is why lesbians are so damn happy.... no men... lol???

I have to side with those who are horrified at the negative crap being posted about this gentlemen!

 

Would I hire him? No. Would I hire and have sex with myself? NO!

 

We each are drawn to what attracts us personally - to our type! When people question if they have a “type” I tell them to imagine that they are on the crowded midway of a major State Fair - MOBS of people. Who catches you eye and your think WOW!

 

I happen to like slender men with regular endowment! I am thankful that those I connect with have evolved enough to see me beyond my phyical carcass! Often beauty & connection are within. There is much more than body and penis size.

 

I am sure there are clients who are excited to find Howie.

 

A HIGH percentage of the time I look at providers raved about by guys on these forums and think “OMG - really? UGH!” But I don’t post it!

 

To each your own. Surely we can be more accepting of all our differences.

 

I know that I have to make Key West next winter! There is a slender young provider there that has been on my list for too long!!!!!!!!

Good Post!!!

I think what bothers me most is how shallow, arrogant, delusional, and entitled men can be (both gay and straight)... a guy can be a “2”, and will affirm with ultimate confidence that he has no interest than anyone below a “7”.

On dating apps, there are fat old men, who strictly demand the company and dating of only slim, young men.

Although people have the right to have whatever preferences they choose, it cracks me the hell up how so many guys reach beyond their own “standing”, and absolutely degrade those that are actually their equals...

Now I’m a 39 year old black guy in average shape.... I find other black guys in my same age range in the same shape attractive.... do you know how many of these clowns in my same range refuse to even acknowledge my existence because they are reaching “higher”.... (yet never get what they are asking for) ???????

I just think that men in general have an extremely deluded sense of true self-awareness......

This goes to show how shallow and delusional men are....

I actually commend this overweight escort for his confidence.

What’s ironic is that he looks no different that most of the customers that escorts have.

Yes, I said it!!!

Many of you all will fat

shame and judge someone else, but demand “respect”, and consideration when the “troll shoe” is on your foot...

Many of you should be ashamed of yourselves.

People are such hipocrites... and the “customer is always right”, mentality is pure toxic bullshit.

If customers can post commentary on masseurs (many people tear them down and unfairly trash them with ill intent), then why can’t a masseur address an issue he had with a client? He didn’t mention the person’s name or any other identifying information.

As a customer, it makes my blood boil, how some of you think that just because you are paying for a service, that you have the “right”, to have one-sided benefits that cater to your egoes.

Some of you don’t realize it, but some of you are BAD CUSTOMERS and teeter along the lines of social retardation.

“Lavender Guy”, stalked this masseur on another site, then after being rejected, finds out he is a masseur, and then books an appointment with the intent of manipulating him into sex. When the masseur doesn’t fall for the catfishing, he then lies about an allergy and demands a refund.

This dude is beyond “involuntary celibacy”, and creeped me the hell out.

There’s no way he should be excused for his behavior, nor should the masseur keep quiet.

Actually, he should warn other masseurs about this guy... he’s a safety risk!!!

Not to veer off topic, but I will admit that I’ve always secretly had dreams of having a lavish wedding, but a wedding where I marry myself.

Every time I’ve broached the subject to friends, they’ve all told me that I’m crazy...

Is the idea of marrying oneself that ridiculous?

And I can take the criticism, so let ‘er rip if you like...

Do you mean that you find this offensive or unbelievable?

 

The more educated and high earning a woman is, the smaller the pool of male equals, let alone betters. That’s before we even take into account the fact that some men are turned off by such women.

 

Most women have a primal drive to children. At some point, the window for that closes, and they become more willing to compromise.

 

Hell, there are sites where women and men who want children can find men who will both donate the sperm and coparent with them.

Didn’t find your statement offensive or unbelievable... I just don’t think that the percentage of women that you’re referencing is that high.

It is my belief (from what I’ve observed in my life), that regardless of her education, status, or financial standing, most women want to be taken care of, which includes a man that can provide.

So although there are women who fall into what you’ve described, there are still tons of women getting married everyday, to become housewives.

My post was a response to the claim that women marry for financial security.

I know....

I was questioning your response that women marry “down”, to have children. ☺️

Actually, most marry to have children. That’s why you see women marrying men who make less than they do.

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Well... if you’re going to do it, go for the gusto..

I personally think most marriages (of all kinds) are shams:

1.) straight women marry for financial security

2.) straight men marry to have a woman cook, clean, manage his life and wash his dirty underwear.

3.) gay guys marry to combine incomes, and maximize vacation budgets and spending power (while screwing whomever they want in the process)

So the wedding is usually the best part of any marriage..

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Hello Fellas,

As many of us spend our hard earned money on massages, we have expectations.... when going to a spa, we expect a draped, formal massage technique, that leaves our muscles feeling relieved and rested. However, when ordering massage services from a site like RM, or MF our expectations are a bit different. Without placing reviews, now is the time for you to simply list those masseurs, who have left you feeling confused, cheated, played, mystified with the idea of a sensorial experience, all to be left with blue balls and an empty wallet.

I’m talking about the guys who are flat out teases, and make their money off of selling an erotic IDEA, and false hopes... please post the RM or MF link of your massage tease.

We can all now save our hard earned money, and not allow tempting pics and innuendo to play us.

Had he started by providing all the additional context that might be the case, but he held it back until the thread wasn't really going gangbusters in his direction, then he layers in the additional details to make the client look worse and worse and himself look better and better. It's manipulative and apparently most of you have fallen for it. What makes you think he won't do the exact same thing to you if you are his client?

 

 

 

 

 

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I really feel like the additional information Dale added to the scenario brough proper context to the situation. And it actually showed how manipulative the client was trying to be.

60 min... the irony is this guy has hit me up on scruff and grindr many many times to "hookup" and i have always declined, so then he scheduled a massage and i didnt realize who it was until i got there. NOW i realize he was just being a prissy little rejected bitch. these fools are too much sometimes

That’s quite disturbing and teeters along the lines of stalking. Be careful and aware of your surroundings.... because this dude sounds absolutely nuts.

thanks...thats what i was thinking. he said he broke out in hives all over and made a huge fuss over it yet he was inked up almost everywhere on his body so i am wondering why someone like that would be such a "cupcake" ? i think he just wanted me to fuck him and got upset when i rejected the idea.

The plot thickens!!!

I knew there was more to this story... you didn’t provide him with the expected “services”, so he then demands a refund for his “allergy”....

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1.) If he’s allergic to lavender, I’m wonderig why he didn’t specify this allergy prior to the massage.

2.) Did he not smell the lavender as he was being massaged with the lotion? Lavender has a distinctive smell. I find it strange that he didn’t notice this during the massage.

3.) If you showed him pics of the lotion used, would he be willing to show you pics of his allergic reaction to the product?

I know I’m going to get slammed for this, but in my opinion, he shouldn’t be refunded. His allergy is HIS responsibility.

For example, if a customer has a specific food allergy, and they visit a restaurant and order a meal, they typically confirm if that ingredient is in the dish they want, prior to ordering it. They don’t eat the food, without verification, then demand a refund after they’ve eaten the food and have had an allergic reaction.

Lavender is a commonly used aromatherapy product. If one received a massage, it would make sense to ask if it is being used, if there’s an existing allergy.

However, if you do decide to give him a refund, inform your local peers in the business of this customer’s allergy.... just in case he’s running a scam.

Also, now you can ask prospective clients if they have any allergies before performing massages. ☺️

1 - my experience has been that folks who use PrEP are more knowledgeable about other STIs and completely aware that PrEP does not protect against them - it's not that we are not thinking about it, it's that we accept a certain amount of risk, and we are connected with healthcare professionals with whom we can be open, and we follow the guidelines of seeing your doctor for follow up visits every 3 months

 

2 - when you are starting PrEP, your doctor asks you what other medications you take - in fact, being asked by your doctor what medications you take, to allow the doctor to prescribe responsibly and educate you on the medications you are taking, is standard practice and is no different when the conversation is about PrEP

 

3 - the medication that is PrEP has been around for well over a decade and has been well-studied - we know what the risks are, and people who use PrEP are, in my experience, well-versed in what side effects and long-term effects might be and part of the quarterly doctor's visits are to determine if there have been any adverse effects - like all medications, we could find out decades from now something that we don't yet know, but my experience is that most folks who take PrEP are willing to accept that risk

 

4 - there is no indication that another STI would diminish the body's ability to absorb PrEP, nor is there any reason to believe that PrEP would not work well because of another infection - the uptake of medication is not the same as your body's immune system taking on a bacterial infection - also, the medications in PrEP work on a cellular level preventing the VIRUS from replicating itself

 

i understand how it can seem careless and reckless for folks to take PrEP and bareback and you correctly state that the guidance on the use of PrEP includes other techniques for maintaining safety, but your other assertions are not based on reality - they are logical leaps that challenge the science and the lived experiences of those of us who choose to take PrEP - i implore you to educate yourself on how PrEP works in the body - there's a vast body of research out there, and the facts are easily google-able

Thanks for the response and the detailed commentary, very insightful!!!

Hello all,

Please send me a PM about your experience with Bodytendr as well.

Thanks and have a great Sunday

He is just being logical, not a smart ass....

The following quote from the poster wasn’t “logic”, it was sarcasm:

“You will notice there are no ads for tampons in magazines that target gay men, but lots of ads for tampons in magazines that target women.”

Now of course tampons wouldn’t be advertised in magazines catering to the gay male audience (or any male audience for that matter), as men do not anatomically/biologically have a need for tampons.

However, Truvada can be used by both genders, and women are now using it as well, and have stated their disappointment in this drug only being advertised to gay men, as they have a need for it as well.

The other misconception is that gay men were the original targeted group formthe drug. It wasn’t. The drug was originally targeted for sex workers.

The tampon statement was a sarcastic approach to diminish my point about the advertising of the drug. It wasn’t necessary.

From being on this site, I’ve learned a lot from these forums and I enjoy the sharing of knowledge.

We can do this without being catty, sarcastic, passive-aggressive, and menacing with our comments. Our community has enough of this. Let these forums be a place where we can share information, respectfully disagree and learn without the bull shit.

We all know that the government, physicians, the World Health Organization, and virtually every LGBT health organization is targeting men who have sex with men in a campaign to encourage the use of Truvada as PrEP. They did the same with advertisements for condom usage as a measure to prevent the spread of disease, HIV testing (still do, actually), and for discussing HIV status. As @quoththeraven stated, men who have sex with men are targeted because they are at greatest risk of acquiring HIV. You will notice there are no ads for tampons in magazines that target gay men, but lots of ads for tampons in magazines that target women.

 

Frankly, I was expecting to see evidence of a conspiracy to give gay men a pill that would harm, rather than help them. The sources you provided do not do that. Instead, they discuss the research that has concluded that Truvada is effective at preventing the spread of HIV when taken as prescribed.

 

 

 

Speaking of research, a simple Google search will reveal that Truvada was approved as a treatment for HIV in 2004. (It is prescribed as part of a "cocktail" of one or more additional drugs). Eight years later, in 2012, it was approved for use as a prevention method. This is hardly a treatment that was discovered yesterday and rushed to market.

You made some very valid points. Unfortunately they were overshadowed with the smear of sarcasm....

Being a smart ass always kills the ability to bring forth understanding on any topic. I don’t know why people think it holds any value.

That’s awful!!!

Thanks for the heads up

That’s awful!!!

Thanks for the heads up!!!

Bumping again, to see if anyone has tried him....

Thanks, I’ll review all...

Uh Oh.....

Lol

I would enjoy reading any links or data you could provide to support this, thanks.

Absolutely:

http://hiv.rutgers.edu/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/PrEP-Readiness-for-New-Jersey-Final-Version-2015.pdf

https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/51934/cdc_51934_DS1.pdf

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newsweek.com/cdc-recommends-prep-americans-high-risk-hiv-397963?amp=1

Also, ask any heterosexual male if his doctor has recommended PrEP for him. Then ask any gay male the same question. I can guarantee you the straight guy probably has no clue as to what PrEP even is.

Also, take a peek at any gay themed magazine (Out, the Advicate, etc. ) they are loaded with Truvada ads.

Magazines targeting wider audiences have no such advertisements.

I’m not saying this is good or bad, but just stating that the homosexual male is the marketing target for the PrEP program.