Yep, I can relate to this. While I am not looking for love in these encounters, sometimes you find a provider that make you FEEL desired. Even when it is just 'make believe' in the end, it makes the experience amazing and you keep wanting to hire again. As other have said, a lot of it boils down to the professionalism of a "true" escort who puts the client at the center and works to please them, making sure they are getting a good experience and leave with a smile in their faces. That's an art and skill not everyone on RM has, unfortunately, even for the same price range. Last year I passed through several meh experiences one after the other that made me question whether I was just wasting money finding a needle in a haystack.
I am lucky enough to have found two such providers and even when they are far from me geographically, I try to hire them when they come my way or I happen to be in their town. I always feel great afterwards and the smile doesn't lie