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Same here. I sometimes would like to do it (love the idea of watching myself, like a porn clip) but still too scared to actually do it. I would also be distracted knowing I am being recorded.

The casual xenophobia of people in the US will never cease to amaze me. Sure, being new to the area and having no reviews is an issue. But the comments about gang membership, jeez.

Couldn't agree more. RanchBaron is one of the best hires I have ever had: super sexy daddy, very friendly, down to earth, intuitive, really focused on how to get the client satisfied. It's always nice when you meet a provider that leaves you with a big smile on your face and this was certainly the case. Highly recommend him.

Hi Juan, I guess you made it to Company of Men, welcome to the community 🥴. I repeat what I said: all your "expertise" does not show where it should.

Could you recommend a few? I have never been to a gay spa for the purpose of a massage. I have been to gay saunas in Europe, but only for cruising. When it comes to massages, I prefer incall.

You post that you are versatile/bottom. Also, generally speaking, I have learnt not to judge whether someone is top/bottom/vers based solely on their appearance. I have seen buff types being exclusive bottoms, and some more femme little guys being raunchy tops. A book is not to be judged by its cover. So, no, the fact that you may consider that "everything about me screams bottom" is based on a big assumption not everyone shares. If you don't want to top for a client, list yourself as "bottom" only - it is as simple as that.

My favorite is Fabio https://rentmen.eu/FabioBrazilian

I would most certainly go.

Yep, I can relate to this. While I am not looking for love in these encounters, sometimes you find a provider that make you FEEL desired. Even when it is just 'make believe' in the end, it makes the experience amazing and you keep wanting to hire again. As other have said, a lot of it boils down to the professionalism of a "true" escort who puts the client at the center and works to please them, making sure they are getting a good experience and leave with a smile in their faces. That's an art and skill not everyone on RM has, unfortunately, even for the same price range. Last year I passed through several meh experiences one after the other that made me question whether I was just wasting money finding a needle in a haystack. I am lucky enough to have found two such providers and even when they are far from me geographically, I try to hire them when they come my way or I happen to be in their town. I always feel great afterwards and the smile doesn't lie

He's coming yet again to NYC soon and I am forever tempted to hire him... Not sure I could handle that size though 😮

Yep. He said his name is Eran or Eren. Originally from Turkey 😍

No, he was traveling in the North East, came to my town. Said he had been based in NYC but travels along the East Coast. He did show me the goods on a private message 😮 - No cause of concern AT ALL down there. He's probably a bit shy given that he is skinny rather than muscular, but I loved that. He's super friendly.

Update: I negotiated a lower price (300, which is the standard imo) and he sent me some other pics via text. I decided to take the plunge, as I love tall skinny guys. Pleasantly surprised! Definitely will hire him again when he comes back to my town.

Roughly once a month, although in the last few months it has climbed to two a month. I live in a smallish town, so not that many available. When I am in NYC I let myself go a bit on the wild side I am also having Grindr hookups, but imo there's something alluring about the transactional nature of an escort experience. Makes it somehow more exciting.

I did reach out to him, but was asking for 400. For a new ad with only 3 photos, with no reviews on RM, that´s a hard pass for me.

Has anyone here hired Chris Damned? He's one of my favorite pornstars, love his OF content. Seriously considering taking the plunge... https://rentmen.eu/chris_damned

Hired him twice, once as a masseur and once as an escort. The massage was quite sexy, using all his body. He's super good looking, but seemed stern in his manners. Not too friendly. Having experienced a very good massage, decided to hire him as an escort a few months later. Big mistake. Stern and serious as before, but this time uninterested and absent minded, as if "doing me a favor". Quite harsh in his attitude too. He needed to watch porn to keep himself hard. Not a pleasant experience. Won't repeat.

Hahaha thanks. I mean, the reviews seem quite good, I have to admit...

I am very tempted to hire Mike Gaite as an escort, given the raving reviews here and elsewhere, but the vibe I get from his OnlyFans videos makes me wonder... Over there he seems a bit absent minded? His RM description suggests he is more in the affectionate side? I don't know. Sitting on the fence on this one...

I met Max twice in the last few months. He has been traveling along the East Coast. Contrasting other reviews here, both times were really good massage-wise. Strong hands, good pressure, focused also on hands and feet. He did mention he is trying to combine massage therapy and counseling, so maybe he got trained recently? Unfortunately no happy ending for either time (didn't ask for it, but he did not offer it either), but I would certainly repeat for the massage part.

Yep. Visited him a few days ago. The massage itself went beyond, and the beyond was VERY good. He mentioned he's leaving the US over winter but should be returning in the spring.

For me, the forking path of decision-making goes like this: (a) Photos (b) Face photos* (c) Description/Services offered/Intos (d) Length in RM and number of reviews (is this a new profile? is this likely to be false? etc) I make a list of those who have passed these initial four filters, then I come to M4M to check for the real user experiences. This last filter determines the overall ranking. I contact the first on my list, see whether a booking can be done, etc. If no response within a reasonable window of time, I proceed to the next, etc. *Faceless profiles get less score, but if otherwise alluring, I will see if they have private photos or can send over DM/Message. If by the end of it I have no face pic, it will be a no for me, no matter what reviewers say. This is based on previous experiences with faceless RM profiles that were disappointing for me.

Both. The massage part was nice, at least.

So, met him this last weekend. He's very hot, true to the photos, but had issues keeping it hard. I thing the chemistry between us was not that great. Others may have a better or worse experience, but for me it was not too impressive in the end. I personally wouldn't repeat.

Taking the plunge this weekend. Will keep you posted 😮.