Hey guys. I recently moved to the US from Europe, so still getting my head around how things work in the US. While living here, I discovered RentMasseur and MasseurFinder, and have been booking sessions with providers coming to my town (some really good, some quite disappointing...). The massage context is easy, as you arrive, you chat a little bit, you take your clothes off and lie down on the bed/massage table. If something happens, it arises naturally from the massage itself. But now I want to hire men just for the sex part, so unsure how does one proceed with that.
How does it usually work with RentMen providers in the US? Do you agree beforehand what will happen? Do you discuss on arrival? Or you just see as things develop while on it? Since I am quite new with the the transactional nature of these kind of encounters (and also a bit shy), not sure what's the best way to make an encounter just for sex less awkward at the start.
Also, I would appreciate some advice as to how to arrange a meeting. What do providers want to hear from clients, other than the requested date and time? Is it rude to ask for the rate in the first message (RentMen does not show that, unlike RentMasseur)? Should I mention my stats (age, height, weight, etc)?
Any help greatly appreciated.