How to use up two hours?

[Colton]

So I typically hire for one hour, but hiring someone for the first time with a two-hour minimum.  I know how to use up one hour of time, but what are some ideas for filling up the extra hour (beyond do it again, which doesn't work for everyone).  

 

[56harrisond]

 

[Decatur Guy]

I like two hours when I can afford it. First, you can spend five or so minutes just talking instead of feeling like you've wasted precious minutes. You could spend five more minutes kissing or massaging. You can just take every step and go more slowly with it. If you plan on anal, let's say, I'd make sure you've had at least 45 minutes or an hour of foreplay. And of course, two hours can leave time for some cuddling, etc. 

I did two hours recently and the time flew by. 

Edited Tuesday at 12:10 AM by Decatur Guy

[Becket]

I have always been perfectly fine when the appointment ends earlier than the scheduled time period due to my "finishing up." Don't feel any need to make the provider hang around when both of us are done. It's fine for me, in fact usually I'd rather just leave when we're done.

If it's an overnight of course, that's different. I would have scheduled an overnight with one of the goals being to get to know the provider, and I appreciate the extra time cuddling, or having breakfast in bed, or taking a shower together. That stuff is fun for me. 

But, to each his own. 

[BuffaloKyle]

I had the same issue for the longest time. One hour usually too short but two hours can sometimes be way too long. Someone on here suggested inquiring about a 90 min session and pretty much every provider since that has been ok with it. I usually will first ask a provider's one and two hour rate and then offer whatever the middle is of the two rates.

[DMonDude]

For 2 hours, other than doing it again... If we "finish" early, we just hang out and chat. Or we just call it and leave early and i just consider the "lost time" the fee for not having to worry about feeling rushed in a 1 hour slot, i'm not bothered by that if i'm the one choosing to head out early. Sitting in forced small talk too long is painfully awkward to me, and a scenario i'd pay to get out of. So it balances out lol.

[mtaabq]

Like @BuffaloKyle I’m a huge fan of 90-min blocks. That is the sweet spot for me. I often book 2 hours as I do not like to be rushed. How to fill the time? Relax. Enjoy a beverage and a chat. Make a shower part of the scene. Get undressed slowly. Feeling like you’ll “finish” too fast? Take a break; have a drInk. Afterwards, enjoy some pillow talk. Give your provider a chance to shower and clean up before sending him on his way. Meeting at a hotel? Meet in the lobby or out on the patio. Get naughty; I made out with my provider on the patio of my hotel whilst it was raining - that was so sexy! I had a provider feel me up in a Starbucks before we went to my room. A really upscale hotel? Order room service and make out for the 30 mins it takes for food and drink to be delivered. A good word is foreplay; with 2 hours there’s no rush to “bang one out”. Take photos if allowed. You’re paying for the provider’s time; your time together needn’t be all sex. A provider in years past took me for a ride in his classic Camaro as part of our scene. Oh! And he was naked! @Colton you’re limited only by your imagination, your comfort level, and the boundaries set by you and your provider. 

[+ Jamie21]

Get the right guy and he will make 2 hours feel like half an hour. Just tell him the kind of activities you like and a good guy will have a repertoire that will keep you going for the duration no problem. 

[+ Pensant]

Over a number of years I’ve never booked under two hours. Generally, we sit and get to know each other (if a new provider), or catch up with a regular. Invariably, we open a bottle of wine. We then flip to show time on the sofa, and then head to the main event in the bed. I love foreplay and some kink, as do my providers. Afterwards we finish off the wine. 90% of the time they’re in no great rush to leave. Of my regular twink/twunk rotation, none still have an active ad. They’ve become my private stock. 

[Rod Hagen]

14 hours ago, Colton said:

what are some ideas for filling up the extra hour (beyond do it again, which doesn't work for everyone).  

 

More Fucking! :-)

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I have to agree that 90 minutes is ideal for some chat, some foreplay, the "main event" and then some pillow talk. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

If the man's rates are reasonable and offers massage, my desired session length is 2 hours to include massage then play.

For strictly sex sessions, I typically just hire for 1 hour but recently hired a man for 90 minutes and it started with talking/drinking/making out, then fucking, then a cuddle/kiss/talk, then a "now time for Round 2" of fucking.

[CheckCar]

54 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

If the man's rates are reasonable and offers massage, my desired session length is 2 hours to include massage then play.

For strictly sex sessions, I typically just hire for 1 hour but recently hired a man for 90 minutes and it started with talking/drinking/making out, then fucking, then a cuddle/kiss/talk, then a "now time for Round 2" of fucking.

I echo opening up with a massage. In my experience, it’s a great way to relax and ease into the session while still working toward the main event.

I also like to massage the provider a bit before diving into things. Doing so allows me to surreptitiously inspect the provider’s body for any suspicious bumps or odors in the groin area that might raise concern (especially during my first time with a provider). It can also help me to build rapport with him, particularly if I work out some of his knots. 🙂 

A glass or two of wine — or sometimes a shot of liquor — can fill up time while adding to the ambiance. Just be sure to check that the bottle is unopened and the glasses are clean (again, especially during the first time with a provider).

 

[soloyo215]

On 6/8/2026 at 7:59 PM, Colton said:

So I typically hire for one hour, but hiring someone for the first time with a two-hour minimum.  I know how to use up one hour of time, but what are some ideas for filling up the extra hour (beyond do it again, which doesn't work for everyone).  

 

I always schedule for more than an hour. Force of habit. When I started hiring I needed the extra time. Now I just use the extra time based on what I see, feel and the chemistry between us. In my experience, I've gone a second time, I've played video games, talked, went to Walmart together, gave life advice, did more foreplay, got a tour of his house, watched a TV show while fooling around, and there have been times when I just said goodbye and left. 

It's your time and you can choose whatever feels right at the moment. I don't plan anything in particular because I integrate what I feel at the moment. That's important to me, to feel there, present and enjoying the moment. However, you can use the time anyway you can think of.

That said, this might sound intrusive, so feel free to ignore the question: Any reason why you want to schedule two hours without being sure you need the or what to do with that much time? Just curious.

[Colton]

14 hours ago, soloyo215 said:

Any reason why you want to schedule two hours without being sure you need the or what to do with that much time?

There was a two hour minimum as he mainly does OF and doesn't meet clients much (he said I was his first this year).  

[soloyo215]

2 hours ago, Colton said:

There was a two hour minimum as he mainly does OF and doesn't meet clients much (he said I was his first this year).  

I see. Didn't know that some have a minimum of two hours.

[Colton]

2 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

I see. Didn't know that some have a minimum of two hours.

Yeah that’s his rule.  He says that since he has a max of 3-4 sessions per week, if he is meeting someone, he needs to make a minimum amount to justify it being a non-filming day.  

[Rudynate]

On 6/8/2026 at 5:10 PM, Decatur Guy said:

I like two hours when I can afford it. First, you can spend five or so minutes just talking instead of feeling like you've wasted precious minutes. You could spend five more minutes kissing or massaging. You can just take every step and go more slowly with it. If you plan on anal, let's say, I'd make sure you've had at least 45 minutes or an hour of foreplay. And of course, two hours can leave time for some cuddling, etc. 

I did two hours recently and the time flew by. 

I don't have any problem using up two hours in just this way.  A few months ago, I hired a wonderful Brazilian guy for my usual 2 hours. I didn't extend but I Iiked the guy so much that I could easily see a a longer appointment and/or maybe an overnight.

[BeHappy]

On 6/8/2026 at 9:34 PM, mtaabq said:

Like @BuffaloKyle I’m a huge fan of 90-min blocks. That is the sweet spot for me. I often book 2 hours as I do not like to be rushed. How to fill the time? Relax. Enjoy a beverage and a chat. Make a shower part of the scene. Get undressed slowly. Feeling like you’ll “finish” too fast? Take a break; have a drInk. Afterwards, enjoy some pillow talk. Give your provider a chance to shower and clean up before sending him on his way. Meeting at a hotel? Meet in the lobby or out on the patio. Get naughty; I made out with my provider on the patio of my hotel whilst it was raining - that was so sexy! I had a provider feel me up in a Starbucks before we went to my room. A really upscale hotel? Order room service and make out for the 30 mins it takes for food and drink to be delivered. A good word is foreplay; with 2 hours there’s no rush to “bang one out”. Take photos if allowed. You’re paying for the provider’s time; your time together needn’t be all sex. A provider in years past took me for a ride in his classic Camaro as part of our scene. Oh! And he was naked! @Colton you’re limited only by your imagination, your comfort level, and the boundaries set by you and your provider. 

This is exactly what I do as well!  A hot intro over coffee or a cocktail can get things rolling very nicely!  Once they realize you are not an idiot the force field drops quickly!

[Rudynate]

1 hour ago, BeHappy said:

This is exactly what I do as well!  A hot intro over coffee or a cocktail can get things rolling very nicely!  Once they realize you are not an idiot the force field drops quickly!

If we're meeting in a nice hotel, I like to order lunch from room service

[rvwnsd]

When I first started hiring, I wanted 60-minute sessions and nothing but 60-minute sessions. Period. Then it started feeling like playdates were being rushed. And they were, because of my desire to book 60 minutes. That's when I became more flexible and started booking for 60 minutes and asking if we could have the option to extend if we were both up to it.* When more and more playdates were being extended I started softening my stance and booking two hours. 

I find that booking a longer session takes off the pressure to squeeze as much into 60 minutes as we can. It also gives us time for foreplay and relaxation time afterwards. There have been times where I wanted to leave as soon as I finished and, in those cases, that's what I did. If I pay for two hours and leave in 90 minutes, that's on me. On two occasions, I started to leave, unaware of the time, and the escort reminded me that we still had time left in our session. (We're talking 30 + minutes) One offered a brief massage (which I loved) and the other offered to extend our next playdate at no additional charge, which is what we did.

*Obviously, if a guy's minimum is two hours, then I book for two hours or don't book at all.