What special touches do you like from your providers?

[TxDaddyBear]

Having provided company and massages to many a client, I always wonder what little things I did or didn't do that made or could have made a special difference. I am a people pleaser by nature, and love to create little touches here and there to make it more fun. I make sure the music, lighting, temperature, neatness of my place are always just right before my client arrives. A lot of times I get the "Thanks that was great" but no real feedback because of the nature of the situation. So please let me know what kind of things you notice and appreciate, and what would you like to happen that doesn't always? I am good at my job, and I love it, but I am always striving to do better. 

[Mark_fl]

For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.

[TxDaddyBear]

I do a lot of touching and slightly grazing my fingers all over my client. Even a slight tickling. I think touch is so powerful when done correctly.

[simongayx]

Getting the "little things right" is really important.    So -- clean and tidy place, if there is music make it soft and unobtrusive, have a bottle of water available, an obvious place to hang your clothes, soft lighting, absolutely no interruptions from phone or email pings, and constant checking on comfort.    I will also appreciate an offer to use the restroom before we begin.   

[Mark_fl]

2 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.

My point was more unsolicited initiating, not just during a massage or something. 

[jeezifonly]

You know what's a nice touch? A spotless, well-set-up bathroom for before/after showering. Provide a clean washcloth, new toothbrush, access to toothpaste, mouthwash, and then wrap your guest in a towel just pulled out of the dryer. 

Edited Thursday at 07:48 PM by jeezifonly

[TxDaddyBear]

1 hour ago, Mark_fl said:

My point was more unsolicited initiating, not just during a massage or something. 

Ok. So that means touching you more from the get go, like a lover would??

[TxDaddyBear]

42 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

You know what's a nice touch? A spotless, well-set-up bathroom for before/after showering. Provide a clean washcloth, new toothbrush, access to toothpaste, mouthwash, and then wrap your guest in a towel just pulled out of the dryer. 

Yes, I always offer a fresh towel, a wash cloth, a glass of water or iced tea. My bathroom is clean. I always clean the toilet and make sure the litter box has been scooped. Mood lighting, unobtrusive music, and lots of welcoming vibes. Hadn't thought about a spare toothbrush!

[Mark_fl]

10 minutes ago, TxDaddyBear said:

Ok. So that means touching you more from the get go, like a lover would??

Yes. Or after the fact. Just unsolicited affection.  Or for an overnight, if the provider would start up in the middle of the night, even waking me up, it would be beyond hot.

[Nightowl]

As others have said, it’s the unsolicited affection.  Laying beside me as paid activities wind down, joining me in the shower, expressing an interest in me as a person…All of these are special touches that I’ve found to be somewhat rare.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

11 hours ago, TxDaddyBear said:

So please let me know what kind of things you notice and appreciate, and what would you like to happen that doesn't always?

For a massage, I always notice and appreciate but don't always receive: 

Deep massage on the bottoms of my feet

Ears massaged when I'm faceup.

Forehead, temple, head massage when I'm faceup. 

Pecs worked (and of course, eventually, the nipples!)

[DMonDude]

One masseur made the massage transitioning from therapeutic to sensual+extras feel less like massage choreography and more like he was just losing focus on the massage and gaining sexual interest in me and exploring/playing with my body for his enjoyment, and i haven't really found others who've done that. It turned me on way more even though i knew he was still performing/doing his thing. I usually don't get aroused during a massage till the masseur actually touches my genitals (mainly because the firm massage pressure on other body parts just draws blood away from the region for me).

This guy got me aroused very early because the way he handled the transition made the sensual/sexual tension a lot more palpable because he made it feel like he was the one enjoying me as opposed to where it usually feels like I'm the one receiving the privilege to engage with the ultra hot masseur (which of course, obviously is what is happening). But because of the latter, I'm always aware they're just doing what they gotta do (even when they're good at it). But this guy really made it feel like he was the one having the fun and it was just really great.

[Aedo]

spending some time massaging my neck. Most don't do it, but it always makes me feel like the masseur cares about me when he does that. 

[+ poolboy48220]

9 hours ago, DMonDude said:

more like he was just losing focus on the massage and gaining sexual interest in me and exploring/playing with my body for his enjoyment

That sounds awesome. On a somewhat related preference; I usually ask about prostate massage, and it's so much more enjoyable where it's not saved strictly for the end. Just some light play on my ass and hole during the massage goes a long way. So may guys avoid the ass completely, then with 10 minutes left start diving in. 

[savantsav]

If they're someone I see regularly (2x a month) and ESPECIALLY if we do something like overnights or 3+ hour meets... I would expect them to reach out to me randomly in between meets with sexy /erotic messages. A once or twice a week "can't wait to get in that ass again" "I'm so hard remembering you sucking my cock" things that make me go "fuckkkkk" and keep me wanting to add more time or more bookings.

[TxDaddyBear]

14 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

For a massage, I always notice and appreciate but don't always receive: 

Deep massage on the bottoms of my feet

Ears massaged when I'm faceup.

Forehead, temple, head massage when I'm faceup. 

Pecs worked (and of course, eventually, the nipples!)

Having had several foot fetishy buds in my past, I always give the feet a good massage. Ears and temples plus light tickling around the face and head are always fun, I agree. Pecs and nips are a must!

[TxDaddyBear]

13 hours ago, DMonDude said:

One masseur made the massage transitioning from therapeutic to sensual+extras feel less like massage choreography and more like he was just losing focus on the massage and gaining sexual interest in me and exploring/playing with my body for his enjoyment, and i haven't really found others who've done that. It turned me on way more even though i knew he was still performing/doing his thing. I usually don't get aroused during a massage till the masseur actually touches my genitals (mainly because the firm massage pressure on other body parts just draws blood away from the region for me).

This guy got me aroused very early because the way he handled the transition made the sensual/sexual tension a lot more palpable because he made it feel like he was the one enjoying me as opposed to where it usually feels like I'm the one receiving the privilege to engage with the ultra hot masseur (which of course, obviously is what is happening). But because of the latter, I'm always aware they're just doing what they gotta do (even when they're good at it). But this guy really made it feel like he was the one having the fun and it was just really great.

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I will get lost in the beauty of the body along with the music and my hands gliding over skin. Especially if I get a little moan of pleasure from my client. It can be very erotic for me too. 

[TxDaddyBear]

3 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

That sounds awesome. On a somewhat related preference; I usually ask about prostate massage, and it's so much more enjoyable where it's not saved strictly for the end. Just some light play on my ass and hole during the massage goes a long way. So may guys avoid the ass completely, then with 10 minutes left start diving in. 

I have learned it's best to ask first about that prostrate massage! Lol. I've had a couple of surprised bubbas! I usually do a light anal massage when I am massaging the buttocks, and then come back for a little more nearer the end when things start heating up. 

[TxDaddyBear]

1 hour ago, savantsav said:

If they're someone I see regularly (2x a month) and ESPECIALLY if we do something like overnights or 3+ hour meets... I would expect them to reach out to me randomly in between meets with sexy /erotic messages. A once or twice a week "can't wait to get in that ass again" "I'm so hard remembering you sucking my cock" things that make me go "fuckkkkk" and keep me wanting to add more time or more bookings.

That's a great idea!

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

11 minutes ago, TxDaddyBear said:

I have learned it's best to ask first about that prostrate massage! Lol. I've had a couple of surprised bubbas! I usually do a light anal massage when I am massaging the buttocks, and then come back for a little more nearer the end when things start heating up. 

I had a great massage in Rome where the masseur focused on a lot of stretching.  Everytime he'd stretch my leg beyond my comfort zone, he'd simultaneously insert his finger in my bum.  The sensation of his finger on my hole helped distract me from the deep stretches that I needed but were otherwise too uncomfortable for me to take.  It's an amazing technique that should be taught in massage school!

[big-n-tall]

I think any provider who shows genuine interest in getting to know what turns me on is one of the most appealing things a provider can do for me.

A provider I met through this site, he and I talked extensively about what I was into well before we met. In turn, I asked him what turned him on. I like the guys I meet to have fun too. He and I hit it off and I see him whenever I can.

Oh and although I’m not the most pda prone person, random displays of affection that don’t seem stunted, also is a bonus for me.

I was doing an overnight with a relatively new regular. We went to dinner to one of my favorite seafood spots. He told me loved seafood so we went. While dining at the bar, I said something to him in passing, that I guess made him feel good. He then randomly kissed me on the cheek in front of god knows how many people. Smiled ear to ear and thanked me for what I said. I was a bit shocked but it actually made me feel special. No provider has ever did that to me in such a public environment before or since.

In terms of a massage session, if any masseur pays attention to my feet and more particularly my head ears and neck, besides the usual spots… I’m all in.

Of the masseurs I’ve seen 6 of them do this the most.  Five have became/are regulars and one I met winter of last year in Florida. The Florida guy definitely would be a regular too if he and I lived closer together.

However, like @DMonDude described, one of the 5 regular masseurs (now seemingly retired, sadly) made me feel like he wanted me as much as I wanted him. Like we never just had a massage session finish before it got very erotic. He would get aroused immediately and when I got aroused it seemed to make him even hornier. We’d end up in his bed multiple times every session. God I miss him. 😜🥰

 

Edited Saturday at 01:52 AM by big-n-tall

[ShortCutie7]

As others have said, I like the provider to seem like he is genuinely attracted to me… however that expresses itself- kissing me, feeling me up, gazing into my eyes. One of my favorite experiences was when a provider started a session by asking me to join him in the shower and then immediately grabbed my cock, washing it and watching it grow in his hands.

[RugbyBen]

I saw a new masseur earlier this year. 

Lovely set up with a specially built studio in his loft area. As well as the table there are two comfy chairs so we could sit as he asked me questions about my health and any areas I wanted him to focus on. 

A bathroom where you can undress and shower right next door then go back into the room to lie on the table. 

Just made the whole thing more relaxed and put me in the right mood. 

I just booked another appointment and he ended our whatsapp chat with, looking forward to catching up, which had an extra friendly vibe. 

Obviously difficult for many providers too have that much space but the whole experience really elevated the massage which was also excellent. 

[BeHappy]

4 hours ago, RugbyBen said:

I saw a new masseur earlier this year. 

Lovely set up with a specially built studio in his loft area. As well as the table there are two comfy chairs so we could sit as he asked me questions about my health and any areas I wanted him to focus on. 

A bathroom where you can undress and shower right next door then go back into the room to lie on the table. 

Just made the whole thing more relaxed and put me in the right mood. 

I just booked another appointment and he ended our whatsapp chat with, looking forward to catching up, which had an extra friendly vibe. 

Obviously difficult for many providers too have that much space but the whole experience really elevated the massage which was also excellent. 

That is a wonderful set up!  I like that as well!!!

A nice additional touch is a short text afterwards saying “Thanks for stopping by and looking forward in seeing you again!  I really enjoyed your company”

 

[RugbyBen]

2 hours ago, BeHappy said:

That is a wonderful set up!  I like that as well!!!

A nice additional touch is a short text afterwards saying “Thanks for stopping by and looking forward in seeing you again!  I really enjoyed your company”

 

That's a good point. The first masseur i ever saw where things turned sensual/erotic used to email me after and say stuff like really enjoyed seeing you this evening gorgeous, it's so horny massaging you, then remind me of suggestions he had made about stretching and other wellbeing things. 

Ok he was doing that to a lot of guys probably but even back then in my early 20s it was nice to hear.