What special touches do you like from your providers?

[TxDaddyBear]

Having provided company and massages to many a client, I always wonder what little things I did or didn't do that made or could have made a special difference. I am a people pleaser by nature, and love to create little touches here and there to make it more fun. I make sure the music, lighting, temperature, neatness of my place are always just right before my client arrives. A lot of times I get the "Thanks that was great" but no real feedback because of the nature of the situation. So please let me know what kind of things you notice and appreciate, and what would you like to happen that doesn't always? I am good at my job, and I love it, but I am always striving to do better. 

[Mark_fl]

For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.

[TxDaddyBear]

I do a lot of touching and slightly grazing my fingers all over my client. Even a slight tickling. I think touch is so powerful when done correctly.

[simongayx]

Getting the "little things right" is really important.    So -- clean and tidy place, if there is music make it soft and unobtrusive, have a bottle of water available, an obvious place to hang your clothes, soft lighting, absolutely no interruptions from phone or email pings, and constant checking on comfort.    I will also appreciate an offer to use the restroom before we begin.   

[Mark_fl]

2 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.

My point was more unsolicited initiating, not just during a massage or something. 

[jeezifonly]

You know what's a nice touch? A spotless, well-set-up bathroom for before/after showering. Provide a clean washcloth, new toothbrush, access to toothpaste, mouthwash, and then wrap your guest in a towel just pulled out of the dryer. 

Edited 46 minutes ago by jeezifonly

[TxDaddyBear]

1 hour ago, Mark_fl said:

My point was more unsolicited initiating, not just during a massage or something. 

Ok. So that means touching you more from the get go, like a lover would??

[TxDaddyBear]

42 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

You know what's a nice touch? A spotless, well-set-up bathroom for before/after showering. Provide a clean washcloth, new toothbrush, access to toothpaste, mouthwash, and then wrap your guest in a towel just pulled out of the dryer. 

Yes, I always offer a fresh towel, a wash cloth, a glass of water or iced tea. My bathroom is clean. I always clean the toilet and make sure the litter box has been scooped. Mood lighting, unobtrusive music, and lots of welcoming vibes. Hadn't thought about a spare toothbrush!