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On 6/14/2024 at 9:43 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

I don't think you should feel bad about this @Rgsnva but some of the suggestions here may be worth exploring. 

Americans are experiencing an unprecedented epidemic of loneliness. I don't know your situation, but the cultural moment lends itself to people wanting to feel loved and connected. This could make you more likely to invest emotionally in your relationship with a provider. 

In addition to the suggestions above, perhaps you can invest more time in developing and deepening your relationships with friends so you're less susceptible to putting all your eggs in this provider's basket. 

Very well put

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I actually kind of dated a guy I hired in Singapore. He would always visit from Indonesia. We met many times, so at one point I just asked him to stay with me. We tried that out a few times. I’d even let him use my spare bedroom to meet his other clients while I was at work. We’d go out for dinner at nights and have fun. It was a great experience. 

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Since I’m so inexperienced in virtually every regard, I have a big fear of this happening… like, there are some providers I have seen I would love to see again (and almost definitely will), and I have to actively convince myself to even message new guys…

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