Do providers cum out of obligation, or desire?

[marylander1940]

On 2/18/2024 at 9:37 AM, viewing ownly said:

I think you have this completely backwards. Having the client climax is where the focus is. Nearly a decade into this fun recreational hobby of mine, and I've had a mere two men climax, too, out of several dozen. Mutual attraction as already mentioned is VERY key, and that I know I'm not.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 2/18/2024 at 6:37 AM, viewing ownly said:

I think you have this completely backwards. Having the client climax is where the focus is. Nearly a decade into this fun recreational hobby of mine, and I've had a mere two men climax, too, out of several dozen. Mutual attraction as already mentioned is VERY key, and that I know I'm not.

My experience has been the opposite.  Over a decade into this hobby, and I have had several hundred providers climax in/on/for me; but, I have only ejaculated with a few dozen.  It doesn't mean I don't enjoy all the men I hire.  It just means that the destination is different for everyone's sexual journey.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

A lot of this depends on why you're hired and how a client sees you.

Some guys, it's all about me.

Some guys, it's all about them. 

 

 

[Oakman]

21 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Some guys, it's all about me.

🥵 yes please 

[aiseeya]

I always invite providers to cum at the end of session. Only one rejection to date, that is discounting fake orgasm and non-perfomer. Whilst its not a deal breaker, I am unlikely to repeat book that one provider unless situation so requires.

[marylander1940]

3 minutes ago, aiseeya said:

I always invite providers to cum at the end of session. Only one rejection to date, that is discounting fake orgasm and non-perfomer. Whilst its not a deal breaker, I am unlikely to repeat book that one provider unless situation so requires.

Maybe he had another client scheduled for later or a date.

 

 

[aiseeya]

11 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Maybe he had another client scheduled for later or a date.

 

 

Indeed he does. He was very honest on reasonings. All good, I pay agreed rates and give him a 5-stars review. Him opting to save his cum did not negatively impact my satisfaction of the session. I merely would prioritise booking providers who would cum as I dont typically book for 1h session. And I always book for evening/ late evening session.

Edited January 29, 2025 by aiseeya

[+ DrownedBoy]

I guess I'm a low maintenance client. Never once have I asked or wanted a provider to come for me, and I was rather unhappy with a guy who went and did it on my couch without warning.

[+ Jamie21]

On 1/28/2025 at 9:48 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

A lot of this depends on why you're hired and how a client sees you.

Some guys, it's all about me.

Some guys, it's all about them. 

 

 

That’s it 🎯Get two ‘it’s all about me’ guys together and I’d say it’s going to be a frustrating experience. Most providers are focused on the client, which is helpful because that’s generally why clients hire. 
 

[RugbyBen]

I only see masseurs so I go in with no expectation of them cumming.

I have one regular who likes to fuck me and sometimes he'll not be able to hold back and cum but even then he'll have in mind how much energy he'll need for the rest of his appointments. Not even sexual energy just to be able to do multiple more deep tissue massages that day. 

I've had others over the years who've cum but it's unusual. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I remember when, about a decade ago, I saw a very young escort in Palm Springs for an hour.  About 15 minutes into the session, as he was fucking me, he said "Oh, I guess this is going to be a double load session... I'm about to cum".  And he did.   And, before the hour ended, he stayed true to his word and came again.

[PileDriver]

most guys i fuck or get fucked by cum out of desire..the few who cum out of obligation are apparent and although i appreciate the effort its jus not the same...shout out to Malik!!!! 

[Kasey]

On 2/20/2024 at 6:14 PM, Dolman said:

One of my regulars told me he takes a supplement that increases how much and how often he cums. It certainly seems to work! Maybe more providers should look into it.

Cool! if you know what he used, I'll like to try it. 

[Nightowl]

If the provider is scheduled that day for filming for JFF or another site he’ll probably save himself for an explosive money shot on camera.  A little dribble doesn’t sell as many subscriptions.  

[pubic_assistance]

Do providers cum out of obligation, or desire?

Well..now THAT is a simple answer.

If you're PAYING them to cum, then it's mostly obligation.

IF (and that's a big "if") YOU, the client, are somehow desirous then and only then is it desire.

 

[Ethan Woods]

Not all clients need me to finish, and when I don’t have to do this for every client, I can see more of them. I’m shooting with a musket here, it takes a while to reload. 

[Guest]

As a top it doesn't matter to me but if I had to guess it would be an obligation

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 1/29/2025 at 11:43 PM, DrownedBoy said:

I guess I'm a low maintenance client. Never once have I asked or wanted a provider to come for me, and I was rather unhappy with a guy who went and did it on my couch without warning.

That's when I would make sure my mouth was under him, so he wouldn't have a chance to get any on the furniture

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

The last masseur I hired definitely ejaculated because he wanted to.  After he got me off,  he layed himself down next to me and masturbated until he came.  He shot so hard it hit my chin and face (and our waist's were about equal)!

[savantsav]

I stopped seeing a regular provider with whom I had done overnights and travel because he hardly if ever cummed. When I told him it was an issue for me he said that it was the goal for him to cum but most of the time he couldn’t. Even when doing overnights or 3hr bookings. 
 

I of course thanked him for the honesty because I totally understand but I stopped booking. 

[Redbook]

For me, the hottest part of an encounter is watching the other guy cum. I usually get off from seeing him cum. I always tell a provider in advance I am hoping for them to cum, and they usually agree.  I also tend to book providers who show a cumshot on their photos. If they are using cum to make their ad more enticing, I’m certainly expecting it.

Edited Thursday at 05:34 AM by Redbook

[DaddyCares]

On 2/8/2024 at 11:07 PM, Tygerscent said:

I can’t imagine not coming~ I don’t see more than one client per day… So, there’s never any pressure on my end that I’ve come before I’ve seen somebody or after I’ve seen somebody… If I’m with somebody for a number of days or a month, I don’t really care how many times a day we come. sometimes it’s none and sometimes it’s eight or 10 times depending on the person and both of our stamina, mindset and personal bonds~ Usually, usually when I’m with people for days or a month or two, we’re doing other things. Shorter appointments have a different field And we pace ourselves, according to the time frame available… So, it’s very rare that I don’t come… I don’t really care if they come. Sometimes coming for them is not the point and there is no pressure there. I personally enjoy coming and I do. If that is multiple times… And they’re down with that, even better~    
If I’ve already come a number of times, then, I like certain things done to me, or I like to do certain things to the other person/persons that make it all fall into place for another kaboom

Here, here!

Is this site also for escorts to post?

[DaddyCares]

On 1/29/2025 at 3:48 PM, aiseeya said:

Indeed he does. He was very honest on reasonings. All good, I pay agreed rates and give him a 5-stars review. Him opting to save his cum did not negatively impact my satisfaction of the session. I merely would prioritise booking providers who would cum as I dont typically book for 1h session. And I always book for evening/ late evening session.

That's really fair. 

 

My take. A rentmen should cum for me. If Im meeting him, I expect him to cum. Fuck. I am basically paying him for as much cum as he can give me.