Summerson

Here are a couple of new fun folks who'll be joining us in April for the first time. They're both going to be staying with me at Inndulge, but are looking forward to making all kinds of new connections. Bode Brentwood will be arriving on Friday and Louie will arrive on Thursday. They'll both likely post in this thread with more info later, but they asked me to drop their links today since I had the time. They're both great guys. Feel free to reach out to them directly.

This (providers asking other providers about me) happens fairly often and I actually welcome it. I understand and respect the value you (and many others) place on discretion. I guess at 57 I'm considered a longtime member of the kink community and communicating about other players (both good and bad) within that community is pretty much a norm. For me, the positives far outweigh any negatives because some of the providers I've most enjoyed time with only reached out to me after they'd had some verification that I was trustworthy and treat people well. Those opened doors have led/continued to lead to some really fun times, but that's just my situation. There was one instance, nine or ten years ago, when I was living in NYC and a provider who I'd contacted but hadn't yet seen decided I was law enforcement because I hadn't gotten back to him as quickly as he wished. He shared this suspicion with a few folks, some of whom knew me and thought it was hilarious. Given my personal feelings about cops, I was briefly horrified until I realized nobody else took him seriously. A provider I try and see whenever I get back east still teases me about it to this day.

Just in case anyone is still looking for a place to stay and might be interested in trying out The Hacienda, I'll be releasing my reservation for one of their Deluxe Suites (Thursday 4/11 through Monday 4/15) in the next 24 hours. I was considering trying them out this year, but with so many of the fun folks staying at Inndulge, I'll be back in my usual spot. I don't know if The Hacienda has a waiting list or not, but anyone interested might want to contact them ASAP to get the best chance possible of booking it. I checked the website and it seems The Hacienda is currently sold out for our dates.

I'll spare Bode any further self-promotion and share that he is, in fact, exceptionally nice. If you get the chance to meet up with him, he's a whole lot of fun!

For me, our own forum mod NateSF tops the list. An absolutely first class experience in every way! YourHunk (aka Nate from Long Beach) is also on my list of truly unforgettable men. It's a never-ending battle to keep these two from taking over my daydreams.

Just FYI, I was in communication with the folks at Inndulge yesterday (9/26). They do still have rooms available, but they've set a filter in their booking system requiring a minimum 5 night stay for our weekend, because of high demand. If you enter arrival and departure dates with less than 5 nights between them, the rooms don't show up as available. I'm currently booked there for four nights in a 1BR suite, because I reserved before they added this policy (although I admit I am considering adding a 5th night, because by April I really am going to need some serious relaxation time). If somebody is considering a longer stay, Inndulge is still an option. I don't know how many rooms are still available or how long they'll last, but I thought I should share the info.

I've been a fan my whole life. My first NYC apartment was located above a famous guitar shop in the Village. This was so long ago I actually used paper checks to pay my rent to my landlord, the master guitar artisan who owned both the shop and the building. One night it was pouring rain when I got home and as I walked up to the shop to hand over my check, a car pulled up to the curb in front of the store. Someone got out of the back seat wearing a raincoat and a big hat and I held the shop door open for them. As they walked through, I heard one of the most recognizable voices in the world say, "Thank you kindly." Dolly was there to pick up a guitar she'd had my landlord repair. Most of the famous folks I've met have been really nice and she's absolutely one of the friendliest.

AsianGuyCA is picking me up tomorrow (Thursday) at noon and I'll be checking into Inndulge tomorrow afternoon. I can't wait!

Yes, on Rentmen at least, I can see whoever looked at my profile (both providers and other clients).

On rentmen it is really useful when clients include in their profile what they are looking for. I'm not sure if that's what @DrownedBoy is referring to, but it helps to get a sense of what they want. I check the client profiles of who contacts me, or asks to see my private pics, but very few have much on their profiles. I wish more guys would use that feature! As always, different people have different preferences, but my experience has led me to strongly agree with @NateSF and @IronMaus about the importance of what I include in my RM client profile. I often lean toward the kinkier side of the spectrum when I hire and I've found that trying to include both the specifics of my interests and some sense of my personality has led to my most satisfying encounters. Of course I don't mind being the person to initiate contact, but I do appreciate when a provider reaches out to me (there or here) because they read what I wrote and think we might be a good match. Those folks almost always turn out to be my most enjoyable encounters (including Maus 😄). I've had more than a few providers tell me that for one reason or another, they don't always list everything they're "into" in their listing, but were happy to talk with me about it after they read my profile.

Pierson Fodè. https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4943457/

Like candles on a cake! I like it!