marylander1940 Posted February 21, 2024 Posted February 21, 2024 On 2/18/2024 at 9:37 AM, viewing ownly said: I think you have this completely backwards. Having the client climax is where the focus is. Nearly a decade into this fun recreational hobby of mine, and I've had a mere two men climax, too, out of several dozen. Mutual attraction as already mentioned is VERY key, and that I know I'm not.
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 28 Posted January 28 On 2/18/2024 at 6:37 AM, viewing ownly said: I think you have this completely backwards. Having the client climax is where the focus is. Nearly a decade into this fun recreational hobby of mine, and I've had a mere two men climax, too, out of several dozen. Mutual attraction as already mentioned is VERY key, and that I know I'm not. My experience has been the opposite. Over a decade into this hobby, and I have had several hundred providers climax in/on/for me; but, I have only ejaculated with a few dozen. It doesn't mean I don't enjoy all the men I hire. It just means that the destination is different for everyone's sexual journey. thomas, + Jamie21, + Summerson and 2 others 3 1 1
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 28 Posted January 28 A lot of this depends on why you're hired and how a client sees you. Some guys, it's all about me. Some guys, it's all about them. TorontoDrew, + Vegas_Millennial, + Summerson and 6 others 5 4
Oakman Posted January 29 Posted January 29 21 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Some guys, it's all about me. 🥵 yes please + BenjaminNicholas 1
aiseeya Posted January 29 Posted January 29 I always invite providers to cum at the end of session. Only one rejection to date, that is discounting fake orgasm and non-perfomer. Whilst its not a deal breaker, I am unlikely to repeat book that one provider unless situation so requires.
marylander1940 Posted January 29 Posted January 29 3 minutes ago, aiseeya said: I always invite providers to cum at the end of session. Only one rejection to date, that is discounting fake orgasm and non-perfomer. Whilst its not a deal breaker, I am unlikely to repeat book that one provider unless situation so requires. Maybe he had another client scheduled for later or a date.
aiseeya Posted January 29 Posted January 29 (edited) 11 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: Maybe he had another client scheduled for later or a date. Indeed he does. He was very honest on reasonings. All good, I pay agreed rates and give him a 5-stars review. Him opting to save his cum did not negatively impact my satisfaction of the session. I merely would prioritise booking providers who would cum as I dont typically book for 1h session. And I always book for evening/ late evening session. Edited January 29 by aiseeya marylander1940 1
+ DrownedBoy Posted January 29 Posted January 29 I guess I'm a low maintenance client. Never once have I asked or wanted a provider to come for me, and I was rather unhappy with a guy who went and did it on my couch without warning.
+ Jamie21 Posted January 30 Posted January 30 On 1/28/2025 at 9:48 PM, BenjaminNicholas said: A lot of this depends on why you're hired and how a client sees you. Some guys, it's all about me. Some guys, it's all about them. That’s it 🎯Get two ‘it’s all about me’ guys together and I’d say it’s going to be a frustrating experience. Most providers are focused on the client, which is helpful because that’s generally why clients hire. Simon Suraci, + Drew Collins and Shawn Monroe 3
RugbyBen Posted January 31 Posted January 31 I only see masseurs so I go in with no expectation of them cumming. I have one regular who likes to fuck me and sometimes he'll not be able to hold back and cum but even then he'll have in mind how much energy he'll need for the rest of his appointments. Not even sexual energy just to be able to do multiple more deep tissue massages that day. I've had others over the years who've cum but it's unusual. Johnrom and jeezifonly 2
BrickBuilder Posted January 31 Posted January 31 I hire providers that will bottom for me. I always ask about them having an orgasm since for some of them once they orgasm they cut off all concept of any more penetration. Others can keep going. I dont want a session to end prematurely for me because they got off. Some bottom providers have told me up front (and some after we met) "dont expect me to get hard at all". These are the ones that disappoint me as I like to play with/edge his cock as we go through the sessions. If the provider can get off during the session (typically at or after when I do) that is ideal. I happen to enjoy milking a bottom until he shoots. But for some that is just either not possible or they elect not to. That does not necessarily take away from the session, its just some thing I note for potential repeat meetings. Those that can get off will get priority the next time. jayjaycali 1
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted February 3 Posted February 3 I remember when, about a decade ago, I saw a very young escort in Palm Springs for an hour. About 15 minutes into the session, as he was fucking me, he said "Oh, I guess this is going to be a double load session... I'm about to cum". And he did. And, before the hour ended, he stayed true to his word and came again. mike carey, + WSPigBrooklyn, Dolman and 2 others 5
Simon Suraci Posted February 6 Posted February 6 I’m a pleaser. Whatever the client wants, the client gets. I don’t want/need to cum. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t. As long as my client is satisfied, I’m satisfied. + WSPigBrooklyn, + ApexNomad, thomas and 3 others 3 3
PileDriver Posted February 6 Posted February 6 most guys i fuck or get fucked by cum out of desire..the few who cum out of obligation are apparent and although i appreciate the effort its jus not the same...shout out to Malik!!!! Johnrom 1
Kasey Posted February 7 Posted February 7 On 2/20/2024 at 6:14 PM, Dolman said: One of my regulars told me he takes a supplement that increases how much and how often he cums. It certainly seems to work! Maybe more providers should look into it. Cool! if you know what he used, I'll like to try it.
Nightowl Posted February 7 Posted February 7 If the provider is scheduled that day for filming for JFF or another site he’ll probably save himself for an explosive money shot on camera. A little dribble doesn’t sell as many subscriptions. pubic_assistance 1
pubic_assistance Posted February 7 Posted February 7 Do providers cum out of obligation, or desire? Well..now THAT is a simple answer. If you're PAYING them to cum, then it's mostly obligation. IF (and that's a big "if") YOU, the client, are somehow desirous then and only then is it desire.
Ethan Woods Posted February 7 Posted February 7 Not all clients need me to finish, and when I don’t have to do this for every client, I can see more of them. I’m shooting with a musket here, it takes a while to reload. + Kevin Eagle, DGHou, pubic_assistance and 1 other 1 1 1 1
Isrhunter Posted February 7 Posted February 7 As a top it doesn't matter to me but if I had to guess it would be an obligation
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted May 22 Posted May 22 On 1/29/2025 at 11:43 PM, DrownedBoy said: I guess I'm a low maintenance client. Never once have I asked or wanted a provider to come for me, and I was rather unhappy with a guy who went and did it on my couch without warning. That's when I would make sure my mouth was under him, so he wouldn't have a chance to get any on the furniture + DrownedBoy 1
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