Pornstar escorts: turn on, or turn off?

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

The fact that someone is a porn star usually is not an incentive for me to hire him.  After all, looking good on camera and feeling good in bed are two different skill sets.  Similar to how strippers don't often make the best lovers, and lovers don't often make the best strippers.  They are two different skill sets. 

I have met escorts who were escorts first and then eventually added porn.  I keep seeing them because the sex is amazing, but I rarely watch their porn because it's not as good as my memory of sex with them in person. 

I have reached out to hire only 1 porn star thus far, and he never returned my call. I believe he stopped escorting right around the time I contacted him.  There are only about 3 stars whose porn is absolutely amazing, and I'm kicking myself for not reaching out to them sooner while they were still escorting (I prefer porn from about 10-15 years ago).

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 7/17/2023 at 8:44 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

I suspect that the older porn stars (Gen X and older) were probably way more into sex than the millennials and Gen Z, who you often see with OF accounts and sky-high prices. Those generations have less sex than mine, having their first experiences later. So I suspect they're more inclined to want to do "collabs" with their friends and get anonymous people paying them than meet people IRL. Not necessarily because they think they're so much hotter but because they're not used to IRL connections. 

How true.  If I I'm trying to decide between two escorts in the same city, and one is an older escort who did/does porn and the other is a young escort with OF, I'll choose the older escort.  At least I can watch his porn and get excited about seeing him.  I've never used OF.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I've never used OF.

I think I subscribed to two guys. And, honestly, it was boring AF. 

[ShortCutie7]

On 8/25/2023 at 12:31 AM, ShortCutie7 said:

Anyone know if Austin Wolfe’s profile on Scruff is really him?

(Its location is consistent with where he likely lives, and I’ve starred it and it has not been taken down yet)

Knowing what I do now, it probably was really him…

[MikeBiDude]

Is it time for my occasional opine…most of these guys are porn “performers” not porn “stars”. 

[wrestlerdanny]

Does anyone have any suggestions for current porn or Only Fans twinks or jocks that maybe don’t advertise on RM? 

Edited July 17 by wrestlerdanny

[+ ThroatCummer]

The one very popular porn star I hired in the past few years was one of the most down to earth, humble, and awesome escort that I have come across. He didn't brag about his porn, hardly mentioned it in his profile, and didn't even charge an insanely high rate. He's also someone you all would recognize easily. 

We actually discussed his porn in person sitting on my sofa. Porn was for the money. He has a love-hate relationship with it. He actually prefers escorting because he gets off on the connection with people 1:1 in a private and calm environment vs. being in front of a camera and having to perform for hours. Less pressure. Better chemistry and energy. Able to focus more. He also mentioned it allowed him to hook up with a wider variety of guys who he couldn't on-camera because it wouldn't "sell" -- meaning older, chubbier, different and various looks, etc. People that wouldn't make for good porn if that makes sense. He also turns down a lot of clients who want to hire him, so I guess something about my approach and/or talk with him beforehand made him comfortable with me as a client. I guess. 

He was my one and only porn escort hire and I probably wouldn't hire another one because he set the bar way too high, if that makes sense. 

Edited July 19 by ThroatCummer

[JourneysEnd]

In my experience they fall 50:50 mind-blowing and disappointing. Never just average.

[polysome]

I've had one - ex Bel Ami guy who was in town. He was clearly one of the straight guys who was pigeonholed into bottoming which I presume he really doesn't like. He also had a few "restrictions" (which surprised me) - e.g. no licking his nipples, he also was weird about receiving oral. He also did a lot of nervous rambling. On the other hand, he did get hard and was a very willing kisser.

The one part where he greatly impressed was when he turned a light fingering exercise to serious fisting (which was my first). Just for unlocking this milestone alone, I think my experience was worth it. We also spent more time talking than my typical encounter which in itself was interesting. His rate was normal, not absurd. He won't shoot at the top of my repeat list but will consider a second session if there's a chance.

Edited July 19 by polysome

[HockeyMan]

I'm an energetic guy. I look for men who can take me because I want to get the most out of my time. Porn stars and I get along great. I think my performance compares to their coworkers' on set.

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/17/2025 at 3:17 PM, ShortCutie7 said:

Knowing what I do now, it probably was really him

He used to escort. So did his husband. I've hired the hubby several times. Therefore I know exactly where they lived.

 

[ShortCutie7]

27 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

He used to escort. So did his husband. I've hired the hubby several times. Therefore I know exactly where they lived.

 

I don’t know exactly where his profile was located, but he did want money and I was closer to his “type” than most potential clients… I’m 99% sure it was him. 

[Pepper Young]

You guys are going to hate me, but I love hiring porn star escorts. I've hired several well known guys. Why? Bragging rights. I can say to my friends, yup, I have sex with porn stars. And yes, they are just regular guys. 

[+ poolboy48220]

I'll often google to see if porn stars escort. I just did that with Calvin Banks after seeing his video on the "Hottest Massage Video" thread.

[Asterisk]

On 7/22/2025 at 9:16 AM, poolboy48220 said:

I'll often google to see if porn stars escort. I just did that with Calvin Banks after seeing his video on the "Hottest Massage Video" thread.

Found his twitter and OF, but anything else?

[+ poolboy48220]

2 minutes ago, Asterisk said:

Found his twitter and OF, but anything else?

No, I didn't find any escort or massage ads 😞

[Mark_in_SF]

The one escort/massage therapist I frequent (he mostly does massage) has had a JfF channel for a few years, and did some other porn years ago. It's fun seeing him fucking other men, and his rates are pretty standard. He's just about my perfect sexual partner, into leather sex (he looked so hot in chaps last time), so he flogs and paddles me restrained and blindfolded, as he fucks my throat and ass. His huge cock fucks right through my second hole and it feels amazing!

In addition he's a smart, friendly man, has no substance abuse issues, is fun to talk to, and honest about his longtime profession. His making porn is just a very pleasant extra. I'm under no illusion that we have more than a friendly professional relationship, so why would it bother me that he shares his cock with others?

[JuttGeronimo]

Depends on the guy. It all depended on how well they handled their ego (if it as pornstar or “looks” inflated). Some providers didn’t bother trying to hide that they weren’t even into me. And Some guys were professionals and I couldn’t tell if they were genuinely into me or not, which always seemed to result in the next experiences.  Derek Parker, Parker Allen, and Bo Fox are three incredibly HOT, but also super chill guys who I no longer can see, it definitely miss spending time with them.