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His photos are all years old. How does he look now?

You say this as if you're paying for an essential service and not a luxury. Escorting is hard work and escorts put a lot of effort into their jobs even when they're off the clock. I'm not familiar with San Francisco, but many popular cities for escorts have high lodging costs. A one hour session for $300 isn't enough to break even for the day in these cities.

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Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return. If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

He made a new profile.

You're already advertising your brand on Twitter and OnlyFans. You just need a contact system. Get a dedicated phone number for business inquiries (OF collabs and private engagements). Some escorts share contact info via their business email or their website.

I've asked providers to not wear cologne or to wear my preferred underwear type. But I've never asked a provider to change his appearance. I don't hire providers who don't meet my preferences for appearance and grooming.

Bring sandals and toiletries.

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The Deli and Spas & Masseurs are not good sub-forms for providers. Review focused discussions benefit clients. This Questions About Hiring sub-forum is better for providers.

Many clients, including myself, demand a lot from escorts. Many escorts are selective with clients. Sometimes they'll ask for stats or pics. They're not gonna go above and beyond for a client who puts no effort into their appearance. That being said, escorts should exercise discretion when asking for photos. Deleting messages when needed, burner phone, etc all helps.

My area used to get a lot of visiting escorts. So I mainly tried new ones. We get fewer visitors nowadays. So I see regulars more often.

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I started hiring at 25. I did hookup for free. But my local hookup and dating scene was hit or miss. Escorting was in high demand though. Hiring was a good way to spend time with men my age range.

Did he change his username or delete?

Clients expect providers to be on call throughout the day. Expecting read receipts is too much.

https://rent.men/Ryan_Centofanti Don't let his youth fool you. He's a real dom who knows how to take charge.

Signs that hiring is becoming a compulsive behavior or harming your personal life: Spending non-discretionary funds on providers, or not budgeting how much you spend on providers. Obsessing over a provider when he's off the clock Ignoring relationships with friends, family or romantic partners. Ignoring physical or mental health.

I met him recently. He's good but not great at what he advertises. He makes up for it with his great figure and conversation. So I enjoyed my time overall.

Hiring a provider is an emotional, intimate experience. But it's different from spending time with friends, family and romantic partners. You don't pay a provider to spend time with you; you pay him to leave. It's a transactional relationship. Embrace it.

I think professional erotic photos are a great addition to a profile. But they don't have to be recent. Recent selfies and photos taken during everyday life are good.

Most providers in your age range have poor communication skills or professionalism. I've run into many who aren't on time, have slept through appointments, charge less than they're worth, etc. It makes me distrust young providers. When I was their age, I certainly didn't have the communication skills for the job. But if you can maintain professional, discreet communication with clients, you can build a clientele and enjoy your job.

I booked him for BFE. He's beautiful, loves his job and is eager to please his clients. He's not a good conversationalist. We had a great time. He's worth booking for his appearance and passion for his job.

New providers don't know market rates and often charge less than they're worth. The average price going down may reflect an influx of newcomers. The experienced and in demand escorts don't change their prices.

I was a regular for a couple in the past. We had a year long period when we didn't see each other at all. When they were visiting, I asked one partner to do an out call. Six months later I booked both of then for an in call. I learned the previous encounter pissed off the other partner. He was upset I preferred one of them. Lol. I didn't feel about it at all. It's just business.