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Escorts get a lot of messages from unreliable prospective clients, and guys who treat messaging as cybersex. It wastes their time. And the in demand providers get a lot of messages. If a provider doesn't respond to you, it means he's not into you or doesn't have time to reply.

I hired him when he was traveling. He's a handsome man. His mirror selfies are very accurate. He's worth hiring for his looks and intimacy. But he seemed uncomfortable working as a traveler. I'd hire him again if I were in NYC or Miami.

It's not a big deal. You set the pace of sessions. The provider's job is to accommodate you.

If this trainer also advertises escorting, you can do that. If you're trying to seduce a random personal trainer into providing, don't bother. You can watch porn to fulfill that fantasy.

I have a streaming subscription to studio porn and occasionally subscribe to OF/JFF creators. I've bought videos from providers I hire. I watch porn most days.

https://rent.men/Connorwood His pics are accurate and up to date. He's a fun twink who loves being intimate with clients. He is immature which affected my experience with him. But it's common among young escorts.

I've always been lightly active. I wanted to get back into providing. So I started working out 10 hours per week and improving my diet. I go to a gym with a good culture and do sports. I view it as part of the job. Vanity's part of the business and I'm proud of my muscles. My health has improved too. I don't think escorts need a specific body type to be attractive to clients. I'm not the most buff guy at the gym and I don't need to be.

Nice guy. He's very attractive with a gym fit figure. I loved his sense of intimacy.

Many escorts get into the business because they like older men.

His photos are all years old. How does he look now?

You say this as if you're paying for an essential service and not a luxury. Escorting is hard work and escorts put a lot of effort into their jobs even when they're off the clock. I'm not familiar with San Francisco, but many popular cities for escorts have high lodging costs. A one hour session for $300 isn't enough to break even for the day in these cities.

Most attractive ones I've met: https://rent.men/AlexAxxel https://rent.men/Rainer https://rent.men/ZenKian

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return. If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

He made a new profile.

You're already advertising your brand on Twitter and OnlyFans. You just need a contact system. Get a dedicated phone number for business inquiries (OF collabs and private engagements). Some escorts share contact info via their business email or their website.

I've asked providers to not wear cologne or to wear my preferred underwear type. But I've never asked a provider to change his appearance. I don't hire providers who don't meet my preferences for appearance and grooming.

Bring sandals and toiletries.

Check out Provicetown during the tourist season.

The Deli and Spas & Masseurs are not good sub-forms for providers. Review focused discussions benefit clients. This Questions About Hiring sub-forum is better for providers.

Many clients, including myself, demand a lot from escorts. Many escorts are selective with clients. Sometimes they'll ask for stats or pics. They're not gonna go above and beyond for a client who puts no effort into their appearance. That being said, escorts should exercise discretion when asking for photos. Deleting messages when needed, burner phone, etc all helps.

My area used to get a lot of visiting escorts. So I mainly tried new ones. We get fewer visitors nowadays. So I see regulars more often.

It's popular with men who are insecure about hair loss.

I started hiring at 25. I did hookup for free. But my local hookup and dating scene was hit or miss. Escorting was in high demand though. Hiring was a good way to spend time with men my age range.

Did he change his username or delete?

Clients expect providers to be on call throughout the day. Expecting read receipts is too much.