+ Coolwave35 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 I think he got a little too upset. claym, Jostar, ShyBi95 and 7 others 3 2 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJF Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Too many lies on twitter so newbies got the wrong ideas about escorting + Coolwave35 and HoseMaster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 I wouldn’t worry about it too much. If he’s charging $1K he’s out of my league. Period. Too many fish…. Medin, Anthony, + WestGuy and 8 others 2 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 10 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: I think he got a little too upset. Wasn't he on RM himself and how you found him ? Hahaha Luv2play, JUWS, + Coolwave35 and 3 others 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 your explanation for passing him up was to-the-point, reasonable, and honest......a professional provider (one who, ohhhh, is charging 1K/hr) wouldn't have replied as he did to that explanation...... next! thomas, peter831, + keroscenefire and 14 others 7 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 I think he got mad because in your initial back and forth after he quoted you his price you said ok thank you and didn't tell him that's too much until he messaged you the next day it looks like. + poolboy48220, + Italiano, + azdr0710 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 (edited) Fresh product, word taken🥰 …only when I know the grocer, butcher, or weed guy personally. Edited June 23, 2023 by jeezifonly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazarus Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Who cares if this guy comes 3 times back to back? If I’m paying 1K I better come 3 times back to back! GTMike, + Pensant, + Lucky and 23 others 3 7 5 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 You get one chance to make a first impression. When someone has the gall to ask for a grand they should be prepared to overcome objections. That’s basic sales 101. He needs to convince you that he will be really worth it. Sounds like you dodged a bullet Medin, Luv2play, Huxley and 12 others 3 1 8 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Anyone charging $1k/hr is either delusional, inexperienced, unprofessional, completely broke, desperate, all of the above….or….totally worth it and going to give you the most professional treatment you can expect from any provider you’ve ever contacted both in text and in person. Even still, that’s very steep. He’s not worth your time. This guy’s a clown. I agree with @BuffaloKyle it would have helped to close the conversation with the briefest explanation thanking him (you did) and saying you have decided not to hire. I think you reasonably did close the convo, without being so explicit about it. That should suffice, but the extra level of closure helps. It was the provider’s choice to initiate follow up contact with you the next day. That tells me he wants your business, but he’s treating you like you are wasting his time. It’s like he’s saying “please, grovel at my feet because I have a party trick of cumming three times without a refractory period.” Oh please, kid, get a grip and get a life. Some will take him up on his offer, but that pool of people is very, very small. He can charge 1k for one client, or something between $250-$500+ and have a hundred clients for every one who is willing to hire him at 1k. That’s his choice. Let him live with it, learn, and then either exit the industry, or get realistic with his business. HoseMaster, thomas, Njguy2 and 13 others 7 1 4 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ augustus Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 57 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said: Anyone charging $1k/hr is either delusional, inexperienced, unprofessional, completely broke, desperate, all of the above….or….totally worth it and going to give you the most professional treatment you can expect from any provider you’ve ever contacted both in text and in person. Even still, that’s very steep. He’s not worth your time. This guy’s a clown. Agreed. ralphwinter 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ augustus Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 The OP handled this quite well. 1k.....lmao. HoseMaster, marylander1940, + The Big Guy and 8 others 1 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted June 23, 2023 Author Share Posted June 23, 2023 2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said: I think he got mad because in your initial back and forth after he quoted you his price you said ok thank you and didn't tell him that's too much until he messaged you the next day it looks like. But then when he knew, why message me AGAIN the next day?? Like I thought it was done. GHart, + WestGuy, HoseMaster and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blck37 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said: Anyone charging $1k/hr is either delusional, inexperienced, unprofessional, completely broke, desperate, all of the above….or….totally worth it and going to give you the most professional treatment you can expect from any provider you’ve ever contacted both in text and in person. Even still, that’s very steep. He’s not worth your time. This guy’s a clown. I agree with @BuffaloKyle it would have helped to close the conversation with the briefest explanation thanking him (you did) and saying you have decided not to hire. I think you reasonably did close the convo, without being so explicit about it. That should suffice, but the extra level of closure helps. It was the provider’s choice to initiate follow up contact with you the next day. That tells me he wants your business, but he’s treating you like you are wasting his time. It’s like he’s saying “please, grovel at my feet because I have a party trick of cumming three times without a refractory period.” Oh please, kid, get a grip and get a life. Some will take him up on his offer, but that pool of people is very, very small. He can charge 1k for one client, or something between $250-$500+ and have a hundred clients for every one who is willing to hire him at 1k. That’s his choice. Let him live with it, learn, and then either exit the industry, or get realistic with his business. Well if 1k for Henry Cavill....i mean.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 I would have closed the loop in a single interaction. Say “sorry, that’s not in my budget,” thank him for his time and move on. Cliff, edinbrooklyn, peter831 and 7 others 5 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 29 minutes ago, blck37 said: Well if 1k for Henry Cavill....i mean.... Now this is a case of the delusional client. Henry Cavill would never be bought for such a paltry sum! He’s so hot. Loved him in Tudors. marylander1940, liubit, thomas and 2 others 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blck37 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 9 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said: Now this is a case of the delusional client. Henry Cavill would never be bought for such a paltry sum! He’s so hot. Loved him in Tudors. 😂😂😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 48 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: But then when he knew, why message me AGAIN the next day?? Like I thought it was done. He cums 3 times. You’ll get another message. Asterisk, thomas, RyanDean and 9 others 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 marylander1940 and Jamie21 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jostar Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 5 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: But then when he knew, why message me AGAIN the next day?? Like I thought it was done. Because he was desperate. He needs a reason for you to gave up and agree to his rate. Their a lot of providers that don't accept no for a answer and they desperate for you to say yes. But you did well you hold your ground and never submit 👏 ralphwinter, NYXboy, + KensingtonHomo and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 8 hours ago, Simon Suraci said: Now this is a case of the delusional client. Henry Cavill would never be bought for such a paltry sum! He’s so hot. Loved him in Tudors. Of course, I don't know him, but I imagine Henry Cavill has plenty of money. It is impossible to predict, tho, what somebody will do out of a sense of adventure, so if you caught him on the right day, who knows? GTMike 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WestGuy Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 Like many here, I have in the past reached out to guys who quoted me a price I was not willing to pay. I told them politely that I didn’t want to waste the provider’s time but his rate was more than I was willing to pay. On more than one occasion, the provider asked my top-line number and often agreed to meet for that rate. This guy seemed unwilling to come down from his $1k per hour rate and more power to him if he can command that. Becket, marylander1940 and + Italiano 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTMike Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 6 minutes ago, arnemgreeves said: Both of you were off colour here. He shouldn’t have contacted you again and you shouldn’t have told him that’s too much. Why do you think the OP was being off color? He provided an answer in a transparent and honest way in response to being contacted and prompted. He also didn't disrespect the Provider by saying he thought he wasn't worth $1,000/hr (and therefore based his decision on being too much) He specifically said he personally wouldn't spend $1,000/hr "on a new hire". The decision making had to do with the amount of financial risk committed on someone he didn't know. Becket, GHart, ralphwinter and 10 others 8 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 24 minutes ago, GTMike said: Why do you think the OP was being off color? He provided an answer in a transparent and honest way in response to being contacted and prompted. He also didn't disrespect the Provider by saying he thought he wasn't worth $1,000/hr (and therefore based his decision on being too much) He specifically said he personally wouldn't spend $1,000/hr "on a new hire". The decision making had to do with the amount of financial risk committed on someone he didn't know. Plus, if I were the escort (not this one), I would appreciate knowing why this potential client is not taking my business. Simon Suraci, Colton, rvwnsd and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted June 23, 2023 Share Posted June 23, 2023 How unfortunate that this particular escort was rude to you and tried to overcharge you. You're someone that has literally spent tens of thousands on escorts and by him being rude, he cut himself off from someone forum members know is a quite generous client in the long-term. Huxley and HoseMaster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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