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Greetings folks... As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday. Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us. Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up. This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment. While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team. So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well. And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road. There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them. For example, email may only be partially working. I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam. There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet. (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.) But anyway... you get the idea. No... we're not going anywhere! This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward. Thank you all for your understanding and support! Rob

Gentlemen, The moderators could use your help. Many of the reports we receive deal with merging threads, usually about providers, and moving threads to the correct forum. Before posting a message or starting a new thread, please check to see if the topic is in the correct forum or thread. If it’s regarding a provider check that the topic is not already being discussed in a previous thread. Everyday we are merging threads and moving them from the Deli to the Spa or to Questions. Remember, each forum has a brief description of what topics it covers. If you are reporting a thread that needs to be merged, always include a link to the other thread. Also, always include a reason for submitting your report. Thanks to all members who follow these guidelines and contact us when action is required.

Gentlemen, Your help is needed. The moderators have been receiving a record number of reports. We have many new members joining us each day. Most join to participate in our discussions but, unfortunately, a few are here just to cause trouble. We are doing our best to ban members who join just so they can personally attack others and use racial slurs as a description. This morning I woke up to a verbal and offensive attack on us from a recently banned member. The Moderators appreciate members who see these types of posts and report them. Please continue to keep this a safe site where all members can post freely and not be personally attacked for doing so. Thanks! 🙏

I have just seen this topic. I still don't want to believe it... It was 2009, San Francisco, and my first ever review was published on Daddysreviews by a long-standing member here. I had no idea what this site was so I went to check it out and shortly after my cell phone rang. A gentleman introduced himself as "Daddy" and told me that my review got published on his website. He asked me a few non-intrusive questions that were geared towards finding out whether the money I make through this means is being invested for my future. Again, and I must emphasize this, he did that in the most non-intrusive way as one possibly could have. I felt that he just genuinely wanted to ensure that I am on the right path to creating financial independence for myself in the long run. We covered a few other aspects of the industry and he offered me a helping hand in case I ever needed a piece of advice. Soon after my first published review came the second, third --- 20th, and 30th, and my business has exploded and I was full of quality inquiries. Surely, providing a great service doesn't hurt but without the ability for people to research their next "date" on a platform like his, how would anyone know about my abilities? But business (while obviously in our lives is key) was truly NOT what Daddy was all about. He was in it to help people. Genuinely. I had the pleasure to meet him on numerous occasions at a variety of restaurants and many times at his apartment in Las Vegas. We even met during the pandemic (the chair was waiting for me at the entrance to sit on) while he distanced himself from me by being in front of his computer on the other side of the apartment and we were both wearing masks. The "HOW" never really mattered, but every meeting with him was always highly insightful and entertaining.... and very genuine. Many of you probably didn't get the chance to truly know who was behind this nickname/website and I am very grateful that I had the pleasure of conducting more than just superficial chit-chats with him. For those of you who don't know, he was a computer whiz and had incredible talents at forensics and used to be retained as a forensic expert in multi-billion dollar lawsuit cases back in the day. This speaks volumes of the in-depth knowledge he had about certain fields in computers. Talking about talent, he used to be an escort himself (waaaaaaaaaaay) back in the day. He wasn't always overweight and was rather hot. He told me so many funny stories about providing services in LA/Beverly Hills to some of the Hollywood elites. They were extremely entertaining stories. He never cared about the money. He went as far as to flat-out decline highly lucrative promotional/marketing/advertising offers if he disagreed with how the company conducted its business in the gay world, whether we are talking about advertising practices, treatment of others, or the mission the company stood for. He was a principles guy, yet - needless to say - non-judgmental. Every time we talked - without an exception - he had his "routine" questions: - Are you happy? - Do you put a certain percentage of your money aside and invest it? - Do you take time out to have fun and enjoy life too? This should tell you about the type of person Bill was. (With names redacted), he showed me all kinds of escort inquiries where the guys offered him free sessions in exchange for promotion/bad review removal/self-review postings. He NEVER abused his position and always maintained his integrity. He was a big fan of Latin guys with muscles and cute butts. Who can blame him, right?! Yet... never ran out of compliments for me when we met. We talked about a few side projects of his too. Some of you may not know, but a few years back he was running a website that was teaching the transgender community about proper accessorizing / makeup / wigs and how to start out. He was also running it on his own dime and received no compensation for it. On my last in-person visit during COVID, we actually started discussing either a joint business venture or a certain promotional opportunity about a website that would have served as an extension of DaddysReviews. We have never finalized the details and sadly, that will not happen anymore. It would have been great to work with him I am sure. I just want you gentlemen to understand how this person sacrificed most of his life to help our community. He never asked for anything in return and I know exactly how much of his life he sacrificed for others. He changed my life, and probably many of your lives I am certain or the very bottom line, his work made your life a little easier in this crazy world. I hope that he is in a good place now, his contributions, his helping hand, his guidance, and the amount of care and love he put out for all of us will be remembered (at least by me) for a LIFETIME. When @Cooper reached out to me, I was shocked to hear that I was probably the only person who knew his address. He was so loving, welcoming and open that I thought he kept company often times at his home. I also would like to take this opportunity to thank Cooper for taking immediate actions and for keeping everyone posted. I am so truly sorry it ended this way. :-( THANK YOU BILL/DADDY/GUY FAWKES WITH ALL MY HEART! ❤

I get it. We all need touch. We all get that itch. He says he keeps his table super clean. We are both going to wear a mask. The economy needs to keep moving, etc., etc., etc. And that's all fine and well, except things are getting worse. Period. This isn't speculation, or mind control, or the government trying to take away your rights. This is life or DEATH. There's a new more contagious version of COVID-19 in the UK and now the US. In the Los Angeles area 1 in 5 people tested is showing to be infected. This is an huge increase from before the holidays. Ambulances are no longer transporting people in cardiac arrest if they cannot revive you on site you get left behind. There's no capacity for people hurt in car accidents or with other health emergencies. https://www.cnn.com/2021/01/05/us/los-angeles-county-california-human-disaster-covid/index.html So, yes... come here and share stories and tips, make your wish list for when things are more stable, ask about your favorite eye candy, but think twice 365,620 times before you book a massage. (That's the US death toll as of this posting.) And here's the thing; I know some of you are going to lambast me, and try your straw man arguments, report this post and try to have it taken down, but I really don't care. Somebody has to say this. We need to stop this thing. It starts with each of us acting responsibly. Need info on how to keep yourself safe? https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/prevent-getting-sick/prevention.html height=200pxhttps://uconn-today-universityofconn.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/GettyImages-1215979676-1024x717.jpg[/img]

Update Friday, March 12th. I sent the social worker a few additional names of associates of daddy’s. Hopefully, these leads can turn up someone related to him or someone who might have POA. Thanks to those sending me this information. Daddy’s condition remains the same. No change from Wednesday’s report. It’s now over 2 weeks since the police found daddy on the floor of his home. Other than keeping him in our thoughts, prayers, or sending good karma, we just have to patiently wait for the healing/recovery process to kick in. I truly appreciate all the concern and love you’ve shown for daddy/Guy Fawkes. He means a lot to us. I’ll do my best to keep you posted. Cooper ❤️

There are a few important changes that are in the works that I wanted to let the community know about so that there are no surprises and that you can properly plan for them. Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), there is going to be an update to the Invision Power Board (IPB) software which will require users to login with their email address instead of their display name. This means if you have to login to the site, you would type in your email address to access the site once that update is applied. Once logged in, your email address will not be shown anywhere. You current username will continue to be used once logged into the site to view and post. With the October release of IPB, it will introduce a new feature that allows admins to prune older private messages that have not had any replies within a certain amount of time. We currently have over 1M private messages exchanged by users going back for 20 years. This takes up over 1000MB of space within the site's database. I plan to use the new feature to prune messages that have not been replied to within 5 years. If you have older private messages that are important for you (for sentimental purposes or contain helpful information), please be sure to save an offline copy for yourself. You could also simply just reply to the message again so that it has recent activity. That would automatically exclude it from being pruned. As part of my resiliency planning, I've been trying to figure out how the site would continue to operate if something happened to me. We've seen what happened when Daddy died... if we don't have someone who understands how to run a website and how to maintain the IPB software, we could find ourselves in a bad place. Finding people that understand all of this is difficult if not impossible. As a result, I've been focused on how to remove this dependancy. My plan is to have the site moved to being hosted by Invision itself. They would take care of all of the underlying server technology and ensure the platform is compatible with the software. Any updates could be applied from the Admin area of the site without needing to understand about the rest of the stuff under the hood. Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), I will need to schedule a day or two to take the site offline for the migration to ensure we don't lose any data from the time I start the export until the time it's migrated and restored. Having Invision host the site is somewhat more expensive than what we're doing today, but I think it's a critical step to ensure the site's continued operations should I get hit by a bus or something similar. I don't have specific dates yet for the above changes. The first two changes are dependent on the IPB software being released and me being able to test them successfully before applying. The last change will need to be coordinated with the Invision hosting team to make sure they have someone available on their side to handle the import after I finish exporting our data. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask below.

Hello All! It seems a simple post on behalf of a very kind gentleman set off a bit of a debate with several of you. I’m new into this site and wanted to thank those of you who, despite not knowing me, paid several compliments or simply said kind things on my behalf. I very much appreciate it. I just wanted to have a moment to introduce myself, and that I look forward to engaging with you. I do my damndest to lead with kindness and empathy, whether online, in a date, or in bed. As for my weight - it is a challenge having an above average bubble butt that makes you, statistically, obese. Luckily - as a power bottom I have found men tend to enjoy a the extra pounds in my posterior. Feel free to see the proof of my obesity below. Thanks again, and feel free to reach out with any questions you might have for me either on here or on EvinAlexsander - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN EvinAlexsander Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Bodywork. | Find...

My first Erotic Massage was on a business trip. I hired a masseur for an outcall. When I answered the door, I felt like I had ordered a pizza. The guy had a classic pizza delivery guy vibe. About 22 years old......but could easily pass for 18 y/o. About 6 ft....with a swimmers build. He had no table, so he spread a sheet on the bed. He stripped first, and as he took off his pants out dropped an enormous cock, thick and with a huge head. I quickly stripped and got on the bed. He started on my upper back, and did an amazing job. Big, strong hands. He did a foot massage, and then he made his move. When he did the foot massage, in a smooth move, he took my one leg and put it at my side, and without asking dove into my ass with his tongue. He was very verbal, and kept murmuring how hot I was ( sure, I 'll take that LOL). I was a bit unsure whether to let him continue, but went with the flow. He must have rimmed me for over 15 minutes, and kept reaching and pinching my nipples at the same time as he was rimming me. I was rock hard and stroking myself, and reached over to him and he was rock hard. He kept being verbal, telling me to relax and enjoy his tongue. At my request, I then asked him if we could stand up for a minute. We both stood up, and he then dove into my chest, licking and sucking my nipples, again being verbal. I was ready to burst, so asked if we could get back on the bed. We then got into a 69 position, and went at each other's cocks. He was then ready to cum, and as I took my mouth off his cock, he shot and hit the headboard and it dripped down. (he later claimed he shoots even further) He then had me lay on my back, and finished me off with a blow job. After he finished me off, he said he could cum again, and asked if he could stand on the bed, while I laid back since he wanted to shoot all over me. So he then came again, all over my chest and abs. That's 22 years old for you! Great first erotic massage experience with an expert masseur....and an expert tongue!

There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

"My license was suspended my girlfriend drives me to appointsments can she come in and watch One Tree Hill? (she won't disturb us)"

It was March 27th, 2022 that we finished our rebranding effort to Company of Men. That means on Monday we will celebrate our first anniversary with our new name and domain. Thank you to everyone that has stuck with us during the transition! This site would not be anything without each of us participating and contributing to the community.

Well said! A proper massage is important and needs to be done by someone who recognises that massage is an art. It’s not just rubbing your baby oiled hand up and down his back to kill time while you check your phone for insta likes and the mirror for your abs. A masseur knows that sensual massage is a seduction, to be savoured by his client. He knows it’s to enable him to learn about his client’s body and what turns him on so that when the time comes for his client’s climax he can press all the right buttons to get the desired response. Hire a masseur, because the journey is at least as important as the destination.

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So glad I re-discovered this thread! Always nice to get confirmed I’m not the only one engaging in such licentious behaviour! 😂 I’ve been fortunate in that I’ve managed to have a number of encounters thru the years with hotel staff. I thought I’d share one tale of my wanton ways with you gents! This one is a bit lengthy, I tried to edit it down, but there’s a lot of buildup, a lot of “am I reading this right” over 36 hours before we got sweaty. Some years ago, my travels for work brought me to what we called “Asia-Pac & Oceania” fairly frequently. Basically once a quarter I’d be out in region for 3-4 weeks, traveling between countries. This one trip, towards the end, I was in Singapore for about 4 days. I was then scheduled to head to Australia to round out the trip. I always added on about a week of PTO in Australia each time to enjoy the local talents so to speak, and was looking forward to it. Anyway, I’m in Singapore, and the hotel I’m booked into has “butlers”, for a lack of a better word, assigned to each suite. You had the same gent for your entire stay - he’d be responsible for example, bringing you room service, taking care of any dry cleaning or laundry, ironing, extra towels, toiletries, items you forgot or ran out of, running errands if needed, unpacking, packing, etc.. The “butler” that trip I had had before - very nice, slightly built Asian gent. No attraction whatsoever on my part. My planned last day in Singapore, I finished up work about noon, and decided to make the short walk back to the hotel, and relax before the overnight flight to Sydney. Of course, it began to rain - and rain in Singapore in no joke. I picking up my pace, getting soaked, but I’m only a few minutes from the hotel. The forecourt had polished granite pavers in the drive, or something like that - whatever they were, they were slippery. I should have been walking in the footpath, but in my haste to get out of the rain, I cut thru the drive, and of course wiped out. Doorman, and staff come to my aid, get me up and into the lobby. I should add I have a bad back, so I knew it was fcuked then and there. Thankfully, I always travel with my muscle relaxants and pain killers - hoping with them, and a good night’s sleep I’d be OK in a few hours for the 8 hour flight to Sydney. It was a misery undressing, getting in the shower, getting into a robe. I decided to err on the side of caution, called the front desk to extend my stay, which thankfully they were able to, switched flights, rearranged things in Australia, etc.. Hotel was wonderful, offering to get a doctor for me, comping meals, and drinks. I popped my pills, dropped the robe, crawled into bed with a few moans and groans and hoped for the best. Come morning, I find I can’t even maneuver myself out of the bed. Ugh! I have no choice but to call the “butler” to ask for help. He knocks, I say come in, using the pass key he enters and what a surprise! Not the slightly built Asian gent - but a tall, younger, well muscled feast for the eyes. Oh my. He introduced himself as “Harry”, and reading my face said he was taking over for the other gent. He had a lovely voice, deep and with that particular accent one finds in Singapore - a kind of Asian-English accent - thick glossy hair, deep brown eyes, and his musculature was very evident thru the short sleeved uniform shirt/jacket he wore. To give a visual, think of the actor Jason Wong, but with a thick muscular build. Now mind you, I’m naked under a sheet in bed, and I let him know due to my back, I needed help getting out. He flashed a dazzling smile “no problem”, strides over and is leaning on one knee on the bed over me, trying to maneuver me. I’m trying to hold on to the sheet to preserve some dignity, Harry noticed and said “don’t worry about that, it’s fine”. He gets me up, I realise he’s about 6’ maybe 6’1”, thank him, ask for the robe, and say I’m good now. I start to walk, really shuffle with a few grunts towards the bathroom, and Harry offers “don’t be silly, you need help” and proceeds to wrap his left arm around my upper back, taking my right hand in his right hand and slowly guides me to the bathroom. “Don’t worry, just go, I have you” I’m sure I turned 20 shades of red, but go I did as my hunky Singaporean “butler” held me up. Done, he stayed at my side as I washed my hands, brushed my teeth. He suggested a shower to help my muscles relax, and without really waiting was ushering me to the walk in, adjusting the temps, and taking off my robe. At some point he removed his uniform top, so I’m being manhandled by this shirtless muscular younger guy into the shower. Harry tells to just brace myself against the wall, and he takes the handheld attachment, adjusts it to the pulse and directs it at my back. I will say it felt amazing, and I wouldn’t have been able to do it myself. He readjusted to regular shower and used that all over my body, front, back, top to bottom, reaching in to manoeuvre me as needed. All the while smiling saying “you’re doing well, just a few more minutes to make you feel fresh”. Well, ok. Shower done, I ask for a towel, but no, he towels me off. I try to protest, but he just smiles and tells me I’m clearly unable. Needless to say, this close contact started to have a effect. I just thought of anything to keep me down. I was obviously “plumped” but not fully “up”. Small mercies. Harry walks me naked into the sitting room, gently lowers me onto a towel on the sofa, and goes into the bedroom to redress the bed, then comes to get me, asking if I wanted to wear anything, I’m struggling to keep “down”, so to end this I just said no, and he said “good, naked is better when you’re feeling poorly” with that smile again. He gets me in bed, propped up on a bunch of pillows, on his knees on the bed with me, arranging me. I’m both mortified, and incredibly turned on. He’s finally satisfied with how I’m situated, goes to the bathroom, comes out carrying his uniform top asking what else I need - OMG! When did my life turn into a porn film I’m thinking lol I ask for my pills, he drops his top, goes and gets my pills, and says “these say to take with food, so tell me what you want to eat first, and I’ll give it to you”. Another OMG moment. Mind you he’s still walking around topless, and despite my pain, I’m having all sorts of naughty thoughts about Harry. I give him my order, he passes me the remote and phone, then kind of braces an arm against the headboard, leans over me to ask if I’ll be ok while he’s gone. As I’m admiring his muscles, I assure him I will be fine, thank him for all his attentiveness. He smiles, puts on his top, and says “it’s all part of the service”. He goes, I’m like “WTF just happened????” Harry came back with the breakfast, nothing else happened then. He continued to check on me thru the day, helped me out of bed a few more times as needed. He’d even stay and chat a bit. Came to find he was getting his advanced degree, while working at the hotel, he asked about NYC, I asked about his life, etc.. A very nice, charming, and to my eyes, a hot young man. I’m now at this point convinced the back pain, wishful thinking, and my own mortification at the situation that morning totally coloured my interpretation of what was said, what happened. Ah well. Still some nice eye candy! These “butlers” normally go off duty at 7 or 8PM. He brought my dinner, I again thanked him for all his help, and wished him a good night. He smiled and said “good night? the manager said you were in a bad way, so he has me staying at the hotel tonight to be on call for you” Oh ok. Another visit or two, then lights out for me. Next day, I was feeling better, and was more ambulatory, but he insisted on helping me, so my morning ablutions were a repeat of the previous day’s. He gets me back to bed, commenting on how I’m moving better, and says a massage would help. I thought he was right, asked who was available at the hotel, he just smiled raised his hands wiggling his fingers “you’re in luck, Harry’s magic fingers are all yours!” Oh my! He left, saying he’d be back with his supplies. Harry returns, moves me off the bed, says the bed will be fine as I wouldn’t be able to climb on the table yet. Gets a big bath sheet on the bed, helps me back on, face down. He takes his top off as I expected, then starts on his pants, he smiles, stops taking them off, says “is it okay I just don’t want to get any of oils or lotions on them” Carry on, Harry. So picture it, me naked face down on the bed, hugging some pillows, this big muscular Singaporean now down to a tight, and a very well filled out pair of short black boxer briefs is basically straddling me. I will say, he knew what he was doing, and I told him so. He offered, at one point he thought of going into physical therapy, so he had training. I was fully “up” by the time he rolled me over, but he passed no comment. I pretty much ate, slept, watched TV, had visits from Harry the rest of the day. He said he was off duty that night, but front desk knows I may need help, so call if I do. I thanked him again, told I’m I’ll see you tomorrow, and to enjoy his night. He replied don’t worry, I’ll come see you before I go. I thought nothing, just thought he was being kind. Another attendant came to take away my dinner things, asked if I needed anything, and to call the front desk if I do. About an hour later there’s a knock, I call for them to come in, as I’m making my way from the bathroom to the sitting room, and it’s Harry - now in his “off duty” gear. Wow! Tight white tee shirt and trackie bottoms, with a gym bag over his shoulder. He looked delicious! He guided me back to bed, commenting on how much better I seemed to be doing. Without asking, and with no protest from me, he slid off my robe, and guided more than helped me into bed. Harry sat on the edge of the bed, kind of facing me, legs spread - of course I looked and I would have bet my last dollar Harry was going commando. He said he was glad I was doing better, I joked that it was all due to his attentions the last 36 hours, and his magic fingers. He blushed a bit, said he was glad he was able to help. Then offered another massage. I said it wasn’t necessary, he was off duty, it was kind enough he stopped by to check on me, and I didn’t want to keep him from his plans. He came back with he had no plans, and if the first one helped, another might have me feeling better too. Lost in his eyes, how could I refuse? He guided me off the bed as he set everything up, I “assumed the position”, with head turned to observe him strip. Topless, he started taking his trackies off, then stopped and said “I’m not wearing pants - is it ok?” I’ll admit I was already thinking about what filled out his boxer briefs, so I joked since he’d seen all of me, it’s only fair he return the favour. He laughed, said thanks for being so cool, and off came the trackies. I think I may have gasped lol Very nicely proportioned. Thick, darker complected, uncut, nice dark balls, and all crowned with beautiful bush. “Well, here we go!” I thought. Both naked, on the bed, he’s giving me another wonderful massage, enhanced by the fact he’s naked, and I’m feeling “him”. Of course I’m reacting, and thankful I’m on my stomach, but I am storing all images in my mind, enjoying every minute, every touch. This could have ended here, and it would have been one of the hottest romps with hotel staff. But Harry, as I found out later, had different ideas, and a very definite plan. After 30 minutes working on my back, going much lower than the first time I might add, his magic fingers working my glutes, Harry totally throws me for a loop when he says, “I didn’t do your front this morning, roll over so I can do it now”. What?!? I am naked, fully erect in bed in a hotel with the hotel “butler” also naked straddling me, asking me to roll over??? I stammered, spluttered, don’t think I said anything intelligible, he leans over me bends close to my ear, I swear I felt his hard nipples on my back, and says “it’s ok bapa, me too, don’t be shy, let me see” as I felt his erection on me. Oh God! I guess this is happening I thought, I exhaled, and I rolled over. Harry saw me, I saw Harry, and we were off! Even with my lingering back pain, we were able to fuck, him topping, twice. He joked after the second time, “you can move better now, that first orgasm released endorphins to help you”. Indeed all thanks to you, Harry. I was in Singapore 2 more days, and both days Harry continued his ministrations to both of our mutual pleasure. I was smiling the entire 8 hour flight to Sydney. We did stay in touch - he was able to arrange his schedule to be my “butler” when I was in Singapore, and with no back problems on subsequent trips, we were able to leave the hotel, as well be a bit more adventurous in the hotel bed, and his own bed. Harry finished graduate school, and wound up relocating to London about 2 or so years later. I have seen him a number of times on trips there. He is now married a lovely Scottish guy - it was a bit jarring meeting the husband the first time, as we both remarked how similar we are in looks, build - clearly Harry has a type! Both have also made clear I’m Harry’s “free pass”. I was not going to argue with that! Harry turns 40 this year, and I’ll be in London for the party, and he’s planning a long weekend in NYC with me to celebrate some more. I thought after, and still on occasion ponder, if I had taken the car back to the hotel, if it hadn’t rained, if I stayed on the footpath, if I hadn’t fell, etc., I never would have met Harry, never would have had what is arguably my best time in Singapore, and wouldn’t have a great friendship with him to this day. TL;DR - businessman falls in Singapore, muscular Singaporean hotel staff massages him, fucks him, and they maintain friendship to this day. Again, apologies for the length! Hope you gents enjoy 😀 BBD

For the last several weeks I have come to this site expecting this news and was then relieved when it was not here. I was just heading to bed and decided I would check again, just to be sure. Unfortunately, this time, my expectation was met I hope that in his life, he had a sense of the important role he played in the life of many of the men of this site. I had the opportunity to meet him at the Palm Springs Party and found him to be a caring man but to me, he was more than a bit sad. It my sincere hope that he found joy in his life, satisfaction in his work and companionship in times of need. I also hope that in his passing he will be remembered as a hard working and dedicated individual who held this site together and who, as a result of that, held us together. It seems that we will all soon need to move on with our lives without the comfort and joy this site brings. When we miss this site, we should also take time to consider and thank the man who worked so diligently to bring it to us.

I certainly can understand the interest the membership has in receiving updates on daddy’s health. Sadly, as of today, there has been no change. He’s being kept sedated as he recovers from covid. I realize this thread has gotten very long and perhaps some of you missed my last update where I mentioned if anything changes I’ll let you know immediately. Again, your kind words & concern for daddy are most appreciated. Hopefully, he’ll soon be able to read them. Stay well, Cooper

I don't know if folks saw my teaser in the Lounge for the new review site, but with the new system we will have the capability to have multiple categories of things to review. This will include things such as: Inside of each category will be items (either a person or a place). It's basically the thing being reviewed. Each item depending on what category that it is in can have a set of questions/fields associated with it. This allows us to ask different questions for each type of item being reviewed. Within each item will be the ability to have reviews. Again, since different categories can have different types of needs, I can create different questions for the reviews themselves. Think of the reviews as descriptions of the encounter. You will have an item (aka the masseur) and then the item will have reviews that describe member's encounters. Given the progress that is being made with the new review site, I'm ready to start figuring out what information we want to collect. This is where I need your help! I need to collect both the types of categories we want and what questions would be in the category. For example: ITEM INFO Contact Info Ad URL Phone Email Website Physical Info Age Ethnicity Height Weight Body Build Style Massage Type (Sports, Deep Tissue, Erotic, etc) Experience (years) Location (In-call, Out-call, etc) REVIEW INFO Location (City, State, Country) Date of Encounter Session Type (In, Out, etc) Session Length Rate (Price ranges... 100-199, 200-299, 300-399, etc) Would You Hire Again (Rate of 5 stars) Did They Match Description (Rate of 5 stars) Lived Up To Expectations (Rate of 5 stars) Review Details (A text box similar to replying to a post to free-form describe your experience.) I need to do this for both individual masseurs and for spas. I would anticipate there would be different things you would want to know about a spa versus someone who is freelance. Let me know the types of info you think are critical to ask about both the item (person) and about the encounter itself.

Any provider worth his salt should be happy to see you, but it never hurts to briefly describe yourself beforehand, especially if it will make you feel more comfortable during the session. Kevin Slater

Ummm.....you left out the part where young men were dying. It’s kind of an important part of the narrative.

Curious that two brand-new accounts were created just to reply to this one thread and extol this escort. Kevin Slater

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended). I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years. My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life. The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health. Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.

Early this morning, something happened at the hosting company, and the site fell through a wormhole. I'd been talking with @RadioRob about it yesterday, and contacted him. For most of the day, he's been busy rescuing the site. Since he couldn't get it to work on the old server, he copied it to another one, and set up a new URL, M4M-forum.org to point to it. Now that it's working in its new home, the old site re-directs to the new one, where you should be now. Please bookmark the new URL. Once we have updated the DNS entries for the old site's URL to point to the new server, the redirect will no longer be needed and the old server can be relinquished. There is other work to do for moving the review site. All of this means that it is time to decide who will own and run this place.

I recently retired and soon after my move to Palm Springs, I started going to the gym each day. My intention was just to improve my level of fitness and, as the gym is one which caters to a very high percentage of gay middle aged men, to ogle those men who have not been remiss in going to the gym. The gym has many very muscular men and lots of fit men of all ages. Going to the gym has been much easier as I know that there will be all kinds of eye candy there. The people have been extraordinarily supportive of a fat old man doing walking laps. I have receieved unsolicited encouragement from dozens of people at the gym and it has made this transition to a healthier lifestyle much easier. On the first day, I walked a mile and when I was done, one of the trainers came to speak to me and encourage me to keep at it. Several days later, I saw him again and I asked to speak to him about an eventual training session. He asked me what my goals were at the gym and I told him that my immediate goal was to be able to get up off the floor unassisted. He said that he likes people with realistic goals and there should be no trouble reaching this milestone. He left, I sat for a bit taking in the view and then went to rise from the chair only to have the leg twist and buckle and I landed on the floor. After the inital shock of being on the floor wore off, I looked around and no one was coming to give me assistance and so I need to get myself up. I eventually succeeded just as some men noticed me and came to assist. They were fairly hot looking and I was tempted to throw myself down to the floor just so they would help me up. Instead, I thought, well my first goal was accomplished so time to set a new one. My follow up goal had to do with activities at the gyn and my personal appearance. As a fat men over 60, it had been awhile since I had seen my penis without the use of a mirror and some belly shuffling. So my goal became to see my penis. Only two methods came to mind, lose substantial gut or get a bigger penis. I would have preferred the getter a bigger penis option, but that did not seem viable, so I opted for the lose some of the gut al.ternative. Two month later, my walking sessions have stretched to almost an hour and I have increased my distance by 2.5 times the original. Clothes are looser and energy is higher and yesterday was the day the second goal was accomplished. There, while looking down at my feet, was an old friend I had not seen for years. He looked good but a bit less robust than I remembered him. Still, I was happy to see him and soon afterward he appeared to be happy to see me. So now that I have reached my second plateau, do any of you have any suggestions as to what the third goal should be? I intend to continue going to the gym, even through the summer inferno of Palm Springs but a fun and achievable goal makes the whole process easier. I will be adding some light weight training to my regimen. I have considered that a pec bounce might be the next goal but I am open to suggestions.

Not sure if I should be posting these here or not. I am a big fan of underwear/gear and since you were looking for some pics I thought I’d share a few. I made sure there are some tighty whities in there for you guys. Hope it’s okay.

Just reading your post gave me heart palpitations - my Saturday night consisted of sitting in front of the TV with a pot of macaroni and cheese. The disaster for me was not soaking the pot in the sink and now having to scrub really heard this morning,

As we approach the end of the year, the Moderators would like to wish you a joyous holiday season and a prosperous start to 2022! Reflecting on 2021, we're grateful that the transition to a new site has retained so many of our long-term members and excited to have the contributions of members who have joined us this year. Looking forward to your festive and joyful posts the rest of the year (and no posts from Ebenezer Scrooge.😉)

Saddened about the news but glad he's out of suffering. I changed our profile photo in his honor. Nice to have it as a remembrance. We didn't really know that much about him, but he was always kind, considerate, engaging and a little naughty. Exactly the type of person we love to love. ♥

He's not calling you when he's horney, he's calling you when he's broke.

It’s really helpful if the provider’s city, as well as his name, is posted in the title. “Dick in Des Moines” “Boner Boy in Berlin” Thanks all!

An escort told me a story about going to a party as a boyfriend. The client had told all his friends about his new lover and was eager to show him off. When they arrived at the party the escort laughed to himself because he was in a room filled with past clients, some of which he had seen that same year. The client du jour smiled as he introduced his boyfriend around the room. As the evening wore on all the past clients would quietly tell the escort "please don't let others know we've seen each other." It turned out to be a great farce, but everyone was nice about it and didn't try to ruin the evening of the happy present client, so proud of his "new boyfriend." Interesting and funny story.

One of the biggest challenges that I've observed over the years is the number of "411" threads on a specific person. There are times we could have anywhere from 3-12 on a single person! This could happen for different reasons... such as someone not knowing how to use the search function or the provider had changed their name. When we eventually launch the new review site, when a new item is added... a forum topic will automatically be created for that place/person. It will have a subject of: [ Category ] Item Name So for example, it might look like: [ Escort ] John Doe The first post inside of that topic will contain fields from the review (I can pick which fields get brought over so not all may be posted). The goal will be that the topic will become the master topic about discussion about that item (person/place). Over time... if we see information that changes about the item, people will be able to report it so that it can be updated. So if an escort changes their name for example, someone would report that record and provide the new name. A moderator will be able to update the item. They'll also be able to add the old name to a special field called "Former Names". This will let us to better track those who change their names from time to time. Inside the review record, it might look something like: If other things change, that can be updated in the record itself. All of the detail from that record anytime it is edited would also sync to the master thread and edit the first post in it with the updated info, including the topic title if there was a a name change involved. Now... I'm going to put this out there now that moderators may from time to time not publish a name change in the "Former Names" field. If we have reason to believe there is a risk to the person or there is another legitimate reason, we may update the name field only without adding the old name to the former name field. This will hopefully allow the first post to contain all of the latest known info about each item as it gets changed over time without needing to update 500 places. If it works out the way I'm hoping, this will become the "source of truth" about the item and people can comment over time with their own observations, etc. The topic itself would not be used for reviews. (That's what the review system is for.) But general discussion about the person would happen there. Eventually if someone does post a new thread about someone where a master topic exists, the moderators may end up merging that post into the master. This is obviously not in place yet. I'm just tossing the idea out there now so folks have a chance to comment on it and get used to the idea.

If you aren't going to mention the name of the provider, what is the purpose of the post? How to handle a similar situation? You didn't provide enough details for someone to provide you with an intelligent answer. If you are concerned enough about what happened to you to create a new topic, then you should be equally as vigilant in giving us the provider's name so no one else has to experience this "dangerous encounter". Otherwise, this thread is totally useless. BoZo

The global organisation that regulates the erotic / sensual massage industry: The Regulatory Union of Bodyworking has a sub committee (The Terms Unifying Group) that is set up to handle issues like this. At the last meeting of the RUB&TUG group (as it is known for short) the members couldn’t reach agreement on what the difference was between a sensual massage and an erotic massage. The minutes show that the meeting ended unhappily although it was agreed that in that situation the meeting could not have been classified as sensual or erotic.

(Apologies in advance for the long winded one…it’s the end of the night and who knows when I’ll get on here next…) Well…..a perfect time for me to actually inject myself into this conversation! Like a bad family dinner that just changes moods INSTANTLY when you start talking about the black sheep in the family…! The COVID conversation is never going to be a fun one, on ANY side of the fence. A wiser escort once told me…never vent your true feelings about politics or any of their derivatives on this forum…because you’ll immediately ostracize half(or more) of the people who regularly post. In addition, he said the best posture was to assume that everyone here is better educated, and has more diverse life experiences then you. Well, he was absolutely correct on the latter- I find that the average person I’ve connected with from here is a standout, on virtually any rubric you use. On the former…he broke his own rule of wisdom and promptly got himself banned for clashing with the previous forum owner. So anyhow….now that we’ve got that little ‘aside’ about politics and it’s ugly stepchild Coronavirus out of the way(I’ll comment once on it by saying it forcibly changed my life…but probably for the better, in the long run), I’d like to just give a tremendous ‘Thank You’ to all of those who commented for me ‘in absentia’, by keeping my little memories alive and well. Physically- I feel I’m in great shape; having a more grounded life and the ability to control your meals makes for a huge difference. Negatively offsetting a lot of these physical ‘gains’, is clearly the fact that I’ve drank to a far larger amount during COVID, then prior. Coping mechanism. However, I’d like to think I have it under control; as I have to function 5-6 days a week as a well driller / installer; and then a night or two dancing. Factor in 1-3 clients if I’m able to accommodate….and it’s a life. Not a great life; but tons of potential for a future in the company(owned by one of my best friends, a fucking stud himself IMO). He’s nearly doubled his numbers since I came onboard, while also lowering his advertising budget- because the repeat work from his past 7 years is snowballing with momentum. Each year will get progressively better, as long as we stay sharp. For those of you around the country who’ve wanted to see me…trust me…I want to see you too. I wish I could be traveling around like I used to; but those days are most likely behind me. I may detach out a two 3 or 4 day jaunts a month to the larger areas, like San Fran, LA, Chicago, Florida, Chicago, or DC. Or, if those of you out there are able to get to NYC or Boston, I can come down with little to no problem, if you can host. Alternatively, if you are able to take the train to Hartford or have a car, you’re welcome at my house….if you can contend with two 12 lb. balls of fluff. Brave that gauntlet, and I’ll gladly entertain you with tons of free time, and a meal…nobody leaves this house without eating… Will try to find the time to get on here more….the web domain had seemed to shift, and I didn’t follow it as aggressively as I should have. Am back now- will certainly try to stay current! Much love to all of you for keeping this hobby as alive as possible. ❤️

Hi, I’ve had the privilege of communicating with some of Guy/daddy’s friends on the West Coast. They’ve known him for close to 50 years. They’ve worked together, lived together, and just hung out. One of them was daddy’s Advocate while he was in the hospital. Needless to say, daddy’s passing had a major impact on them. One of the friends recently emailed me and provided some pictures. He said if anyone is interested to share them. He also wrote about some interesting stories, for example, back in the ‘90’s, daddy officiated at their wedding. Yes, he wore many hats. If anyone would like to see these pictures send me a PM with your email address. For me, that’s the easiest way to do it. Cooper

Sixty years ago today, I was approached in the Port Authority bus terminal in New York by an attractive young man who introduced himself as "Michel." He was tall and slender, with black hair and blue eyes, and he asked, "Are you gay?" I wasn't sure what he was asking--he had a slight accent (I later learned he was French Canadian), but I thought perhaps there was a slight language problem, and he was probably asking whether I was feeling light-hearted and in a mood for some friendly fun. "Yes!" I beamed back. He suggested that we go back to his place, which turned out to be a room in an old tenement on the Lower East Side, with a communal bathroom down the hall. As soon as the door closed behind us, he practically ripped my clothes off, and proceeded to take me through the standard repertoire of male-on-male sexual acts: oral/anal/top/bottom. I had never had sex with a man before, and to me the most thrilling part was the passionate kissing during much of it. After a couple of hours and several climaxes, we finally started to get dressed again. "Wow!" I gushed. "I didn't know some of those things were possible!" He stopped and gave me a puzzled look. "But you said you were gay?" It was my turn to look confused. "Umm, maybe I don't understand what you meant...." It suddenly dawned on him that I was much less experienced than he had assumed. For the next half hour he gave me a vocabulary lesson about what we had been doing (e.g., I thought that 'rim' was a noun, not a verb), and explained what it meant to say that I was "gay." By the time I got back on the bus to my home in the suburbs (I learned I was a "bridge and tunnel queen"), I felt much more sophisticated than when I had arrived, and I had a new word to identify myself. So wherever you are, Michel, thank you for teaching me what it meant to be "gay."

Hello Guys! This is long overdue but I felt it was time to try and interact up here as well as give a low down on some things about me and maybe clear up some stuff. Someone even said my ad was fake which gave me a laugh as I am real and breathing!!! For any that don't know me I am Brian Strowkes, actor for many sites in the past such as Next Door, Active Duty, Kink , Dirty Tony, and more... I am based in Vegas not any of the small cities my ad sometimes says like Rapid City, etc ( this is because in Vegas there is either a LEO or Jealous Escort posing as so and harrasing prominent guys in the city) I love meeting new people so please reach out if you are coming to the area, I may just be around. I constantly travel to LA, SF, DC, Palm Spring, Denver, PHX, Philly, NYC, Boston, Ohio, Chicago, Baltimore, Raleigh, Miami, Texas, Salt Lake, Pittsburgh, Buffalo/Niagara Falls and a few others also. This brings me to my next point the people who despite not even meeting get up here and try to bad mouth me... I am not a flake and besides the rare emergency that comes up in life you can guarantee I will be there if treated with respect during communication. With that being said I kind of wanted to break down some of the things that are off putting for me when communicating with prospective dates and also just some generals things about me: 1. If you just message "Hi" initially (that's it just Hi), I used to reply but just realized 99% of these aren't serious and waste time. If you are the serious 1% please just please introduce yourself a little more. 2. You fail to read my interests that are clearly listed on the profile and continue to ask unnecessary questions. 3. " How much for sex" or any similar explicit question is going to instantly sketch me out.. I am available for my time . 4. If I provide you with my donation for time and you come back in a offensive low ball manner and derogatory comment. 5. I always can usually host or travel when in a city for the same rate for time both ways. 6.Asking for more pictures or more explicit/private photos... My ad photos are current and nude mostly.. and are also listed by date. I haven't gotten fat ( This is the funniest question I get asked) 7. I may be kind of straight forward when setting up but if we confirm expect a sweet sweet southern boy to show up. I have to weed out the aggressive and rude dates as I prefer to not meet them for my safety. 8. I wrestle or play tennis tournaments while traveling usually so sometimes I do just get busy and can't reply instantly like some expect.. Sorry guys life happens but I also try to get back ASAP!! I really hope this helps clear up some things or any confusion and I look forward to meeting all of you. If by chance we missed a connection in the past.. feel free to say hi again! If we have met say hi again up here Positive Vibes to everyone out here in this Jungle we are living in lol Link - https://rent.men/Brianstrowkes

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Well, I thought the whole thing sounded kinda lame but I had a little time on my hands so I created a profile. I can't say I found much in the first few days: twinks, fakes, flakes, the usual assortment of game players. Then I met a guy who is an aspiring fitness model based in Toronto. I took a leap of faith and flew him to New York. Well, we just spent the better part of the past 10 days at my place in CT. It was amazing. He's 23, ripped, beautiful, and for this initially visit all he wanted was his airfare and other expenses covered. So, perhaps, it's not a bad site after all. It was worth the $70 initial fee.

I only pay escorts to talk about things like NY vs Chicago pizza, conspiracy theories and geology. They insist on having sex with me afterwards for free. Who am I to turn them down? 🤷‍♂️

I'm going to write you guys a story here that's very applicable to these forums that I have refrained from telling. Mostly because you don't want to give everyone hope and my situation is probably pretty unique and rare. Backstory: I'm a 47 year old gay guy who had never hired before or considered it up until about four years ago. I am very masculine and cool and comfortable. For reference, a bigger guy (5'11, 255#) but carry it well. Handsome face and usually attracted both women and men. I'm not fucking paying for sex is what I always thought. Spent my life in IT and rode the crypto wave a decade ago. I founded my own company and built it with my then partner at the time. It was crazy successful but tore us apart emotionally. We separated and I moved out. When the company was crashing down and almost bankrupt, I was drinking every single day and didn't leave my house for a week. Didn't shower and shave. I was a mess. For many reasons, I lost all my friends. I had lawsuits against me and couldn't go hang out at the bars. My lawyers said I couldn't talk about everything and my entire social world was with my partner. If I walked into a bar, people would be like "how's work? how's your partner?" and I just had nothing. So I stayed home. After a month or so of this, I wanted a person. Someone to just hold me and tell me life would be okay and to just have raw sex with and unload everything in my balls as much as possible, because at least that would feel good for the moment, right? Escort: So I jump on Rent Men. $300 per hour. Had a guy come over. It was decent, I got off, and he went away. Not great not bad. Tried it a second time, same thing. At least I had someone with a pulse. Third time, I was in New York city which is amazing for escorts and I decided okay, let's do this the right way. I have a list of 20 requirements I want. Handsome as fuck, masculine, square jaw, deep voice, a body like you just walked off a stage. Just raw dripping testosterone... and that's a little hard to find right. But that's when Trevor walked into my life. Paid for an hour. We met up and guess what? Didn't even have sex or get off. Just talked and I was too nervous and shy because I had never been around someone like him before. A day after we met up, he texts me and says "You know I do overnights, right?" and so I paid $2,400 for an overnight and it kind of changed my life. I had been a top my entire life and never got fucked, but this dude railed my lights out and I LOVED it. I didn't understand why or how guys bottom until him. So I go back to NYC and we do it again. Then again. After a few meetings, he basically looks at me and is like "What are you doing with your life?" -- I think he could see the depression and me not taking care of myself. My gut reaction was "I'm not paying you to question me like this!" but it sat with me. I kept thinking about the question. I wound up hiring him for a trip out of the USA as a 4th person for a group of three of us. It was a lot of money but worth it. Fast forward a year and he actually made me a better person. I woke up in the morning and thought "What would Trev do?" so I hauled myself out of bed and showered and shaved and hit the gym. Then did it again. I realized that I am not just paying Trev for sex, but the value is flowing both ways. I'm getting more out of this then I am paying. Jose: So I am back in Boston and lonely. But I am doing better. I have more energy, I look better, and I see the sun and the good things and natural energy takes over in all my interactions during the day. I don't want or need a boyfriend or a relationship and that's why I was hiring, because they go home afterwards. But I am horny and bored on a Friday night. There's a new escort in town I haven't seen so I get him over for an hour for $300. He leaves but there was a real connection. I text him after and ask if he has plans the following night, and he said he can come back. I offer $2000 for the night. .... and he doesn't leave. We sit on the beach watching the sun come up together. He lives in Miami and says "Come to Miami and stay with me." Well wouldn't you know I had a conference in Miami that Wednesday, already had an Airbnb booked with work people, and flights planned. I say what the hell and take him up on the offer. I walk in the door to his apartment and it's clean, and comfortable, and feels like home. We spend the next week together each night. No payment. Nothing. Passionate sex. But more than that, an actual connection. I go home and tell him to come back to Boston and go to Ptown with me in two weeks. One year later, I asked him how many people he invited to his house before. He said nobody. His house is his temple and he doesn't bring clients back. Fast forward almost two years and I am now living in Miami at his place. My company went bankrupt and I lost everything, and he's here paying the bills supporting us. He said "I don't care how much money you have, I would be happy eating a sandwich with you in the room with nothing" We are getting married soon. Lesson: I'm writing this to show people that escorts are also humans. Will this happen to others? Probably not. But beyond the business transaction, they are also people with their own problems, their own life, and their own desires. I happened to find someone who was single, available, open, and fell in love with me (although I didn't know it at the time). But at the end of the day, what really matters is will they be there for you when you have nothing and the money runs out? In my case, yes. He was there to pay some of the bills and give me a place to live. That's how you know it's genuine and authentic. As far as Trevor goes -- those types of escorts are just magic. You can pay for sex, sure. But sometimes you can get so much more if you open yourself up and let it in. It isn't always about sex. He and I still keep in touch. He doesn't escort anymore and is back in Canada living his fulfilling live off of Rent.men. He will be back at some point and if you have the chance to hire him (he is easily searchable on here), don't walk, but run at the chance. He's fucking awesome. So that's my story. It feels good writing it. Not looking for any validation, just something to share. Be good guys.

Never confuse Grindr and RM. They usually serve two very different purposes. If someone makes the mistake of calling me out as an escort on Grindr, they are usually ignored. My profile makes zero mention of that side of my life. It's strange that some guys can't read between the lines. Don't judge an escort for having his own personal likes and needs.

I can take about $350 worth. 😉

Who cares if this guy comes 3 times back to back? If I’m paying 1K I better come 3 times back to back!

We are all praying for your continued good health!!

Before I begin, I want to say that these are my opinions based on personal experiences. After 10 years of hiring men, I can say that I’m totally giving up on it. I’m in my 30’s, so I guess I’m a little pickier, but of the 100+ men I’ve hired over the years, I can honestly only think of 3-4 that were actually worth it. Most of the time, the guy does not look nearly as good as his pictures ( not as muscular, older than advertised, different body pics used, etc.). Most of these guys I could likely meet for free. Somewhere down the line, hiring men became an addiction because I’ve suffered from low self esteem most of my life and any sort of rejection would put me in a funk. I’m realizing now that spending so much money just to avoid my fears is not helping me in the long run. I feel so ashamed to have spent so much money over the years for companionship I basically could have received for free had I stuck to a workout routine. I will say that the worst escorts are usually the Eastern European/Russian ones or the South American ones. They’re usually the rudest and more likely to have misleading pictures/ show disinterest. I don’t mean to offend anyone with my post. They’re my experiences and options.

Here is the list of my massage forays during Phase 4+ here in NYC. I am not delusional. I know that in any of these adventures, I may get COVID. I just try to minimize my risks by choosing NYC masseurs and not go to masseurs who are traveling or who have just traveled from NYC DOH restricted states. Again, these are my experiences and I cannot guarantee that this will be the same for you. I tried to write about the details in my massage experiences that I believe will most likely happen to anyone who books a 90min session with the masseurs below. MARC https://rentmasseur.com/MassagedByMarc I went to see him at his place in Harlem. He is a very nice guy. He definitely looked like his photos. He just had a birthday so the living room still had decorations. Thank god that he has a dedicated space for the massage. You’re both not masked. He has a comfortable table and he was nude from the get go. This guy’s body is smooth. He used good Swedish techniques with some stretching but definitely self-taught. I would probably go back. MT and HE. No upsell. ALEX https://rentmasseur.com/AlexV I saw Alex at his place. He actually looked much younger than his photos. I was actually surprised and he appeared normal. I honestly expected him to be quirky (due to the weird photo poses) but he was just that - normal He works in a large shared apartment in Harlem which is clean and neat. You’re both not masked. He had a table and he was wearing his underwear when we started but kinda took them off 5 minutes in - maybe it was hot He was quite good with a mix of sensual light touches - almost like caresses really) and then some Swedish kneading. He is most likely self-taught. His body is slim and tight. MT and HE and no upsell. I would probably go back. RICO https://rentmasseur.com/RicoNY This guy is HOT! When you contact him, he texts you the various services and the corresponding fee. I decided to go for the sensual one - there’s the therapeutic and the more expensive erotic. He also requests for a Venmo deposit which may be a deal breaker for some. His place is quite nice and the opportunity to shower beforehand (actually a prerequisite) is refreshing. You’re both not masked. He uses Swedish techniques primarily on a table. He was nude from the start. His body is pretty muscular and smooth. Nice d and a. After our session, I got the chance to shower again. Afterwards, I asked him how different my experience would have been if I chose the erotics one and he said it will be more intimate and more body contact. I dunno, but our session was already pretty intimate so I guess I should come back to find out what he means by “intimate”. MT and HE and since his rates are tiered, there’s no upsell. I would definitely go back. PHIL https://rentmasseur.com/MassageProLmt Phil is a keeper. He is actually someone who would be a good person to see if you are planning your first massage during this pandemic. He is masked and so are you. He works from a. Small apartment but it was clean and neat. He works on a table and has single-use coverings. His techniques are very good - spa quality. His rates are actually quite low for the kind of massage quality you’re getting. He may not have the best physique, but he is cute and really is a nice guy. He only advertises as therapeutic but then things do happen. Not that I’m complaining I would go back. DANTE https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40477/ Now this guy was such a surprise. He already looks cute in his pictures but he is so adorable in person. Tall, dark and handsome and from Paraguay. He just moved to his new place in the UES. He has a neat shared apartment but his own table set-up in his room. He uses a table. You are both not masked. He has very good techniques and also massaged me in his underwear and then not ?. His body is pretty toned and smooth. He is very sexy and a nice guy which I found very appealing. We are both cyclists so it’s great to chat afterwards. MT and HE. No upsell. I would definitely go back. CHRIS https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40287/ This guy is totally therapeutic. But his techniques are very Thai massage-based which I love. He works on a mat and you’re both masked and you’re both wearing gym clothes. He asks you to bring them during the appointment. He is very nice and friendly. He shares the space in West Harlem with housemates but has his own space in the living room to do his sessions. I love chatting with him as he twists and bends you. Really good post-workout. No MT or HE. I would go back. JASON https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39901/ Jason is a very nice guy. He also needs better pictures on his website. As someone who has been a model in LA, his picture online are crappy. He is definitely much much better looking in person. He has a very hot defined body and is much leaner than his photos which honestly suits him better. He works from a table as pictured in his ad. It is a bit misleading since the place is small and a bit cluttered when I was there. It kinda looked liked my room when I was in university. ? He starts out in his underwear but those came off quickly. Did I say he was sexy? He is thicc. His techniques are excellent. He uses deep tissue techniques and my god they were awesome. My muscles were sore after a workout so the release was great from the deep tissue muscle manipulation. Someone in the forum said that he used to escort, I would just say, it showed! I would definitely go back. MT and HE and no upsell.

I would not have responded to the boyfriend's email …

-STOP trying to finish 5 or 10 mins early. At that point you been at it for 50-55 mins. Just finish the last few minutes. Ending 5 mins or 10 mins early REALLY pisses me (and I imagine most clients) off. I promise you... if you get into the habit of going 5 mins OVER... you'll attract a lot more "regular" clients. -DO NOT TRY TO UPSELL. Had a masseur today shove his fat hard cock in my face (super hot) and say "it's $60 extra if you want to suck it." SO ANNOYING. Work out all that stuff before the massage starts via text or when I show up at your door. Nothing kills a mood quicker than stuff like that. It's rude. Tacky. And insulting. -Once the HE is over don't hustle me outta there. There are some masseurs (Who I'm a regular of) who have learned that after the HE... to continue with the massage for another 5 or 10 mins. It makes things so much more enjoyable. And ensures I will be back. Any other tips you all wanna add?