i’ve been going to gay male strip clubs for years, and I can assure you that at least 95% of the guys dancing there whether straight or gay escort. Some of them do less than others, but I’ve almost never had even the hottest guy not willing to meet me at my apartment or hotel or whatever for two hour private session. And 0% of the time have the men been surprised or shocked to be asked because they get asked all the time so even the 5% of the time where they say no they’re not offended.