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Listen I love this group, you guys are amazing, but please do not share my PRIVATE MESSAGES with masseurs you meet. A few months ago, I met a regular client who said to me "did you post something on this forum that was negative?" I said what are you talking about. He said he met a client who SHOWED HIM MY RESPONSE to a message about his work. I was shocked. I said " don't have clue and if it was negative then why am I here?" Please be careful with what is shared here. Private messages should remain so. No mad just concerned. Terp

Nope if someone is hiring me a man to have sex with them they are not straight. Are some of them married with kids sure. But they are bi. Or at the very least heteroflexible. Class repeat after me… if you have sex with a man and you are a man you are not straight.

Hi, I'm SaintV. Most people call me Saint. I am an industrial engineer, A first responder with the fire dept, and a closeted gay man. I am 34 years old and kind of new to this, so please cut me some slack. I have been looking for a place to talk openly about myself and maybe meet some like minded individuals. I have read through a bit and am trying to integrate myself into this forum. Don't know much else to say, but just wanted to introduce myself.

Many of my clients are straight when they walk through the door, but gay when they leave. Isn’t that fabulous 😉

I notice in the birthday section that our dear friend @Oliver has turned 90 today. I hope that he is healthy and happy. Oliver took over the Palm Springs Weekend from me years ago and built it into a huge success. Kudos @Oliver

Dear All - My family gave me an artful and delightful birthday weekend.😄🎂 Then I come here, and my other "family" gives me marvelous well-wishes. I am truly blessed.😊 Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!😄

Part 2. He was anything but organized. He kept looking for his laptop so he could play gay porn. I told him he did not need it, but he kept looking. Then when that was located, he looked for a music player of some sort, presumably to time our two hour appointment. Finally, he apologized for the communication issues and explained that he has had some distractions and that he has a tendency to get distracted easily. Physically he was well built but shorter and more cut than bulky. So, at that point I thought that this was just a big mistake and at that point he asked for payment up front. I suggested that after all this commotion did he really think I was going to short change him. I took out the money and placed it on a counter. That is when this clusterfuck took a dramatic turn to a wonder fuck. We started making out. Great kisser as has been noted before. When his clothes came off, his thighs in particular were shredded from bicycling. His body hair was the perfect placement and amount. His cock and balls were straining agains some sever sexy underwear. After a heavy make out session which was very good, he asked if I would like to play with some toys with him. STarting with a nice butt plug, we moved up to a very large and thick dildo which he did have a bit trouble taking and then a serial ball dildo which brought him great pleasure. Playing with his hot ass and chest and continuing with the kissing was a tremendous amount of fun. We lay down on the bed and took the dildo out of his ass and inserted me in. He tightened up and clenched on and rode me in several different positions. The rest of the session included mutual oral and several more rides on his roller coaster body. Ultimately he needed to stop several times to replenish fluids. I did not ask if that was related to exertion or prescription drugs. In any case, it was very hot. We fucked for the entire session. Afterwards we went out to a local restaurant next to a gay wear store. We went in the store and he modeled 6 pairs of jock straps, coming out of the changing area into the store proper and giving me and the few other customers a fashion show. I wound up buying him two jock straps, one black with a red stripe around the waist band and running up the middle of the sack. The other a faux leather jock, they did not have actual leather. The leather store next door was closed for dinner. I did enjoy several of the others, but I promised to buy him a gift not break the bank. We drove back to his hotel and made out in my car and he was off. So it was a big pain in the ass getting to the good stuff. A lot of the good stuff will likely result in his having pain in the ass for a few days. So if you are going to hire him, and I suggest you do, be aware, it will be a trial by fire to actually get in his bed. Once you do, the bed will definitely be burning afterwards.

HOW I LEARNED I WAS GAY. I was 17 years old, and had stopped to use the men's room in the Port Authority bus terminal in Manhattan. Suddenly a note was thrust under the divider from the next stall: "Meet me outside." Curious, I left and was approached outside the men's room by a young man who emerged from the door. He looked to be in his early to mid 20s, and he introduced himself with a name that sounded vaguely foreign, possibly French. He was cute, slender and a little taller than I was, with dark hair and a tiny mustache. He asked, "Are you gay?" but I didn't know the word except in its normal usage as a term for being happy, so I said yes. When he asked if I would like to go back to his place, I thought,"Why not?" I had never done anything sexual with anyone, but even though I had a steady girlfriend, I already knew I was attracted to other males. So I went with him to a room he was renting in the East Village. When he locked the door behind us, he asked, "What are you into?" I told him I didn't know, so he told me to take off my clothes and get into bed, and he did the same. For the next couple of hours he introduced me to the basic sex acts: sucking and fucking, as both top and bottom. When we were finished and I was getting ready to leave, I said, "Wow! I didn't know these things were possible!" He gave me a puzzled look and said, "But you said you were gay?" I looked confused, as he realized that I didn't understand the term, and he had just initiated a neophyte.

Tylenol made me a homo.

I will next time I'm pregnant.

I don't think it's something I would share in a work situation, or even in casual conversation with friends. I prefer using it only as the subject-changer at the uncomfortable family Thanksgiving dinner table. Embellishing the newest story, gesturing with a turkey leg, always does the trick.

It’s not kissing without tongue. Kiss properly or not at all.

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It was 23 years ago this month that I had my first experience of sex-any type of sex as I was a total virgin at the age of 41. I was also taught how to Fr. kiss at the same time. It was with porn star Dallas Taylor. He lived in Dallas but was visiting the Cincinnati area where I was living at the time. I was familiar with him because I had been looking at Rentboy and Hooboy's sites for years. He even had a website as I recall. I will be eternally grateful to him for being so nice. I wonder what he's doing now, or even if he's still alive. If he is still alive, I hope he's doing well.

I'm a provider and I have to be honest one of the worst parts of doing this is the consistent leading on and fake-outs. How are you going to talk to me for over an hour about making plans, then talk to me the entire way through the douching process, and then go MIA the second you're supposed to come over. I'm confused, is it to embarrass us or waste our time? Is it malicious? I don't get it. I'm exhausted. I'm douching my ass out, like that isn't a natural bodily process I really try not to do it unless I have to. Either follow through or don't waste provider's time. It's cruel. If you aren't ready to actually meet up with a provider please stop putting us through this.

I read the room. I have one client that gets on the phone and calls his wife after. That’s my que to leave. Most wanna cuddle a little bit though afterward. Or see me cum. I get that a lot actually guys wanting to watch me cum after they do. I have heard of some clients getting upset if the worker ends the time right after the client cums, so unless I get a que to leave I stay for the whole time booked regardless of when he cums.

Good luck finding a cheap hotel room in midtown NYC! Pro tip: if there is powdered sugar or frosting on the dude's shirt - he is probably an undercover cop!

Just back from Spain - Barcelona The Black Room at City Hall (pics attached)- Sundays 12:30am-6am. Has strippers that dance hard on the go go boxes on the dance floor and both public and private play spaces upstairs. You can get some sort of arrangement with dancers. Imperial - private membership dance/sex club - some nights had go-gos you could make arrangements to take into the basement labyrinth Arena - Nightclub with go-gos and a previously a dark room. The club now lets 16(?) yr olds in and no longer has the dark room open. There are still stripper-go-gos but the additional fun areas are gone for now at least. Sauna Thermas - While not a strip club or club with strippers, this is the closest thing to a gay brothel. It is a sauna with anywhere from 10-25 rent boys working at a time. When you check in, the door guy will ensure you know it's not a regular sauna. It's busy 4pm and starts dying out around 8pm. Full bar, food, free rooms, sauna, steam room and showers. Went multiple times due to the variety of guys available each day. Time for the guy $50 EUR for 30 min. Some do massage as well. Some grade A quality men. Cruise Mountain/Parc Montjuic - Still crazy busy all times of the day, especially at night. You could tell there's some trade going on with certain good looking college guys and older gentlemen. Still tends to be in the trails all around the Museum of Archaeology Sitges Boys Bar Sitges - Had a strip show in which the stripper was hard and showing it as well as many different audience partipation gags. He did say we works the sauna in town as well. XXL - had dancers and could tell there were cubicles, but it was overcrowded due to bear week, so I couldn't figure out much more. https://www.companyofmen.org/uploads/monthly_2025_09/image.png.33fe63232ab6b9a8f1c032d34e9006e1.png https://www.companyofmen.org/uploads/monthly_2025_09/Screenshot2025-09-20at2_04_44AM.png.60599257650f0b7da55649ffa7714348.png Edited by a moderator. Two pics displayed erections, too explicit. Converted to a clickable link.

Over the years I’ve learned that being direct about your needs is never an insult IF it comes from a place of clarity and kindness. You’re not telling him he’s bad at his job; you’re showing him how to make you a satisfied repeat client, and that’s valuable information. One way to do it without it feeling awkward is to show as much as tell: get on top of him and ride him slow, let him see how that pace feels good and how much you enjoy it. Compliment him while you’re doing it, then suggest a change, something like “I’d love to be under you going at this pace” or “you feel incredible when you move like this.” Positive reinforcement goes a long way. Remember too, providers want repeat clients, so telling him what works for you isn’t just personal, it’s professional. You’re helping him give better service. This is a provider you’ve hired regularly, and I’d be hard-pressed to think he wouldn’t be open to making your experiences exactly what you want them to be. Best of luck to you.

It's encouraging to know that there is still someone here who is older than I am.

I think the succession is secured for the next 100 years or so. Charles is proving to be a good King, he’s well liked and very well supported by the Queen. They clearly were meant for each other. William is like the late Queen Elizabeth, dutiful and fully aware of the role he’s destined to play. This model has worked more or less for over a thousand years (with a short break while we checked out Republicanism - which didn’t work here) so I think the institution will adapt and survive. It’s not good looks, charisma, eloquence or popularity that is needed to do the role, it’s a sense of destiny, determination and humility. William has those. Harry doesn’t.

I’m no doctor but this concerns me a little. If you’re not yet 40 that seems too young to be getting up 2-3 times a night to pee. Prior to 40 - hell, prior to 50 - I was still sleeping through the night without nocturnal bathroom visits. Sure, 8 hours dry became 7, which later became 6. Now at 61, 2 times to pee is normal, 3 if I had iced tea at dinner. “Edge and Vitality?” Pshaw. Fund your retirement, keep (or get) your credit card debt under control, get 6 months of expenses in reserve, make sure you have at least 1 good suit in your closet (don’t forget a white dress shirt, conservative tie and lace-up dress shoes) and f*ck (or at least cum) whenever you get the chance. But talk to your primary care physician about all those nighttime bathroom visits. At your age that doesn’t add up.

You need to adjust your settings so they don't get an alert you are visiting their profile. Go to my settings, then under account settings, click privacy. Then make sure the "Do not track me" option is enabled.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways

The only question about orientation I’ve ever been asked was whether I was a top or a bottom 😀

Let’s be clear, it’s not acetaminophen that causes autism, it’s Tylenol. Why only Tylenol? Because he has a grudge against the CEO of the manufacturer (and because he can’t pronounce acetaminophen) 😆

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Going 56 miles per hour in a 55 mile per hour zone is a ticketable offense, but if you got such a ticket, most people would consider it a bogus situation. It seems some of the issues you had were 56 miles per hour in a 55 and others were 75 in a 30. The finger probe to insert, 100 in a 30, way too fast and probably worthy of condemnation. The first rub of the leg at the bar, for me 56, returning and going higher shows disrespect and an ongoing desire to speed and that is where the line is drawn for me. Your mileage may vary.

Can you share any details about how you approached them and what you might have said or asked for? Seems odd that you’d be rejected without some reason behind it.

Maybe the 40 thieves got him? Oh, wait, he's Ali Gator.

Just say you’re into white guys. It’s easier.

Now that I'm of a certain age, I always have a robe on when moving through such spaces.

Play gin rummy. It can be done on the table.

I doubt you'll find anyone with more than one dick. Let alone 8 of them.

Job titles in pron? Did any film include a character who was a proofreader? Sorry - couldn't resist.