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I have my first experience with an escort from RM today. I've given men some cash from sketchy sites before at a discounted rate, but this is my first time with a legit guy from the site. Hope it goes well!

Click on some ads and find someone new to be infatuated with 🥰

I’ve a few clients who are hard before they get on the table. It’s the anticipation. One guy lets me deal with it by sucking him off…so it’s a happy start. He’s then able to relax and enjoy the massage and get hard again for a happy ending too. I call it a happy sandwich style massage.

You spelled cock wrong.

In my experience, it can go either way. With some providers, each session improves as you learn each other’s likes and dislikes and become more comfortable together. With others, familiarity can lead to complacency, and they stop putting in the effort to make each encounter better.

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Speaking as a regular client of one particular provider over the past 8 years or so, all I can say is that (for me, at least) it just gets better & better. In some ways spoiled for any other meet ups (although I have tried), sadly, they just don't cut it. My guy's a keeper and I'll keep seeing him for as long as I can. Under no illusions about the nature of our relationship, but for those hours that we're together, nothing comes close. Count myself very fortunate to have stumbled into his bed all those years ago.

15 hours? That's nothing. I was screwed by a former employer for almost 15 years before I finally changed jobs. I didn't even get a FIFA medal for that, let alone a Guinness World Record.

You can have a connection with your provider. You are human after all. But don’t mistake it for what it is not.

It's the "Long Beard" trend that I'm hoping will pass/fade soon...

Tone deaf and moronic.

The provider made a decision to block you, I'd respect that decision. Move on and hire someone else.

100%they do. You get to know one another better and each one's likes and you are comfortable being with each other. You also tend to experiment more and push the envelope of activities. I think to have the best sessions with a provider you need about 3 times together.

Jeezus.

For me, it all depends on if they look like their pictures. Face it, this is a very visual business. Between photoshop, age-shaving, size-exaggerating, and apparently height exaggeration, there are many ways providers deceive us in order to get the booking. If they end up not looking like their pictures, I don't think you owe them a dime. Pay for their time? Seriously? They should pay for wasting yours. What if after the session you gave them money that didn't look like the currency you promised? Fair is fair. If someone's look changes dramatically (many tattoos, significant weight gain or loss, shaved their head) it is their responsibility to update their pictures. An Italian restaurant won't change to a Mexican menu without changing the signage and website. Providers want us to respect that this is a business for them, so we should respect that and expect that they behave like one as well. The difference is that in this business, the client has no recourse once he hands over the money.

It’s pretty simple…either it keeps getting better, or there aren’t future sessions.

Here’s how I do it and why. Others operate differently. Good for them. It’s all valid. 150/hr Massage 200/hr Companionship 300/hr Sex Massage is fairly straightforward. I have a routine and I customize for the client. I include some erotic extras, etc., but no cum. I am not expected to perform escort services. It’s contained. It requires less intellectual or emotional energy on average, and a lot more physical energy. The time flies by. Companionship is the reverse. It requires more social, intellectual, and emotional energy, and less physical energy. Unless we’re doing something active which is less common. Sports, dancing, what have you. Being an introvert and an empath myself, companionship demands a lot of me - that I fulfill in spades - but it drains me much more than massage does. It has value, and for me, that value is higher than massage. Side note: The client pays for all expenses because these are a way for him to facilitate me providing more value to him - not a direct compensation for my time. That steak isn’t paying my electric bill, as much as I appreciate the meal. Sex/Escort sessions are arguably a lot more involved, emotionally, physically, sexually, and they exhaust me more. Then again, you are getting a fully engaged ‘me’ on all these dimensions, sharing all the most intimate parts of myself - not just a dissociative robot me. This offers value. I can do maybe 1-2 of these per day vs 3-6 massage sessions a day. That’s also a factor; not only how much time or energy it takes, but what it costs me, including opportunity costs, to fulfill. How I arrive at my Companionship rate I discount longer escort sessions, for example 500/2hrs, 700/3hrs, with special rates for engagements lasting a half day or longer. The way I see it, the 300 covers the basic value of the appointment whether it lasts 5 mins or 55 mins. More often than not, I am not expecting to be physically engaged at a level 10 for the entire 120 mins of a two hour session. When the client wants me at a 10 for two hours (and he can handle it), I surely provide. More often than not though, there’s talking, cuddling, listening, meeting at the bar first, undressing one another sensually, showering together, socializing, or what have you. These moments are a lot more like my “companionship” service in terms of cost to me energy-wise, expertise, and in terms of value to the client. So I charge essentially 200/hr for it to encourage clients to book longer escort sessions. I’m already making more than my massage rate, so I want to maximize that time. The client receives the benefit of a more complete, personal, unrushed and engaging overall experience while compensating me at a rate I feel is fair to me and to the client. Opportunity cost is a factor. For example, in Columbus, a client many of you here know hired me for an hour of escort time. He proposed taking me to dinner afterwards, off the clock. I told him I would be happy to do so if I had no conflict with other work, but that I needed to prioritize billable time. This trip was quite busy and I did have a client request a massage during that time after I finished with the escort session with him. Unfortunately for the client I had to decline the dinner. I actually would have personally enjoyed the dinner with him, but work took priority. Why give that one or two hours away when another client is more than happy to pay me for it? A lot of times, it’s not personal at all, just a business decision. The same can be said of personal life commitments. Why give a client my time for free when that same time has more value to me doing something else I want or need to be doing when I’m not working? That doesn’t mean I don’t care about the client, can’t stand spending time with him, or any other reason, really. It just means I am making a decision that is best for my business and for my life. From time to time, I might offer extra time off the clock for clients treating me well. I want to reward them. I want to reciprocate their kindness, loyalty, and generosity. But those relationships take time, and for a guy in this industry, it’s not always clear up front who those clients are until after they have hired you a few times.

It happens, but not frequently. I've found that second sessions are usually better since the provider's gotten an idea of what you like.

I like a well-groomed beard on a provider, especially if he rubs it against me during our session.

I'm trying to figure out what it means to have a butthole like a dolphin... Will it do tricks when you dangle a fish in front of it? Can it whistle and click, and use echolocation? Does it have smooth skin with a layer of blubber for insulation? I hope you understand the porpoise of my questions.

I'm 21 days past the second surgery. I've re-installed trapeze bar over the bed, so I can now go back to my accustomed sexual 'hi'-jinks. 😉😉 Ok you can quit laughing at the thought. Now for the real update. Last night I was driving home after dinner from a friend's house. He lives about 35 miles from me. The clarity I had seeing the highway exits at night were amazing. I hadn't been to his place in probably 6 months because I couldn't take the night driving on the freeway. I couldn't see either the exit signs or the exit lanes clearly enough. In fact nighttime driving in general was beginning to freak me out. Even after I had the first eye done, it was still difficult to drive. I still find it a real pain having to put on glasses to read. But it is what it is. I'll have to adjust. But it's definitely making reading less enjoyable. Aside from that I am so happy I finally had the surgery done. I had first planned it about a year and a half ago. But life got in the way. I couldn't 'see' my way clear at the time to having it done. It came down to the wire too because January 1st I started Medicare. I needed to get it done on my old policy, as I had filled the out of pocket maximum and the surgery wasn't going to cost me anything. Yesterday while driving, I was thinking what a miracle it was that 'we' have the technology to do this. An operation that probably took 15 minutes or less, but that has improved my life 1000%.

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First guy I remember hiring was a beautifully built black guy, imagine a sculpted college football linebacker or running back. Closely resembled DeAngelo Jackson in his early years. Met him at one of the Times Square area peep shows. I couldn't believe a guy that gorgeous was cruising there, and I couldn't resist. Our first encounter was in one of the booths. I was naive enough not to realize he was looking for customers. In any event, he was so hot I couldn't say no, and I paid whatever he asked to give me oral and finish me with a hand job, so long ago I don't remember how much. We met that way a couple more times, and then I summoned up the courage to hire him to come home with me to bottom for me. Again, I don't remember the rate he asked/I offered. We had a few of those sessions. (This was before cell phones, and he didn't have a phone number I could use for these purposes, so we only met by serendipity when we were both at the particular peep show.) One time we even had sort of a date--I took him to see "Purple Rain" before we went back to my place. That came out in 1984, so we probably met in 1983. He was not only gorgeous but a genuinely nice guy with a very hard-luck life story, the details of which I don't remember. As best I remember, not long after the movie "date" he told me he was moving out of town. I still remember him fondly.

How do you "move on" from an infatuation? Not easily. From my experience, unless you use STRONG and EMPHATIC self-talk that this is JUST an infatuation and that you are a A CLIENT (not a lover), you will be held hostage to your feelings, not your common sense. But...reason and logic rarely win these internal dialogues. We've all been there - and only time and the thinning of our wallets convince us that maybe this "love connection" is not mutual. Enjoy your "butterfly-inducing" friend, but just realize that, in the end, it's a business transaction - and when the money ends, so will the return messages.

I did like Robert Conrad in Wild Wild West and the stop frame pictures which then were made into a cartoon were always a favorite when he was shirtless. He must have had a shirtless scene guarantee in his contract as in just about each episode he was shirtless for less than obvious reasons and in interviews he came off as a bit of an narcissist and exhibitionist. This carrier over to his follow up series BaaBaaBlackSheep. The sexiest gig he had was not shirtless and that was in the EVeryReady Battery commercials in which he just stared into the camera and said something to the effect of: Go ahead, knock it off my shoulder.

💯 I’m struggling to understand why providers like @Braziliancutee @Elite_XLand@SecretProvider block prospective clients viewing their profiles. What about prospective clients viewing your ad is a detriment to you? Is there any benefit to you from blocking? If they never book you, that’s a neutral result. If they don’t respond to an unsolicited outreach message, that’s also a neutral result. Why would you need to actively go out of your way to block the client profile? What benefit is it to you to do this? What positive result will such an action gain you? You know they can still view your profile when they sign out of that account, right? And when they tick the box saying don’t track my profile views. For every one of them, you may have a dozen actively ticking that box to hide their similar number and frequency of views. Would you block those tick the box people if you could do so? We don’t always know the connection between the client screen name and the phone number they are texting you from. They may say hi I’m xxx, username: xxxsampleusername on RentMen, but most of the time they don’t. If that lookie-loo client books you two years later when travels overlap, that’s a win! What’s wrong with viewing evidence that you successfully occupied space rent free for an extended time in potential clients’ minds? That’s actually a sign of good marketing. I understand if the prospective client were repeatedly texting you but unserious about booking, canceling last minute, no-showing, sexting, being creepy, stalking, or other problematic behavior… THEN you block them… assuming you are correctly connecting the dots between the caller/texter and profile username …but just the client viewing your profile bothers you? Come on. Show us on the doll where the client touched you. Oh wait, you can’t because you didn’t give him the chance to do so in the first place. We post ads in hopes that prospective clients will view it and consider hiring us. Who is to say what the motivations are of that one client that viewed you a hundred times but never contacts you or responds to your outreach message? We don’t know. Some of them will eventually book. Some of them will only ever have a quiet fantasy wank. Worst case scenario is a neutral result, with the possibility of a positive one at some point. They aren’t demanding or wasting your time. They are merely existing, and happpen to be looking at your ad. That’s neutral to me. By blocking clients for no apparent reason, you risk damaging your reputation. That client sees you blocked them and wonders why. He may think less of himself, or less of you, or both. He definitely won’t hire you since you’ve made it loud and clear that he is unwelcome. But he may share the negative experience with others at some point. This is a net negative result to you, your reputation, your income. You’re shooting yourself in the foot.

After I have sex with anybody, whether for free or paid, I have to remind them "If I said 'I love you' or asked you to marry me, remember that it doesn't count if I said it while your dick was in my ass."

To a certain extent, posting here, even though anonymously, is a twisted form of coming out. At least that's how I feel about it. I know it sounds silly -- and maybe even laughable to some -- but it is somewhat cathartic and comforting at the same time. Interestingly, it is so much easier to tell strangers (e.g. my primary care doctor, all the providers I've met, and people here) than those you love/care the most.

There's a weird anti-tattoo obsession with some members here. I can understand if you're not into tattoos and someone is covered. But in a lot of circumstances, you could meet someone, find them hot, and then head back to their place before ever realizing they have one or more tattoos. If you met me in the fall or winter, none of my tattoos would be visible until I got undressed.

I agree, I think a well groomed beard on a handsome face is a huge turn on!