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Hi JB_Studio38/ Mocha/Jarrod_uncut (and all the other names you have had on this platform in the past- there have been many) No. I, and my fellow client colleagues, are not willing to be "on call" with money for you when escorting is not working out financially for you. Although I do NOT wish you or any other escort financial harm, we are not responsible for your solvency. But to you and all escorts in the world: I'm hopeful you prosper. You provide a wonderful service to the community. Ah, you are not satisfied with my advice? Allow me to elaborate. You and I are both business men. Similar fields, albeit with a few differences. I'm a physician. You are an escort. We are both seek to ...heal our clients (or patients). As a physician I have high overhead costs in maintaining my office: support staff salaries, my office rent, my exorbitant malpractice premiums, to name a few, costs which rise yearly which is alarming & frustrating. And just like you, before I take home one dollar, ALL my overhead MUST be paid first. Heck, I was hundreds of thousands of dollars in medical school debt before I even got paid to see my first patient! Yes, I genuinely understand your predicament. I live it daily. But when a business informs the client this is my fee, BUT then says, "oh, I also need a deposit", um, yah, no. Or the escort says, "Oh, I need you to pay my Uber". Also a big Nope. See, all of my overhead AND my own salary AND (this is the critical point I fear you dont understand) the cost of the lost revenue is wrapped up in the fee I charge for that office visit. You think patients call, make an appointment to see me and don't show up? It happens DAILY. Every physician has no-shows. You think patients get a bill (after I provide them medical services) from me and always send a payment? Nope. I get patients who stiff me ALL.THE.TIME. But that loss is factored IN to my fees. That's Business. I don't charge multiple fees. I have protocols that attempt to minimize loss. For example: two no-shows and my staff informs the patient they are discharged from the practice. You think you are the only businessman who takes risks and experiences financial loss? Think again. I don't come to this platform and bitch & whine & come across as a lunatic because my patients stiff me. Rather, I focus on my wonderful patients who stay, pay, and make it all worth while. To all escorts: keep providing your excellent services. Stay professional. Continue to hone your craft. Keep detailed reports of what's not working. For what's not working focus on strategies to minimize loss and maximize profit. You are an escort to make MONEY - there is nothing wrong with that! So am I. But demanding fees (deposits or Ubers) will ultimately turn away good clients & make you seem unprofessional. Good clients (like me) stay away from escorts like that. Including staying away from JB_Studio38/ Mocha/Jarrod_uncut. Asking for a fee makes you look sketchy. Its a bad look. Love to all, Josh

https://rent.men/AdamChris https://rent.men/Codywilliams I have hired both these young men individually. I was looking for a threesome and I know these two guy are friends and have played together before. They are both sexy and passionate men. They work together and were very interactive with each other but concentrating on me. A good time was had by all and lets just say that they helped me make my protein goal for today.

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I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on. Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot. Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊

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As much as Bozo sympathizes with the OP's tale of woe, it must bear repeating... NEVER, repeat, NEVER, repeat, NEVER give a deposit up front. There are enough stories of escorts and masseurs that scam, ghost, don't show up, and then block the client. How many times do you have to read or hear about all of the warnings? There comes a time when we have to take responsibility for our actions. And Bozo is glad to see that the OP took accountability for his mistake. Sending a deposit bears a risk. If you choose to ignore the risks, and still go ahead and send money in advance, don't complain that you got ripped off. It's akin to a cigarette smoker lamenting that he/she was diagnosed with cancer. Anytime a provider asks for money in advance, click your heels together and repeat three times, "No thanks, No thanks, No thanks...." And then move on to another provider in your area. Caveat emptor. BTC 🤡

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I'm relatively new to this game, but I find the hiring process stressful. I've tried to rehire one I was comfortable with, and that would be my standard MO. I don't enjoy working out the logistics and worrying if they are as advertised, will show up, try and upset me, not like me, etc. Maybe some day I'll do this enough to get bored with someone, but I think I'd mix it up with a known provider first

About 20 years ago I met a dancer in one of DC's Dupont Circle stripper bars and we agreed to meet later for a hook-up for a price. In those days, I was mortified at the thought of being seen dragging a handsome young man across a hotel lobby at 2:00 in the morning, so I would give him the hotel name and room number, then go to wait in the room. "Francois" (his stripper name) was from Montreal and was hot, handsome, and hung, three qualities I greatly admire in any man. We were just getting into our time together when he got a phone call, the gist of which was that his roommate was pissed and was trying to throw out Francois' things from the apartment, most concerning of which to Francois was a computer. He was visibly distressed over this and said he had to leave. I was so touched by his emotional response to the news that I gave him the full amount we had agreed to. He looked at me with a perplexed stare and said, "Why would you do that?" My honest answer was that I'm not going to make your bad night any worse and I truly feel sorry for your situation. He put his knapsack down, took off his clothes, and left several hours later. (It was very good!) I saw Francois almost every month for the next two years, before he moved back to Montreal, after which we lost contact. I regret I did not keep in touch and hope his life turned out well. He was not just a beautiful man; he was a beautiful soul. I guess my point relative to this thread and the young man who left money on the table is that in this fee-based business we call our hobby, it's still a two-way street, and fairness and consideration should flow both ways.

Unfortunately a lot of these unprofessional providers live chaotic or on the edge of chaotic lifestyles. They’ll manage to show up for you a couple of times and it’ll be fun but eventually they’ll let you down because ‘they have to’. They didn’t mean it (they rationalise to themselves), their need is more important than yours (they tell themselves) and they definitely maybe mean to reimburse you (they tell you) but somehow it never happens and time moves on. Their life becomes more chaotic and they forget. The red flags for these guys are always there: irregular replies, indications of drug use, unpredictable behaviour etc but they look hot and are enticing so you overlook it all and get drawn in. Hire professional guys, it’s much better for your sanity and your bank balance…

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Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider. Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch. I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC. Aesthetically he's top of the heap. He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile. As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out. Very accommodating. Very game to experiment. Very connective. Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM. I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here.

I’m almost 72 and my current FB is 25. Normally I don’t go for 20 something’s but this one is so much fun and makes very few demands of me so it’s a pure delight. We just enjoy each other.

Deposits take many forms. Reminds me of experience with a 30-something “twink” still operating in New Orleans. Apologizing in advance for the sour grapes, but sometimes the best reinforcement comes from true stories. Days before our first meet, he had a crisis with his mini storage contents being auctioned for non payment unless he had $181 by 5PM. I sent the money - cha ching - plus a bit Total $250. As the date approached a couple days later, “the vet was too expensive so now I don’t have the money to replace the tire to make the drive to your house.” I sent the money plus a bit - cha ching - another $250…I accidentally sent twice…so then I’m $750 into an overnight that has yet to happen. He did show for our for our first meeting…if I recall about 2 hrs late…but I was doubting until he rolled into the driveway Within 24 hrs of his arrival at my house, this situation started a spiral into the most dramatic chaos you could imagine. In the end, over the next 30 days, the “deposit” turned into $3,300 (to avoid eviction, groceries, ransoming his car from the impound lot for unpaid tickets….) that was to be repaid at $100/wk. of course, he missed a couple of planned engagements as well for lame excuses. Naturally, I’ve not seen a dime and his situation seems to have spiraled further out of control rendering him completely untrustworthy to me. So, first, I own the fact that I allowed myself to be hustled. But let’s call it what it is: - outsized deposits rooted in chaotic life management issues are not the mark of a professional and are a major red flag - life’s too short to get pulled into someone else’s drama A token deposit for a well reviewed professional gentleman is a valid business tool for them and evidence of good faith from you - particularly if they have costs to get to you. But when the request is rooted in a shaggy dog story to make you feel like an a$$hole if you say no, then it’s likely a hustle. Just say “no” and cancel the plans. If you’re conflicted about it, PM me for moral support As to this situation, I’d be more forgiving and tolerant if he’d made even a token attempt to repay. But his attitude is one of entitlement because I had the money to “give” so he shouldn’t have to repay. Such is the mark of the hustler who doesn’t have the standing to get a legitimate deposit but still wants money upfront.

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