Which is more important to you, the person or the profession

[+ purplekow]

I was driving a friend to the airport this morning when he mentioned he had met a great looking guy on Sniffies and that they had sex for the first time last night and the sex was the best he has had in years.  This man has sex with great regularity, so this was quite a recommendation.  I congratulated him on finding both a good looking man who was also great in bed.  He then told me that he like this man very much even before the sex.  Afterwards, they were having a general conversation and the man revealed was he did for a living.  I will not say what the profession was as the actual profession would likely get this removed for being political, but I was FROSTY about his desire to continue to see the man.  I was not sure I would find him NICE even if he seemed superficially pleasant.  

So would you continue to see a man you liked, who was good looking and with whom you had great sex or would you stop because his profession left you COLD?

[+ FrankR]

1 minute ago, purplekow said:

I was driving a friend to the airport this morning when he mentioned he had met a great looking guy on Sniffies and that they had sex for the first time last night and the sex was the best he has had in years.  This man has sex with great regularity, so this was quite a recommendation.  I congratulated him on finding both a good looking man who was also great in bed.  He then told me that he like this man very much even before the sex.  Afterwards, they were having a general conversation and the man revealed was he did for a living.  I will not say what the profession was as the actual profession would likely get this removed for being political, but I was FROSTY about his desire to continue to see the man.  I was not sure I would find him NICE even if he seemed superficially pleasant.  

So would you continue to see a man you liked, who was good looking and with whom you had great sex or would you stop because his profession left you COLD?

I dont care how good looking you are or how big your dick is, if you are a taxidermist I will be creeped out….never gonna work out. 

[samhexum]

1 minute ago, FrankR said:

I dont care how good looking you are or how big your dick is, if you are a taxidermist I will be creeped out….never gonna work out. 

or a mortician with a fetish

[Nue2thegame]

The person for sure but I have some very good friends that are lawyers. 

[Nightowl]

Respect for the person is more important to me than the sex.  If I don’t respect his profession I’d move on.

[Rayphactor]

5 hours ago, purplekow said:

So would you continue to see a man you liked, who was good looking and with whom you had great sex or would you stop because his profession left you COLD?

It would take a lot for a profession to have that kind of impact on me as you describe. A profession is simply a means to earn income. If I liked him and we were compatible, I'd probably continue to see him. Of course, we all have a line we won't cross. 

[Vulgarii]

Maybe maybe not. The most beautiful, well maybe top 3 hottest, client I've had is a gay conversion therapist.

 

🥵

[wsc]

16 hours ago, FrankR said:

I dont care how good looking you are or how big your dick is, if you are a taxidermist I will be creeped out….never gonna work out. 

You don't want to get stuffed?!?

[EZEtoGRU]

If it’s just for a quick romp in the hay, I wouldn’t care about the profession really. If it’s going to be more of a romantic relationship type thing then I would have to have respect for the profession and his general beliefs. 
 

For instance, I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone that has diametrically opposing (insert topic we can’t discuss here) beliefs to mine. That’s just a recipe for failure. 

[jeezifonly]

When meeting via the apps, the connection is mutually beneficial for scratching the itch. Perhaps your friend enjoys extended emotional pain play outside the bedroom and you don't know about it. 

[samhexum]

20 hours ago, Nue2thegame said:

I have some very good friends that are lawyers. 

we won't hold that against you

[mike carey]

5 hours ago, samhexum said:

we won't hold that against you

Cue lawyer jokes.

On second thoughts, DON'T.

[+ sniper]

16 hours ago, Vulgarii said:

Maybe maybe not. The most beautiful, well maybe top 3 hottest, client I've had is a gay conversion therapist.

 

🥵

Yeah but is he really trying to convert people or just taking their parent's money and getting the guys some breathing room?

 

[+ Charlie]

This is a hard question to answer, since the profession is not the only non-sexual aspect of an individual. Just as I would not reject someone as a friend just because he sells his body for sexual activity even if he is is disgusted by the buyer, I would not refuse to have sex with someone I am physically attracted to solely because he also practices another profession that I find repugnant for some reason. Most of us have friends who have some religious or political belief or practice that we do not agree with, yet we accept the totality of the person as a friend anyway; the real question is how strongly we feel about the person's profession or belief as a disqualification for friendship. No matter how sexually attractive a person appears to me, I would find it difficult to have sex with him if I knew that he practiced a profession that I considered truly immoral, especially if he did not not consider it immoral at all (or even worse, if he did consider it immoral, and didn't care). When we insist that everyone we interact with practice or believe exactly as we do, then we are reduced to being members of a cult.