TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Posted December 8 Hey folks! Long time no see! I haven't been on here in a few years - took a break after COVID and started a 9–5. I’m looking to get back into the business in the new year here in Toronto. Only thing is, I can only do outcalls since I live with a roommate. Clients, is it a turn-off when a provider can only do outcalls? (And providers, feel free to chime in too!) xoxo, TT + Just Chuck 1
SecretProvider Posted December 8 Posted December 8 if I am traveling and staying with friends or family and can't host, I use dayuse.com to hire a hotel room for a few hours. most of my clients are in calls by a big margin. TorontoTwunk and italianboyph 1 1
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 7 minutes ago, SecretProvider said: if I am traveling and staying with friends or family and can't host, I use dayuse.com to hire a hotel room for a few hours. most of my clients are in calls by a big margin. Oooo!!! I like this idea, never though of it! Thank you xoxo + Just Sayin and SecretProvider 1 1
BeamerBikes Posted December 8 Posted December 8 It’s a few more hoops, but I can usually work around it. If you have the $ to hire, you usually can find a decent hotel in a nearby city. Plus even if you live in the same city, folks will grab a hotel room for a variety of reasons. It’s not that weird. will you go by the same name? The link is currently user not found. I haven’t been back to Toronto in awhile. DMonDude 1
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 2 minutes ago, BeamerBikes said: It’s a few more hoops, but I can usually work around it. If you have the $ to hire, you usually can find a decent hotel in a nearby city. Plus even if you live in the same city, folks will grab a hotel room for a variety of reasons. It’s not that weird. will you go by the same name? The link is currently user not found. I haven’t been back to Toronto in awhile. Fair enough, I've done only outcalls before; a bit tougher but it can be done. I will be going by the same name, unless its taken (which I'll update my information with of course) xoxo TT
nate_sf Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I’m not able to host either, and it’s definitely a challenge. Most clients want incalls. As @SecretProvider suggests, I also use Dayuse for incalls when needed. An advantage of Dayuse is I can choose a hotel that’s convenient for the client. This works really well for meeting clients in the South Bay. TorontoTwunk, + Just Sayin and thomas 2 1
BigK Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I personally prefer to hire escorts for out calls. TorontoTwunk, + Just Chuck and liubit 2 1
+ PhileasFogg Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I live alone and outcalls - in the comfort of my home - are preferred. I recognize that many clients - married men - have limited outcall options. If I’m traveling, in the comfort of my hotel. TorontoTwunk, italianboyph, + Pensant and 3 others 4 1 1
+ Just Chuck Posted December 8 Posted December 8 If all things are equal, I usually prefer to host an outcall at my place for escorts. I like going to a masseur’s place if he has a table or dedicated space for massage. I was disappointed earlier this year when I was going to be in a city for a few free hours but not have a place to really stay or host while I was there. I spotted a good looking ad and then realized that person was outcall only. So, I had to skip that one. TorontoTwunk and italianboyph 2
+ 7829V Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I always prefer when the provider comes to my place . TorontoTwunk, liubit, + Pensant and 1 other 3 1
+ KensingtonHomo Posted December 8 Posted December 8 My husband and I prefer to host. I'm not familiar with Toronto but we live in Brooklyn so some escorts don't want to travel to us, but enough are willing to do so. TorontoTwunk, italianboyph and + Pensant 3
ericwinters Posted December 8 Posted December 8 (edited) When in traveling I prefer my hotel. When home I prefer his place. Edited December 8 by ericwinters TorontoTwunk, + KensingtonHomo and jackcali 3
+ Act25 Posted December 8 Posted December 8 (edited) I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I would never assume it was the provider's responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse. Edited December 9 by Act25 correct punctuation and improve readability + KensingtonHomo, TorontoTwunk, + Pensant and 1 other 2 1 1
jmichaeliii Posted December 8 Posted December 8 18 minutes ago, Act25 said: I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I never would assume it was the providers responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse. I do that now also. The providers I see travel 90 minutes to see me, so I kind of feel like that is a fair exchange. Dayuse is a huge help in setting things up, but weekends can be dicey as sometimes the hotels don't have rooms available. TorontoTwunk and MikeBiDude 1 1
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 37 minutes ago, Act25 said: I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I never would assume it was the providers responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse. 100% I had that on my previous ads in the past. Now I learnt what Dayuse is now, I'll be using it haha! It was never an issue for the most part; but I did turn away few clients who wanted longer experiences in the past simply bc I only did outcalls. xoxo TT
Nue2thegame Posted December 8 Posted December 8 12 minutes ago, TorontoTwink said: 100% I had that on my previous ads in the past. Now I learnt what Dayuse is now, I'll be using it haha! It was never an issue for the most part; but I did turn away few clients who wanted longer experiences in the past simply bc I only did outcalls. xoxo TT Do you have a link to a current ad? This one is inactive for me.
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 13 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said: Do you have a link to a current ad? This one is inactive for me. Sorry! I need to remove it, I haven't been advertising in years! Getting back into the bizz in the new year; hopefully will g by the same name; keep a look out xoxo tt Nue2thegame 1
+ MikeThomas Posted December 8 Posted December 8 It's not a turn-off, just a disappointment. I can't host, but I certainly respect a provider's inability to host.
jackcali Posted Thursday at 01:08 AM Posted Thursday at 01:08 AM (edited) If I'm traveling (which I would be in Toronto), I prefer to host at my hotel. If I'm home here in NYC, I look for providers who can host for the sake of convenience. I also don't want to book a room on dayuse, but I'm happy to reimburse a provider for the booking. My current regular books a room on dayuse for our sessions and his (elevated) fee covers the cost of it. Apart from the added cost, this is as convenient as an in-call. Edited Thursday at 01:08 AM by jackcali
Nightowl Posted Thursday at 01:13 AM Posted Thursday at 01:13 AM It’s not a turnoff, just an obstacle. I can only do incall and the cost of getting a local hotel room on top of whatever the provider’s fee and transportation are aren’t worth it.
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