italianboyph

I think we need to see that providers outside life is not the same as, their work life. Providers are allowed to be on these apps, if they choose to be, as it’s their personal life. That being said, I think posting anything discriminatory is wrong in any circumstance, especially when it’s public and everyone can see. Some things are better left unsaid completely. I understand completely how that can turn someone off, preference is one thing, discriminating is another.

As a provider myself, I never take payment up front. That's always a no go and everyone should know that when meeting. You were clear with what you wanted and he didn't follow through, and added the extra surprises. That's why I think it's good to get providers with reviews or at least check here to see if anyone has met them. When people give off shady vibes, just always trust your gut and move on.

Mine are always off, but I also don't use my personal phone # as well. Even in my day to day life I don't have it on, because I will respond when I can. I always respond to every messages right when I can no matter what. So being left on read is never an issue when it comes to me. The only thing I've ever had as issue with when it comes to some clients is on Rentmen. As I've had people who don't speak, but request pictures, and then leave me on read. A lot of people may know not that Rentmen messages all have read receipts, so it tells me if every- time with those to check marks if someone has left me on read. Those little (✔️✔️)

I've always had facial hair and the trend that people hopped on started many, many years ago, when bears were fully embraced. Everyone realized there's no shame in embracing your natural body hair. I've had people throughout the years actually harass me and tell me to shave all my body hair and maybe I'd get booked. At the end of the day I love it and many men do as well. I think asking them to trim isn't that big a deal before a session, as hair does grow back. If that's what you want, as always be transparent and put it in your profile. That being said from the outside looking in, it's apples to oranges they're plenty of clean cut guys, and they're plenty of guys with who are hairy with beards. That way you don't have to ask someone to change.

High fiber diet, lots of water.

I think with everything no matter what everything should be said up front with both parties. That being said, I don't think this little bump is anything major.

I think with threesomes you need to make sure everyone feels included, because you don’t want anyone to feel disconnected. Going with the flow sometimes makes for the best sex and chemistry as well.

Sorry this has happened to you I can relate. I think guys who message without a single hello and request to see pictures is a big one. Guys who message you just see nudes with no intention on booking, even though it was planned.

I usually do yes, because it makes planning everything easier. That’s not to say last min requests don’t happen though. 😙🤪

Trust me I fully relate and understand completely, as it’s happened to me quite often. It’s exhausting and really annoying honestly. Making plans and them either not showing up or even responding ghosting. People get off on playing games.

Eyes open are always good because it becomes more intimate and engaging.

Yes we are.

Sometimes things happens and our bodies react. I think in situation like this always make sure the provider/ doesn’t feel worse then they may already. Shit happen, clean up and find a way to still enjoy the company that you have.

We all have insecurities, a good provider would make you feel welcomed and make sure you're comfortable. Don't be too hard on yourself. 🥰

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