Kris_Canada

Are you willing to say which escort became a meme ? (only reveal if he has his face in his RentMen profile--I don't wanna out the guy if he's doing this on the DL) I'm just imagining that meme with...well, the one below. Where people always insert different captions for what each person in the pic is thinking or what category they fit into.

Haven't had him, but can confirm he's stuuupidly hot in-person (worked together at one of my day jobs a year and a half ago and also saw him at another of his jobs downtown more recently). Those pics are okay, but he's better-looking in real life. Nice guy, too, the little I talked to him.

What others have said here ('specially bring your own water), but also, if you're at his place, you could follow him to the kitchen (or mini-bar, if at hotel) and watch your drink being poured. Good opportunity to feel him up and get to know each other anyway. I always offer a bottle of water and more options, unless we're at it right after he steps in the door and I don't get a chance to! 😀🔥

Anyone watch the short-lived sci-fi western-flavoured series "Firefly" a decade and a half ago (and its big screen conclusion film, "Serenity") ? It predicted what you mentioned above. One of the crew members on the small ship is an escort (they call them "Companions" in the show) and in one episode focused on her, you see her going through a list of applicants (potential clients) on her tablet, watching their videos, rejecting and accepting them and setting up appointments. She only seemed to have wealthy clientelle. That's the centralized and more common form of prostitution in that imagined future, but there are still traditional whores as well (the show's terminology). In another episode, they head to a rougher planet and one of the companion's friends has set up a whorehouse (and is its madame) because she didn't like the way things were being done in the mainstream companion world. In all likelihood, traditional escorts will still be around in some form. Due to the appeal of JustForFans and the like, though, it might become more of a niche thing to hire one for some in-person time. And it might get more expensive and be mostly for the wealthy? We'll see.

Woof, I'd take that for a ride. His profile says Top, but after a first session of no-fucking and sniffing each other out, I'd be asking if there was any way to convince him otherwise (or ask during that first session, if things are going really well). I like the mature, rough-around-the-edges guys too. Room for all types. 😁

Meet new guys and finally see some of our regulars again, yeah. In particular, I have an awesome guy in Rochester who texts me once every couple weeks to see if I'm coming down. Not yet, buddy, the border isn't open for us to come to you guys yet (fully vaccinated Americans can come to Canada, though...weirdly, it wasn't reciprocal). But given that COVID case counts are much higher in the States, a lot of Canadians--escort or otherwise--don't wanna go to the U.S. yet anyway. You can get down on a plane, but for me, a 2 to 3 hour session isn't worth it to fly down. Rochester bud doesn't pay my travel, I simply see him when I happen to be in Niagara Falls or Buffalo on my own time or if I happen to be down for the week or weekend for another guy. Hah, that trend may lessen for a few years. At the outset of the pandemic, a lotta Québecois snowbirds (French-Canadians) brought COVID back with them from Florida. With Florida doing pretty badly right now, it's not the most desirable vacation spot, according to a lot of fellow Canadians. The average Torontonian mostly goes down there to shop. 😋

On the topic of discretion, how do you (and anyone else who wants to chime in) feel about concierge/security at condo and apartment complexes? Do you feel more comfortable entering a provider's home when it's a walk-up entrance (right to his door, like at a brownstone), as opposed to having to run the gauntlet of front entryway & buzzing him, going through lobby and sometimes past concierge/security, then the elevator or stairs ? Do you like it when he comes down to let you in/greet you at the front entrance or lobby, or would you rather not see him (maybe because you don't wanna be seen with him) until you're at the door to his unit/suite? If it's an apartment/condo, does a concierge being present make people feel self-conscious, or is it reassuring that you're in a relatively safer building? Or just..."whatever"/you're neutral about that aspect?

Re: roomies or someone having their spouse or significant other home I tried doing this with a roomie for a year, a few years back. 90% of the time, I'd just pay my roomie $20 and he'd take a hike for an hour and go visit a friend, go get laid, or get some grub. When he wouldn't or couldn't leave, I'd tell any short-notice clients that my room mate was home, he knew what I did (plus sometimes did it himself--roomie still occasionally gave massages to older couples--couples' massages were his specialty, apparently), and that he'd mostly be in his room. No one ever refrained from hiring me because of him being around, but I could tell it made a one-off client uncomfortable one time. Which is when I decided I'd be living solo the next apartment or condo I had. My longtime regulars, the odd time they'd come to me rather than me travelling to them, they didn't mind the roomie being around. They'd chat him up a bit post-coitus, when they were getting their shoes back on. Very friendly, very relaxed vibes, those times. Apparently roomie had a big dick, but I never got to see it. We weren't into each other like that, lived very different lives, and he was a friend-of-a-friend. He was a flight attendant, away all the time anyway, and I knew his schedule, so it wasn't hard to make incall appointments only when he was absent.

Hot. Always offered, yep. That should always be automatically offered at the end of a session. 🛀💦 To help set the mood, yeah. If I was asked to provide massage (and I usually find a way to work some in there anyway), always have some relaxing music or nature sounds on (would be nice to do some sessions out in the woods at a cottage, cabin, or home-in-the-forest and have the background ambiance be the actual sounds of nature). A large percentage of my hires want half the session spent on massage and the other half getting pounded anyway. Sometimes at hotel outcalls, the guy has music going already, which is nice, because you find out what he likes. 🙂 I should ask ahead of time, from now on. 5+ years of doing this (four if you subtract the break of the pandemic) and it just never occurred to me to ask that in the initial chit-chat of setting up a quickie or overnight--"What music do you like?" 🤦‍♂️ I'll remember to have some music playing for the non-massage sessions as well, from now on. Music to fuck to, yeah!

True, "safe" is subjective. I considered being a suburban escort for a while (there aren't a ton, least not near Toronto/in Ontario) because they seem like underserved areas and by luck, all the gents I attracted while living there were awesome and all except one have become repeat clients...plus the guys I traveled to in the 'burbs while living downtown were/are also great. But in the end, there just aren't enough dudes hiring in the 'burbs (or not enough willing to hire close to home, at least--many go to the city or the hotels near the airport for encounters). It seems that living downtown where there's a higher volume of people and you're closer to more hotels, is the better bet. Maybe some providers on here have had success entertaining in the 'burbs long term, though. Thanks for sharing, loved reading about the two hot room set-ups. Whether to have porn playing or not when the guy comes in is an interesting call. Over the years, I've had guys ask for some to be playing in the background, whereas others have commented that they don't like it when other providers have porn on because they're concerned or annoyed at the possibility that the provider is stealing glances at the porn rather than concentrating on them. I don't mind it either way. It's hot background noise, but not required. Will happily put it on if requested, or have it on already if I'm with a regular who I know enjoys it. Best bet seems to be to default to having it playing, and the gent can ask for it to be turned off.

Sad. 😥 Thank-you, bad apple escorts, for ruining it for the rest of us (for both providers and clients). Okay, not ruining it, but contributing to the lack of unease, mistrust, or anxiety.

Thanks for linking back to that--great thread, good to see the varying perspectives. Seems like envelope or bills somewhere visible is the best compromise. An assurance that there is payment in the room, not putting it in his hand at the outset. This isn't paying up front. Anyone hate the envelope-on-the-table method?

True, seeing that someone's a Premium member helps reassure, as does seeing that they've been on there for years and if they're a good communicator.

Mileage must vary, I guess. The way most escorts I've met in-person and chatted with online talk, payment up front seems to be the norm. And you see it stipulated in profiles. 🤷‍♂️ I think that's the best in-between measure, and the most fair to all involved. Showing that there IS money. Is showing the envelope or wad of cash and then leaving it on a table disagreeable to some providers ? The upscale hotel reassures for safety and cleanliness, but IMO, it's not overly indicative of the client's financial status or reliability. Plenty of clients of varying means splurge for a nice hotel on their night out. The longtime client in the example I gave above had a good job and money, but he still ripped me off. If I had asked for payment up front, I would have still walked away empty-handed, but with 3 hours of my time back. I don't walk into sessions worried about this each time--most people in the world are good, most aren't trying to rip each other off--but "money up front" is a failsafe against finding out at the end that you've provided the service for free. Yeah but how could he have known that you had an expensive overnight the night before? He can't read your mind to determine that you're telling the truth. Also, if they're new, young, and skittish, I wouldn't be surprised to find that most wanna be reassured that there's money for them set aside before they begin. Fair, we all have our preferences. But to me it seems like a mighty small detail to hold against someone when factoring in whether or not to rehire.

Agreed, it's helpful if "money up front" is included in the profiles of any escort who requires that. Hopefully those ain't the first words out of anyone's mouth, upon arrival. Can be firm, but tactful.