TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Posted December 8 Hey folks! Long time no see! I haven't been on here in a few years - took a break after COVID and started a 9–5. I’m looking to get back into the business in the new year here in Toronto. Only thing is, I can only do outcalls since I live with a roommate. Clients, is it a turn-off when a provider can only do outcalls? (And providers, feel free to chime in too!) xoxo, TT + Just Chuck 1
SecretProvider Posted December 8 Posted December 8 if I am traveling and staying with friends or family and can't host, I use dayuse.com to hire a hotel room for a few hours. most of my clients are in calls by a big margin. italianboyph and TorontoTwunk 1 1
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 7 minutes ago, SecretProvider said: if I am traveling and staying with friends or family and can't host, I use dayuse.com to hire a hotel room for a few hours. most of my clients are in calls by a big margin. Oooo!!! I like this idea, never though of it! Thank you xoxo SecretProvider and + Just Sayin 1 1
BeamerBikes Posted December 8 Posted December 8 It’s a few more hoops, but I can usually work around it. If you have the $ to hire, you usually can find a decent hotel in a nearby city. Plus even if you live in the same city, folks will grab a hotel room for a variety of reasons. It’s not that weird. will you go by the same name? The link is currently user not found. I haven’t been back to Toronto in awhile. DMonDude 1
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 2 minutes ago, BeamerBikes said: It’s a few more hoops, but I can usually work around it. If you have the $ to hire, you usually can find a decent hotel in a nearby city. Plus even if you live in the same city, folks will grab a hotel room for a variety of reasons. It’s not that weird. will you go by the same name? The link is currently user not found. I haven’t been back to Toronto in awhile. Fair enough, I've done only outcalls before; a bit tougher but it can be done. I will be going by the same name, unless its taken (which I'll update my information with of course) xoxo TT
nate_sf Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I’m not able to host either, and it’s definitely a challenge. Most clients want incalls. As @SecretProvider suggests, I also use Dayuse for incalls when needed. An advantage of Dayuse is I can choose a hotel that’s convenient for the client. This works really well for meeting clients in the South Bay. + Just Sayin, thomas and TorontoTwunk 2 1
BigK Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I personally prefer to hire escorts for out calls. liubit, TorontoTwunk and + Just Chuck 2 1
+ PhileasFogg Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I live alone and outcalls - in the comfort of my home - are preferred. I recognize that many clients - married men - have limited outcall options. If I’m traveling, in the comfort of my hotel. liubit, + Just Chuck, TorontoTwunk and 3 others 4 1 1
+ Just Chuck Posted December 8 Posted December 8 If all things are equal, I usually prefer to host an outcall at my place for escorts. I like going to a masseur’s place if he has a table or dedicated space for massage. I was disappointed earlier this year when I was going to be in a city for a few free hours but not have a place to really stay or host while I was there. I spotted a good looking ad and then realized that person was outcall only. So, I had to skip that one. TorontoTwunk and italianboyph 2
+ 7829V Posted December 8 Posted December 8 I always prefer when the provider comes to my place . liubit, + Pensant, TorontoTwunk and 1 other 3 1
+ KensingtonHomo Posted December 8 Posted December 8 My husband and I prefer to host. I'm not familiar with Toronto but we live in Brooklyn so some escorts don't want to travel to us, but enough are willing to do so. + Pensant, italianboyph and TorontoTwunk 3
ericwinters Posted December 8 Posted December 8 (edited) When in traveling I prefer my hotel. When home I prefer his place. Edited December 8 by ericwinters TorontoTwunk, jackcali and + KensingtonHomo 3
+ Act25 Posted December 8 Posted December 8 (edited) I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I would never assume it was the provider's responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse. Edited December 9 by Act25 correct punctuation and improve readability TorontoTwunk, + KensingtonHomo, + Pensant and 1 other 2 1 1
jmichaeliii Posted December 8 Posted December 8 18 minutes ago, Act25 said: I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I never would assume it was the providers responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse. I do that now also. The providers I see travel 90 minutes to see me, so I kind of feel like that is a fair exchange. Dayuse is a huge help in setting things up, but weekends can be dicey as sometimes the hotels don't have rooms available. MikeBiDude and TorontoTwunk 1 1
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 37 minutes ago, Act25 said: I think the key is to just be upfront in your ad "I cannot host". FWIW Back in the days before I could host (which I prefer now) and neither could the provider, I never would assume it was the providers responsibility to secure a room - I took care of it - and this was way before Dayuse. 100% I had that on my previous ads in the past. Now I learnt what Dayuse is now, I'll be using it haha! It was never an issue for the most part; but I did turn away few clients who wanted longer experiences in the past simply bc I only did outcalls. xoxo TT
Nue2thegame Posted December 8 Posted December 8 12 minutes ago, TorontoTwink said: 100% I had that on my previous ads in the past. Now I learnt what Dayuse is now, I'll be using it haha! It was never an issue for the most part; but I did turn away few clients who wanted longer experiences in the past simply bc I only did outcalls. xoxo TT Do you have a link to a current ad? This one is inactive for me.
TorontoTwunk Posted December 8 Author Posted December 8 13 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said: Do you have a link to a current ad? This one is inactive for me. Sorry! I need to remove it, I haven't been advertising in years! Getting back into the bizz in the new year; hopefully will g by the same name; keep a look out xoxo tt Nue2thegame 1
+ MikeThomas Posted December 8 Posted December 8 It's not a turn-off, just a disappointment. I can't host, but I certainly respect a provider's inability to host.
jackcali Posted Thursday at 01:08 AM Posted Thursday at 01:08 AM (edited) If I'm traveling (which I would be in Toronto), I prefer to host at my hotel. If I'm home here in NYC, I look for providers who can host for the sake of convenience. I also don't want to book a room on dayuse, but I'm happy to reimburse a provider for the booking. My current regular books a room on dayuse for our sessions and his (elevated) fee covers the cost of it. Apart from the added cost, this is as convenient as an in-call. Edited Thursday at 01:08 AM by jackcali
Nightowl Posted Thursday at 01:13 AM Posted Thursday at 01:13 AM It’s not a turnoff, just an obstacle. I can only do incall and the cost of getting a local hotel room on top of whatever the provider’s fee and transportation are aren’t worth it.
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