Rejection?

[PileDriver]

haven't hired in ages....but when I am looking to hire some guys are quick to reject my advances...sometimes it's no big deal..with others I'm offended...thought we were on the same page? Any thoughts?

Edited Wednesday at 10:12 AM by PileDriver

[Nightowl]

Can you share any details about how you approached them and what you might have said or asked for?  Seems odd that you’d be rejected without some reason behind it.

[DMonDude]

Much more context is needed.

[BaronArtz]

I hire in NYC and have never been rejected.  Been doing it for about 30 years now.

It must be your approach.

[aiseeya]

Ghosted: yes. Ignored: yes. Under performed: yes. Never rejected upfront tho.

[+ DrownedBoy]

I've been rejected by quite a few guys who got creeped by for the fantasies I hire for. 

I just reject them as timid and unprofessional.

[jeezifonly]

Tell us about the page - the one you were both on...

 

[Wings246]

4 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

who got creeped by for the fantasies I hire for

This statement alone is begging for elaborations.  I can't help but wonder if it's related to your user ID.

[Spikeguy]

Yes I was thinking cold bath followed by cadaver roleplay.

[DznNYC]

21 hours ago, PileDriver said:

haven't hired in ages....but when I am looking to hire some guys are quick to reject my advances...sometimes it's no big deal..with others I'm offended...thought we were on the same page? Any thoughts?

 

Have you looked yourself up on Mr Number?  The providers may be seeing something you're not.  

 

[soloyo215]

21 hours ago, PileDriver said:

haven't hired in ages....but when I am looking to hire some guys are quick to reject my advances...sometimes it's no big deal..with others I'm offended...thought we were on the same page? Any thoughts?

Without details of the interactions it's difficult to establish any thoughts on it.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I agree with others. Unless you can provide some additional context, it's hard to offer you any advice. 

[MikeBiDude]

Maybe the tone of the OP’s initial request to providers is causing him a problem?

[jeezifonly]

On 9/16/2025 at 7:51 PM, Spikeguy said:

Yes I was thinking cold bath followed by cadaver roleplay.

[GentJ]

I'd say most of the time I would pass on something it centers around some red flag about the patron's ability to pay.

[Pepper Young]

I've never been rejected. The boy with the cold hard cash is always mister right. 

[+ KensingtonHomo]

4 hours ago, Pepper Young said:

I've never been rejected. The boy with the cold hard cash is always mister right. 

Come on Madonna fan! 

[Spikeguy]

I love you honey you pay my rent

[Nightowl]

5 hours ago, Spikeguy said:

I love you honey you pay my rent

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