Is it standard for a provider to cum?

[Ali Gator]

I have found masseurs find it easier to cum than escorts for me. Not sure why. 

I have a semi-regular masseur who always cums at the end of the massage. He's in his mid-30s and is able to cum a couple of times a day (according to him) - as soon as he wakes up and then once more later in the day. I book him earlier in the day for a late afternoon / early evening appointment and he always cums for me.  I asked if he does this with every client and he says never - he considers it more 'escort territory' and he doesn't advertise as that (he also asked me not to let anyone else know if ever I refer him to a friend). This started around our third or fourth appointment (about five years ago), and I was pleasantly surprised. He usually cums all over my chest or face (I prefer face) and then he gets me off and I cum all over my stomach. 

 

[jmichaeliii]

38 minutes ago, Ali Gator said:

I have found masseurs find it easier to cum than escorts for me. Not sure why. 

I have a semi-regular masseur who always cums at the end of the massage. He's in his mid-30s and is able to cum a couple of times a day (according to him) - as soon as he wakes up and then once more later in the day. I book him earlier in the day for a late afternoon / early evening appointment and he always cums for me.  I asked if he does this with every client and he says never - he considers it more 'escort territory' and he doesn't advertise as that (he also asked me not to let anyone else know if ever I refer him to a friend). This started around our third or fourth appointment (about five years ago), and I was pleasantly surprised. He usually cums all over my chest or face (I prefer face) and then he gets me off and I cum all over my stomach. 

 

You have a good vibe with each other.  Enjoy it!  

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.  It makes for a nice bond.

[+ SirBillybob]

17 hours ago, jmichaeliii said:

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.  It makes for a nice bond.

As we say in my neck of the woods, a nice Registered Retirement Savings Plan contribution. 

[Aaron 90]

I recently tried a new request with my provider and we both enjoyed it. I brought a shot glass and asked him to cum into it. It was nice to see how much of the glass was filled how much I was going to swallow. A nice cum shot in a shot glass 😋

[+ Jamie21]

On 6/15/2025 at 10:55 PM, jmichaeliii said:

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.

Yeah, I tell that to my clients too…

[+ purplekow]

I have had several escorts say that they are doing things with me, or more usually, I am doing things to them which they do not do with others.  Whether that is true or not, it does give a certain feeling of there being a real connection between us.  With at least two of them, I believe it to be true as they ask for the house special when we are together.  So even if the same act is being performed elsewhere, I am the Broadway original cast and ever one else is the community theater version.  I suppose there may be a national tour guy or two as well.  

In addition, there have been times I have asked for a specific act and the escort has let me know that he does not do that.  When it happens that he does actually do it and seems into it, I think that he has certain acts he does only rarely and mostly in the privacy of a non monetary interaction.  

[marylander1940]

On 6/15/2025 at 5:55 PM, jmichaeliii said:

You have a good vibe with each other.  Enjoy it!  

I have two that I meet with that do things with me that they say they don't do with others.  It makes for a nice bond.

How do you know they don't do "those things" with others?

 

[Gilfson]

On 5/22/2025 at 12:29 AM, cumconnoiseur said:

First post. I'm about to start my hiring era. I'm wondering, say for example I have an agreement with a provider for an hour of his time. Is it a foregone conclusion or expectation (in his perspective) that he's cumming for me at the end of that hour? Or do I have to specifically ask for it during negotiation? I've heard of guys who take multiple clients a day so I'm wondering if they're cumming for each client. I have to ask because getting the cum is always the goal for me when having sex, and if I need to make it clear with the provider from the get-go.

I cum everytime haha what’s the point if not

[jmichaeliii]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

How do you know they don't do "those things" with others?

 

I don't,  but it doesn't really matter if its someone you enjoy.

[Scott Carroll]

On 5/22/2025 at 2:29 AM, cumconnoiseur said:

First post. I'm about to start my hiring era. I'm wondering, say for example I have an agreement with a provider for an hour of his time. Is it a foregone conclusion or expectation (in his perspective) that he's cumming for me at the end of that hour? Or do I have to specifically ask for it during negotiation? I've heard of guys who take multiple clients a day so I'm wondering if they're cumming for each client. I have to ask because getting the cum is always the goal for me when having sex, and if I need to make it clear with the provider from the get-go.

The cum is always the goal for me and so I make sure that that is understood before the meet.  The entire session surrounds me getting cummed in the mouth.

[DMonDude]

On 6/30/2025 at 3:28 PM, Jamie21 said:

Yeah, I tell that to my clients too…

Took me a couple months longer than it should have back when i first started hiring to realize that the first provider (a masseur focused one) i hired (and still one of my regulars) who said he wasn't doing full service for everyone and only did it with a select few clients he felt most comfortable with was almost certainly telling everyone that and that that in itself was part of the service 🤣. What a day of self realization/reckoning that was for me haha. He really had me going in the beginning thinking i was among the select few haha.

Edited yesterday at 12:34 AM by DMonDude

[+ Alabastrine]

I've not been hiring very long and have so far only seen one provider, but I don't feel like the experience is complete unless my provider cums as many times as possible. I like the illusion that the provider is enjoying themselves. 

Edited yesterday at 05:19 AM by Alabastrine

[williamv]

Providers should not be expected to ejaculate. I wouldn't make that a deal breaker because there are so many variables that go into play when it comes to this. I always make the guy (or girl) I hire feel very comfortable. If you're a smelly, demanding client then they probably won't be comfortable enough to have a release. I would say choose wisely, check reviews, be respectful and accomodating and alot of them will go above and beyond for you. 

[realestateguy75]

I dont expect a provider to cum, if it happens, great, if it doesn't then maybe next time

[+ Jamie21]

3 hours ago, williamv said:

If you're a smelly, demanding client then they probably won't be comfortable enough to have a release.

That’s not a barrier for me to be able to release. I can get there (you just play a scene in your head that gets you there) but what is a barrier is how many times I’ve cum already that day. If you’re a client and you definitely want him to cum then tell him when you book so he can save it for you. 

[Becket]

I don't mind it if the provider can't or doesn't or won't come. What bugs the hell out of me though is if the provider can't or doesn't or won't get an erection, and at least maintain it for when things really get going. It's such a turn off for me. Of course it's all a fantasy, but it stretches even the wildest imagination when the scene is two guys having hot sex and one of them is like the head of a shy turtle, escaping to the safety of his shell.