First off, thanks for this great site! You’ve all helped me more than you know, and I really appreciate the camaraderie here. As the title of this post suggests, I’ve been wondering why there seem to be so few (if any) discussions about non-biological male,providers. I’m never quite sure which terms are most widely accepted, but trans and FTM come to mind. I know there are other identities I may not be familiar with, and I certainly don’t mean to generalize or exclude—or to objectify. This is just something I’ve noticed and I would love to be able to look to this site to get your insight on some of the providers I am interested in meeting. I can’t be the only one who enjoys spending time with all kinds of guys, so I’d love to hear from anyone with insights, experiences, or thoughts on this. Are there specific spaces where these conversations are happening, or is it just not a common topic here? For context, I’m 63, tall, and slender—not a gym body, but a darn nice guy. Looking forward to your perspectives!

I’ve worked with a trans FTM provider in TX, and contacted several others on behalf of clients for a threesome but never met due to logistics/scheduling conflicts. They had reasonable rates, on par with cis providers in their respective markets. I was surprised they weren’t charging a premium because it can be so difficult to find a trans man offering services in many areas of the country. Los Angeles has more than most, but still not that many options. Only some providers responded to my inquiries, and all of those that did were promising. True, interest in trans masculine providers is niche, thus why you will see less traffic here on topics like this one, but quite a few members here are interested in a range of trans men nevertheless. I’m in that group. I enjoy play with trans men, for work and personal. As to the reviews, again, FTM providers are a small minority. Fewer clients are seeking them out. Some are newer providers and few or no reviews is par for the course for any newer provider. RentMen has created unnecessary barriers to writing reviews for all providers in recent years, which we’ve discussed ad nauseam elsewhere. You can’t be so picky with FTM providers. I’d say if you have an interest in one, just go for it. Barring any common red flags, try hiring the one you like. You may have to travel to his city or pay for him to visit yours. That’s just the reality of hiring any provider that falls within a minority that will not be well represented everywhere. It takes extra effort and/or cost to do that for the right provider for you, but it is what it is. Or hire one of the few available in your area and be willing to let go of some of your preferences, or get over his lack of public reviews. Just the nature of the beast.