BrooklynIrish

Curious what area are you in?

Interesting. We generally get prices closer to @JamesB - $250-$275 for an outcall erotic. Generally if we’re both being seen the guy will offer a modest discount. But we don’t ask. And if they give a discount we tip based on how good they are.

Ugh. This jackass.

Generally I pay after and do it electronically. I paid someone at the start in Greece recently, thinking maybe that was the norm. He was fine but not great and kind of pricey. The other guy I hired who did not ask for money upfront was amazing. Lesson learned.

Can confirm this. He’s also a really sweet guy who can also go “Dom top” if you want.

It used to be if you communicated with the provider on the site, you could leave a review. Depending on how often you engage in this hobby, there are apps like Burner you can use to have a separate number not connected to you.

It sounds like you did dodge a bullet.

This may be true for many guys. If @k212310 lets us know where he is, maybe we can suggest some good providers who we know will be understanding.

I have reviewed him here and on Rentmen. He has over 50 glowing reviews. The point is not the he needs a good review. It’s that clients on here are unnecessarily rude and nasty about providers appearance as @AtlTopGuy explained.

Could not agree more. I saw a provider who is aware of CoM this weekend. He bemoaned how shitty some of the members here are when commenting about him and other providers.

The best providers are able to tune into something they find appealing about their clients and connect with them. It may be a physical attribute (pretty face, nice smile, great ass) or a personality trait (kindness, humor, it factor). At the risk of sounding immodest, I have a good face, a great ass and I’m really funny. I’m also quite skilled in bed. Most guys connect into one of those assets and build from there. I also find more experienced providers are generally better at making this connection.

Lots of people have skin conditions. I suspect you won’t want a massage or sex when you have active boils. I would just be upfront about the skin condition so it doesn’t cause questions.

Yeah… that’s not really how the term is used tho. @Oakman is correct. Serving cake just means showcasing your ass - assuming you have a good one.

I haven’t seen him in a while. I believe he movies to Mexico for a couple of years. But in my experience he’s very kind, great massage skills, and very sexy. I’ve been meaning to see him since he came back.

I think we probably will pass. Because if I haggle he’ll be unhappy and that will ruin the appointment