Do body parts matter when it comes to hiring? 🍆🍑body face?

[pubic_assistance]

4 minutes ago, misterhumphries said:

There's nothing wrong with a little mutual objectification.

I'm sure objectification accounts for the majority of the escort business.

[marylander1940]

11 hours ago, Keenan said:

So from what I see here it sounds like to you an escort is more of an object in the end than a person to you.  Keep in mind that escorts have feelings and are providing a service and are much more than an object.  I know many see us with one thing in mind but we are much more than objects.

Without a doubt but remember that clients mostly hire you because of your looks.

[TruHart1]

On 10/16/2024 at 4:51 PM, marylander1940 said:

Summoning the president of his fan club @TruHart1

I know this thread is about body parts (and I’ve always found his prominent ears to be extremely sexy!) but Russell is such a talented and beautiful human being who is so much more than the sum of his “parts!”

TruHart1 😎

 

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, misterhumphries said:

THIS! There's nothing wrong with a little mutual objectification. Neither the escort or his client is in the room because they saw each other in a crowd, their eyes locked, and they knew it was true love.

Escorting is a transaction. A voluntary transaction. Each party gets something they want from it. Nobody is denying anyone's humanity. But there's nothing wrong with a zipless fuck, either.

Exactly ,and we get what we want  whenever we want it for a $.

[Milo Janus]

Hi All,

I've been looking around RM and noticed a lot of providers are emphasizing their cock which got me thinking.  Is your main focus the cock or the whole package?  For me, it is the whole package.  I'm talking face, body, attitude, demeanor, and of course cock and ass.  Thoughts?

[MikeBiDude]

3 hours ago, Milo Janus said:

Hi All,

I've been looking around RM and noticed a lot of providers are emphasizing their cock which got me thinking.  Is your main focus the cock or the whole package?  For me, it is the whole package.  I'm talking face, body, attitude, demeanor, and of course cock and ass.  Thoughts?

3 pages of discussion here:

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/155523-do-body-parts-matter-when-it-comes-to-hiring-🍆🍑body-face/

Threads combined.

[la_connor]

I can enjoy body parts, but what I'm most attracted to is his face. Eye contact pulls my trigger without fail.  

[Kris_Canada]

On 10/16/2024 at 11:26 AM, marylander1940 said:

There's a simple cosmetic surgery to fix that. Just my two cents

Subjective/matter of preference, of course, but I hope most guys with cool/cute/unique ears keep 'em as-is and don't get 'em pinned.  😁

There's enough sameness and yearning-to-be-clone in the queer world (hey, the Tom Of Finland aesthetic and twin-cest and boyfriends, partners, & husbands looking like each other has its appeal for me too, at times), we don't need more of it.  Whatever works for someone, it's their body, but I hope people feel like they can have a perceived oddity and own it and not necessarily need to alter it due to outside pressure.

[TruthBTold]

If we are looking at physicality I know that I choose a certain type (I would imagine many people know who my type is (🤭).  However I know also that everybody has their own choices they can make.  Also, once I get past the physicality I always have to approach a personality that has to minimally seem to both make me want to approach that person and seem if I like them on that level.  I try not to judge either myself or that approached person in any way by the outcome.

[marylander1940]

40 minutes ago, Kris_Canada said:

Subjective/matter of preference, of course, but I hope most guys with cool/cute/unique ears keep 'em as-is and don't get 'em pinned.  😁

There's enough sameness and yearning-to-be-clone in the queer world (hey, the Tom Of Finland aesthetic and twin-cest and boyfriends, partners, & husbands looking like each other has its appeal for me too, at times), we don't need more of it.  Whatever works for someone, it's their body, but I hope people feel like they can have a perceived oddity and own it and not necessarily need to alter it due to outside pressure.

It was nothing but a simple suggestion. 

I hope nobody got offended

[+ DynamicUno]

One thing that sets some guys apart for me are those who can pull off having long hair.  That's mostly younger guys, just the way it goes, but occasionally a more mature guy can make it work. 

In a world where short styles dominate, seeing a guy with a luxurious mane that can drape down when he's lying over you just does something a little extra for me.

 

[DznNYC]

12 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

One thing that sets some guys apart for me are those who can pull off having long hair.  That's mostly younger guys, just the way it goes, but occasionally a more mature guy can make it work. 

In a world where short styles dominate, seeing a guy with a luxurious mane that can drape down when he's lying over you just does something a little extra for me.

 

You’re making me miss my long hair!!  Two months ago it was nipple length!   😩 

[pubic_assistance]

12 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

One thing that sets some guys apart for me are those who can pull off having long hair

Agreed

[PileDriver]

Prefer short hair...but god fucking damn...long locks on a guys who can pull it off....fuck...shwing.....lol

[DznNYC]

I’m pretty aware that my dick and/or my ass have opened a number of doors for me.  

But I’d like to think it’s the rest of me that has guys coming back.  Lol

[jmichaeliii]

My preferences are Latino or black.  I like a nice upper body and some biceps, but not over the top.  

A friendly face and a couple strategically placed tats adds to the hotness.  Also like a nicely groomed beard.

Then just hope the personality is there with the looks.  So far that formula has worked for me!

[Cbilly17]

Face, cock, then body. Personality seals the deal.

[+ Summerson]

I guess it sounds cliche, but the things that really attract my interest first are features like a great smile and nice eyes. The whole face, really, if I'm being totally honest. A great butt is always appreciated - LOL. I can find a range of physiques attractive, from slender to dad bods, but for my personal taste, there definitely is such a thing as too many abs and too much muscle. And winning personality/sense of humor are the key elements that ensure future bookings. As someone once wrote in a thread here (can't remember who or which thread) "If you can make me laugh, you're definitely getting invited back." 

[Callas]

No. My most fav has most of the physical features i don’t like, but i like his characters. Chemistry is most important to me

[afterfallhours1]

Yes. Funnicholasny is one provider who is very picky. Everyone keeps talking good things about him but I wouldn't know cuz I'm not his type, despite me going to the gym. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

If I knew a provider who had a really long tongue and knew how to use it when kissing, he'd have my business.

"Technique" can only take you so far, and I'll never forget the (now retired) escort who literally tickled my tonsils.

Unfortunately, that's not a body part people put down stats for. Too bad.

[PecLuvr]

As you might guess from my screen name.... I seek out guys with muscular pecs with big nips... 😋

[Oakman]

Everyone is so different, and there is a provider out there for seemingly every desire.
I look for guys who are my height or taller and more muscular than me. I avoid lots of tattoos though a few are OK. I prefer a big dick, but can certainly work with an average guy if he’s got the right attitude. I avoid guys who look like they are gogo, dancers, or influencers or who are trying to run an Onlyfans hustle.I honestly do not care if a man has an ugly face. As a matter of fact, I tend to be a little bit put off by guys with very perfect looking faces.

 

[Chien Andalou]

On 10/17/2024 at 4:29 AM, Keenan said:

So from what I see here it sounds like to you an escort is more of an object in the end than a person to you.  Keep in mind that escorts have feelings and are providing a service and are much more than an object.  I know many see us with one thing in mind but we are much more than objects.

I beg to differ. At the beginning, the escort is an object I selected because of a list of attributes: gorgeous cock, big round ass, tasty butthole, good teeth, nice rack, whatever. I don’t select them based on their personalities. (I have plenty of friends with great personalities that I don’t fuck.) Once they’re in the door, I try to have a great connection with the person attached to the dick. It makes the experience better for everyone.

[Whippoorwill]

On 10/14/2024 at 1:52 PM, Bokomaru said:

I use the following very simple formula. Please possess 2 out of 3 (in any combination): handsome face, nice body, above average dick. 
 

OR, if you have any ONE of those traits in spades (model looks, flawless body, huge cock), the other two simply won’t matter. I’ll be into you. 

I once belonged to an invitation-only membership sex club. The criteria were two out of the three: good looking, big cock, hot body. You wrote the organizer and told him which you were, and at the first meeting he verified in person. It actually worked quite well. This was strictly for sex. Husband hunting is altogether different.