A Note of Gratitude

[Evin Alexsander]

Hello All! 

It seems a simple post on behalf of a very kind gentleman set off a bit of a debate with several of you. I’m new into this site and wanted to thank those of you who, despite not knowing me, paid several compliments or simply said kind things on my behalf. I very much appreciate it.

I just wanted to have a moment to introduce myself, and that I look forward to engaging with you. I do my damndest to lead with kindness and empathy, whether online, in a date, or in bed. 

As for my weight - it is a challenge having an above average bubble butt that makes you, statistically, obese. Luckily - as a power bottom I have found men tend to enjoy a the extra pounds in my posterior. Feel free to see the proof of my obesity below.

Thanks again, and feel free to reach out with any questions you might have for me either on here or on 

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[j r]

You are being too kind. I am sorry anybody body shamed you. You are obviously a really handsome guy and you should rightly feel proud of your body. You are a real class act. 😉

[marylander1940]

4 minutes ago, Evin Alexsander said:

Hello All! 

It seems a simple post on behalf of a very kind gentleman set off a bit of a debate with several of you. I’m new into this site and wanted to thank those of you who, despite not knowing me, paid several compliments or simply said kind things on my behalf. I very much appreciate it.

I just wanted to have a moment to introduce myself, and that I look forward to engaging with you. I do my damndest to lead with kindness and empathy, whether online, in a date, or in bed. 

As for my weight - it is a challenge having an above average bubble butt that makes you, statistically, obese. Luckily - as a power bottom I have found men tend to enjoy a the extra pounds in my posterior. Feel free to see the proof of my obesity below.

Thanks again, and feel free to reach out with any questions you might have for me either on here or on 

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You're gorgeous!

99% of tops would love to have you!

Even in a competitive market like NYC I'm sure you're doing great!

[Passionproject]

5 minutes ago, Evin Alexsander said:

Hello All! 

It seems a simple post on behalf of a very kind gentleman set off a bit of a debate with several of you. I’m new into this site and wanted to thank those of you who, despite not knowing me, paid several compliments or simply said kind things on my behalf. I very much appreciate it.

I just wanted to have a moment to introduce myself, and that I look forward to engaging with you. I do my damndest to lead with kindness and empathy, whether online, in a date, or in bed. 

As for my weight - it is a challenge having an above average bubble butt that makes you, statistically, obese. Luckily - as a power bottom I have found men tend to enjoy a the extra pounds in my posterior. Feel free to see the proof of my obesity below.

Thanks again, and feel free to reach out with any questions you might have for me either on here or on 

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Be unapologetically yourself. I too have a big bubble and as a bottom, I also know how much tops enjoy the extra lbs in our trunks. 

[+ keroscenefire]

Handsome man! 😍 I know you're NYC-based but do you have plans to travel at all? 

[Evin Alexsander]

21 minutes ago, keroscenefire said:

Handsome man! 😍 I know you're NYC-based but do you have plans to travel at all? 

No plans in the immediacy unfortunately! I wish! 

[mike carey]

Welcome to the forum. You're a class act, and in one post you set an example of how to make the best use of an unfortunate incident.

[rvwnsd]

Firstly, welcome to Company of Men. I suspect the combination of "gentleman" and "smokin' hot physique" (not the least of which is your butt) will endear you to most of our members. 

6 hours ago, Evin Alexsander said:

... as a power bottom I have found men tend to enjoy a the extra pounds in my posterior. Feel free to see the proof of my obesity below....

As a bottom who L-O-V-E-S to rim, I can tell you that bottoms will be lining up for a taste or two.

[Skip]

What a class act, and you look great....someone is going to marry you and live happily ever after. 

[Evin Alexsander]

7 hours ago, rvwnsd said:

As a bottom who L-O-V-E-S to rim, I can tell you that bottoms will be lining up for a taste or two.

I should be so lucky! 

[Peter Eater]

Statistically obese? No. More like phat. 

[dutchal]

Dude, you're gorgeous.

Per the current CDC BMI calculator, 205 lbs. on 5'11" is "overweight", NOT obese.  But that is based on the average percentage of body fat and the average person has a much higher percentage of body fat than you do.  No physician would tell you that you're overweight.

205 lbs. of mostly muscle on 5'11" is simply a very well developed, well nourished, muscular guy.  If I saw you in the gym, I'd stare.  If you winked at me I'd get weak in the knees.  If you saw me watching you in the locker room and did a slow, strip tease, I'd be drooling and precumming.  If you beckoned for me to join you in the shower, I'd be in heaven.

[robberbaron4u]

As with The Shadow, the Robber Baron knows. . .

[soloyo215]

On 8/22/2024 at 5:35 PM, Evin Alexsander said:

Hello All! 

It seems a simple post on behalf of a very kind gentleman set off a bit of a debate with several of you. I’m new into this site and wanted to thank those of you who, despite not knowing me, paid several compliments or simply said kind things on my behalf. I very much appreciate it.

I just wanted to have a moment to introduce myself, and that I look forward to engaging with you. I do my damndest to lead with kindness and empathy, whether online, in a date, or in bed. 

As for my weight - it is a challenge having an above average bubble butt that makes you, statistically, obese. Luckily - as a power bottom I have found men tend to enjoy a the extra pounds in my posterior. Feel free to see the proof of my obesity below.

Thanks again, and feel free to reach out with any questions you might have for me either on here or on 

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I missed all of the previous threads and comments. I'm glad I did if they were body shaming you, You certainly have nothing to be ashamed of. You are stunning.

Welcome and best wishes.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

OP, I'm sorry you had to deal with that shit.  This board is becoming notorious for anonymous body shaming.

I'm curious as to who the posters are who instigated this one.

Anyone remember? 

Edited August 24, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas

[nate_sf]

33 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I'm curious as to who the posters are who instigated this one.

Actually, it was only ONE poster who instigated this, and everyone else rose to this hunk's defense. I'm not going to honor the critic by naming them here, but it was truly trollish behavior.

Personally, I'd kill to have an ass like yours @Evin Alexsander, not to mention the other goods. For me, no amount of squats will ever get me there! Some people are just gifted in all the right places. 😛

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

5 hours ago, nate_sf said:

Actually, it was only ONE poster who instigated this, and everyone else rose to this hunk's defense. I'm not going to honor the critic by naming them here, but it was truly trollish behavior.

Personally, I'd kill to have an ass like yours @Evin Alexsander, not to mention the other goods. For me, no amount of squats will ever get me there! Some people are just gifted in all the right places. 😛

What I WANDER is why the board continues to let him create screen names and pull the same bullshit over and over again.

Edited August 24, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas

[Peter Eater]

20 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I'm curious as to who the posters are who instigated this one.

Anyone remember? 

Maybe a Wander Lust for 307 screen names is at work…

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

He is tall, muscular, blonde, blue eyes, charming, and no visible signs of tattoos or piercings.
If the boy is circumcised, he is Bozo's future husband ❤️.

BTC

[MikeBiDude]

21 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

‘What I WANDER is why the board continues to let him create screen names and pull the same bullshit over and over again.

Moderator says: I’d suggest asking these sort of questions in the “Ask A Moderator” Forum…discussion of moderator actions is a no-no in the rules. Thanks all for hoping back on the “Note of Gratitude” Topic.

[Evin Alexsander]

1 hour ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

He is tall, muscular, blonde, blue eyes, charming, and no visible signs of tattoos or piercings.
If the boy is circumcised, he is Bozo's future husband ❤️.

BTC

The boy is, indeed, circumcised. 

[novaman]

I clearly missed the body shaming remark but think maybe it was a miss understanding.  

Body shaming does take place all the time on here and you could say it's part of a review of a provider.   There're ways to be tactful about it but have on numerous occasions read descriptions including such too fat, skinny, old, too muscular etc.    I think everyone has a right to their opinion.    It's a meat market after all and we all a taste for different cuts.

 

 

[big-n-tall]

18 minutes ago, novaman said:

I clearly missed the body shaming remark but think maybe it was a miss understanding.  

Body shaming does take place all the time on here and you could say it's part of a review of a provider.   There're ways to be tactful about it but have on numerous occasions read descriptions including such too fat, skinny, old, too muscular etc.    I think everyone has a right to their opinion.    It's a meat market after all and we all a taste for different cuts.

 

 

Regrettably it wasn’t a misunderstanding. The poster makes disparaging remarks about escorts that don’t meet his ideal body type. He has a history of it. He’s come and gone on this forum multiple times after leaving in a huff after being called out on is narrow views of what people are in to. Why he keeps coming back is anyone’s guess.

If you don’t like a particular trait or physical appearance of a provider, that’s fine. However you don’t have to revert to childish remarks/behavior when people don’t agree.

Edited August 25, 2024 by big-n-tall

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

22 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

Moderator says: I’d suggest asking these sort of questions in the “Ask A Moderator” Forum…discussion of moderator actions is a no-no in the rules. Thanks all for hoping back on the “Note of Gratitude” Topic.

[DGHou]

I am also fairly new here and the men who have  commented/replied to my posts regarding a provider breaking my heart have been nothing but kind and supportive, and also firm with me when needed to slap some sense in to me.  But they have never been unkind.  So far....

Your post demonstrates that you are, indeed, a class act.  And very easy on the eyes, if I might add.