jmichaeliii Posted November 27, 2023 Share Posted November 27, 2023 I had a really frustrating scenario on my last trip to Vegas. I found Casey Everett's profile and reached out a few weeks before my trip to see if something could be set up. He was really nice and accommodating even confirming the day before our meeting. Then on the day of, no response and he no shows me. I sent him a short message basically saying I thought it was not cool to no show and not even let me know he could not make it. He then blocked me. I guess he has enough money because if we hit it off, that could have been 4 visits a year toward his income. JourneysEnd, Jarrod_Uncut, peter831 and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted November 27, 2023 Share Posted November 27, 2023 That's unfortunate. Unifrtunately, there is no way to avoid providers doing that to clients or clients doing that to providers. That's just the way it is. acks0104, marylander1940, + Pensant and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acks0104 Posted November 27, 2023 Share Posted November 27, 2023 I doubt it has anything to do with him being well known. A lot of people out there just don't have respect for others or consider following through important. If you want to avoid flakes and cancellations, it's always a good idea to go with guys who have already been well vetted by others here. Otherwise you just have to understand that you're going to come across guys who aren't always going to follow through. MikeBiDude, + Axiom2001, marylander1940 and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutherland Posted November 27, 2023 Share Posted November 27, 2023 12 hours ago, jmichaeliii said: I guess he has enough money because if we hit it off, that could have been 4 visits a year toward his income. The same thing happened to me in Las Vegas, but with Derek Atlas. I set up a first-time session with him and he did not show up; I never contacted him again. I lived close to Vegas at that time so that could have been 4 visits (or more) a year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmichaeliii Posted November 27, 2023 Author Share Posted November 27, 2023 That's a shame. I was lucky enough to find someone I had a great time with and will definitely book again and again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 14 hours ago, jmichaeliii said: He was really nice and accommodating even confirming the day before our meeting. Then on the day of, no response and he no shows me Yup. Had the same experience with Casey and also Vadim Black. Very nice and easy going to set up the appointment but then total silence the day of the appointment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viewing ownly Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 Perhaps trying to set something up too far ahead of time is what creates the disappointment. There's a provider in Vegas (who I saw once and will never repeat) who told me he didn't appreciate that I scheduled a day ahead of time, and it would have been in my best interest to contact him same day. I personally thought that was crazy. Same day appointments to me are disrespectful of the provider's time. It screams "I'm horny, and I want you right now." TorontoDrew, acks0104, Your Man in Arlington and 3 others 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmichaeliii Posted November 28, 2023 Author Share Posted November 28, 2023 I always wonder if that is an issue. When I know I am traveling for work, I like to try and have something lined up. Working one now for next week..will see how it works out. TorontoDrew, Your Man in Arlington and pubic_assistance 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, viewing ownly said: Perhaps trying to set something up too far ahead of time is what creates the disappointment. There's a provider in Vegas (who I saw once and will never repeat) who told me he didn't appreciate that I scheduled a day ahead of time, and it would have been in my best interest to contact him same day. I personally thought that was crazy. Same day appointments to me are disrespectful of the provider's time. It screams "I'm horny, and I want you right now." 3 hours ago, jmichaeliii said: I always wonder if that is an issue. When I know I am traveling for work, I like to try and have something lined up. Working one now for next week..will see how it works out. For me, I understand the desire for same day or advanced notice bookings. However I do mention in my ads and websites what I “prefer”. Like I took a same day notice request the other day on Black Friday and it was okay, but the guy also reached out to me last month so I was on his radar. He sent deposit, contacted for a time and we met a few hours later. Not as early as he wanted but, I did mention same day bookings I often prefer flexibility. I know some escorts only want “right here, right now”, but…not everyone has the same scheduling model. I can be the right here, right now guy at times, but I try to convey to people that it’s best to reach me a day or 2 before. Or at least 1 to 2 hours if it’s same day. I’m not waiting around-round the clock, looking to get picked up. I even address “available now” on my website and what it means to me: I’m available to PLAN a time today. Doesn’t mean I’m actually ready to meet right in that very moment. I would say vast majority of my appointments this year have all been planned with at least a day to a couple hours in advance. Edited November 28, 2023 by Jarrod_Uncut pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 What I assume happens in this case is one of two things. Either one of the provider's regulars wants to meet up and they go with them instead of you. Or if you have a one hour time slot booked say on a Saturday night and someone messages them for a multi hour session or overnight they'll go for the bigger payday instead of honoring your appt. Your Man in Arlington and + Pensant 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 12 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: What I assume happens in this case is one of two things. Either one of the provider's regulars wants to meet up and they go with them instead of you. Or if you have a one hour time slot booked say on a Saturday night and someone messages them for a multi hour session or overnight they'll go for the bigger payday instead of honoring your appt. Or it could be something more sinister…maybe the person said or did something that turned the provider off (not saying in this case). Or the provider could just be on bullshit and not taking clients seriously. I know for me, I can’t wait around to figure it all out. Sometimes even if I seem busy and clients assume I’m with other clients it’s not always true. There could be any number of things going on in my schedule not related to this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 The 20-somethings in Vegas are most likely more interested in their OF business and are using Rentmen to drum up interest. I unfortunately have to be in that awful city for two nights next week. I reached out to a few, but no responses. I look at it as saving money for my next Jack Valor experience! Jarrod_Uncut 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmichaeliii Posted November 28, 2023 Author Share Posted November 28, 2023 I met up with Jose during my last trip. Fantastic experience. jLuis on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 Stars? MikeBiDude and TorontoDrew 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Stars? Porn stars maybe? Casey Everett is a porn star anyway. I've had a few similar-ish experiences of porn starts cancelling last minute. I think the risk is if they are called onto a shoot where they'll make $1000, they're not going to worry about your hundreds. I had a guy basically say exactly that to me. I don't take it personal. Jarrod_Uncut 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmichaeliii Posted November 28, 2023 Author Share Posted November 28, 2023 I would have been Ok with that, but is it too much to ask him to send a text and say something came up, sorry I can't make it? Maybe we could have connected later. TorontoDrew and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 This highlights a problem for some sex workers: Just because you are your own boss doesn't mean that you should run your business without regard to the satisfaction of your customers. Given that scheduling is in the hands of the provider, he can easily set parameters such as "I only take same day appointments" or "I do not take same day appointments." The only valid excuse for making an appointment that you neither keep nor explicitly cancel in advance is incapacitation. And it isn't difficult to text someone to cancel or reschedule, so simply ghosting someone makes no sense unless one really doesn't care about one's reputation. peter831 and Simon Suraci 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted November 28, 2023 Share Posted November 28, 2023 2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Stars? I thought this thread was about a cloudy night sky. Evidently not… jonnychgo, + Pensant and CuriousByNature 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted November 30, 2023 Share Posted November 30, 2023 He’s clearly a time waster. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted December 1, 2023 Share Posted December 1, 2023 If a provider doesn't respond to me, that's his prerogative. And it's my prerogative to place him on my "unreliable" list and never text him again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted December 1, 2023 Share Posted December 1, 2023 On 11/27/2023 at 9:17 PM, viewing ownly said: Perhaps trying to set something up too far ahead of time is what creates the disappointment. There's a provider in Vegas (who I saw once and will never repeat) who told me he didn't appreciate that I scheduled a day ahead of time, and it would have been in my best interest to contact him same day. I personally thought that was crazy. Same day appointments to me are disrespectful of the provider's time. It screams "I'm horny, and I want you right now." I never do same day appointments. It would be like going to the supermarket and going through the checkout with my purchase. I like some texting back and forth, particularly with a first time date, and him having the opportunity to read my profile and me thinking about him in anticipation. I have the impression those providers who only do same days are just treating their clients like so much merchandise. Get in in and get it out. Jarrod_Uncut 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted December 1, 2023 Share Posted December 1, 2023 17 minutes ago, Luv2play said: . It would be like going to the supermarket and going through the checkout with my purchase. What does this mean? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted December 1, 2023 Share Posted December 1, 2023 18 minutes ago, Luv2play said: I have the impression those providers who only do same days are just treating their clients like so much merchandise. Get in in and get it out. I say ATMs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted December 1, 2023 Share Posted December 1, 2023 2 minutes ago, Archangel said: I say ATMs You just answered your own question to me. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted December 1, 2023 Share Posted December 1, 2023 11 hours ago, Luv2play said: I like some texting back and forth, particularly with a first time date, and him having the opportunity to read my profile and me thinking about him in anticipation. I also request a phone call before meeting a first-time provider to establish a rapport. It works superbly well. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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