1st time bottom at 50 yrs old

[Whatsupandstuff]

hello everyone 

asking for a friend

any recommendations for a top notch patient provider in NYC (of nationwide if the provider is highly recommended) for  1st time middle aged man who wants to try bottoming? Would really like some advice. 

Have a wonderful weekend

Edited June 16, 2023 by Whatsupandstuff

[+ robear]

Hi WUAS, a locale would help to get answers.

[+ nycman]

24 minutes ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

asking for a friend

[marylander1940]

35 minutes ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

hello everyone 

asking for a friend

any recommendations for a top notch patient provider for  1st time middle aged man who wants to try bottoming? Would really like some advice. 

Have a wonderful weekend

Try a dildo first. 

[SirBillybob]

2 hours ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

any recommendations for a top notch patient provider for  1st time middle aged man who wants to try bottoming?

I can be middle-aged again? The first time in that range is not the last time?😉

Edited June 16, 2023 by SirBillybob

[edinbrooklyn]

52 minutes ago, SirBillybob said:

I can be middle-aged again? 😏

My thought exactly! Dude is selling himself a bit short.

[marylander1940]

1 hour ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

hello everyone 

asking for a friend

any recommendations for a top notch patient provider in NYC (of nationwide if the provider is highly recommended) for  1st time middle aged man who wants to try bottoming? Would really like some advice. 

Have a wonderful weekend

Here a list of tops in NYC or visiting that city soon with dicks smaller than 7 inches.

For the record, some might lie about their size for advertising reasons. In YOUR case less would be more!

[SirBillybob]

20 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Hear a list of tops in NYC or visiting that city soon with dicks smaller than 7 inches.

Clever. You just fractured my funny bone. I am rolling on the floor! 😂

Edited June 16, 2023 by SirBillybob

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, edinbrooklyn said:

My thought exactly! Dude is selling himself a bit short.

To me middle aged is between 50 and 65. After that you are definitely senior. 

Some guys age poorly and are middle aged at 40. 

[+ Charlie]

When I was 17, I thought 40-60 was middle aged. When I was 40, I thought middle age began at 50. Now I think of anyone under 60 as young.

[+ Charlie]

BTW, no matter what fantasies you may have about getting fucked by a young stud, for your first time you will be better off with an experienced top who is at least 35.

[CuriousByNature]

2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

To me middle aged is between 50 and 65. After that you are definitely senior. 

Some guys age poorly and are middle aged at 40. 

I consider Middle Aged to be anywhere between the Fall of Rome and the Renaissance

[+ Jamie21]

First time bottom at 50…what’s taken you so long? 

Pick an older versatile guy. Regardless of his size he will know how to break you in, and if he’s vers he’ll know what feels good and what feels less good. 

 

[mike carey]

24 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

First time bottom at 50…what’s taken you so long?

Not everyone tries things when they are young. I was older than this before I did anything and it wasn't with a skilled partner. I'm glad I found this forum, it's given me a degree of confidence I'd lacked. It hasn't calmed my nerves with new meets but that's a separate issue and I've had fun.

[edinbrooklyn]

2 minutes ago, mike carey said:

Not everyone tries things when they are young. I was older than this before I did anything and it wasn't with a skilled partner. I'm glad I found this forum, it's given me a degree of confidence I'd lacked. It hasn't calmed my nerves with new meets but that's a separate issue and I've had fun.

Here’s to later in life bloomers!

[CuriousByNature]

27 minutes ago, edinbrooklyn said:

Here’s to later in life bloomers!

I doubt anyone on this forum is as late a bloomer as me.  I don't even have any buds yet, let alone blooms!

[edinbrooklyn]

I’m so old I first got laid in the back of a chariot! Joan R.

Quite the swords and sandals fantasy.

[MuscleDaddyRWC]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

First time bottom at 50…what’s taken you so long?

My tax guy was a top until around 55.  Then he found the joy of bottoming and hasn't looked back.

I'd like to do the same but my hole isn't cooperating...with toys anyway. 

[+ Jamie21]

51 minutes ago, MuscleDaddyRWC said:

My tax guy was a top until around 55.  Then he found the joy of bottoming and hasn't looked back.

I'd like to do the same but my hole isn't cooperating...with toys anyway. 

Probably because everyone likes to fuck a tax guy 😉.

 

[jeezifonly]

If your body is used to a series of cues from the regular sensors of pleasure, you first need to awaken those neglected sensors on the back porch. Light touch. Massage. Pinching. Cheeks, taint, hole - wake it all up to happy sensation so you can actually enjoy the hunger for more. 
Find a local masseur who includes erotic. Ask him for session that focuses on glutes and ass pleasure. Best experiences bottoming include the build up of needing a dick inside. 

[dbar123]

For a first timer, it’s not the length that matters as much as the girth. You will want someone with a max diameter no more than 5 inches. Unfortunately that’s not a spec featured on Rentmen

[+ purplekow]

4 hours ago, MuscleDaddyRWC said:

My tax guy was a top until around 55.  Then he found the joy of bottoming and hasn't looked back.

I'd like to do the same but my hole isn't cooperating...with toys anyway. 

 

Well in some positions you need to look back to see who is fucking you.  

I rarely bottom but the first time I tried I hired a very experienced porn top though he also bottomed to my great pleasure.  Parker Williams for those who recall his handsome face and hairy muscular body.  I was over 50.  He was very patient and content to move slowly but I got impatient and demanded:  "Just shove it in already."  My advice, don't do that.    In all the years that have intervened, I still have difficulty relaxing and accepting and as a result I rarely go there.

Edited June 17, 2023 by purplekow

[+ purplekow]

Parker Williams.  Not his best foto. 6 2. 200 lbs.  and packing  I hope hhe is doing well

Edited June 17, 2023 by purplekow

[+ GoingGood]

Yes find an experienced top, and remember you must communicate as to what feels good and what hurts.   Sometimes it’s just a matter of finding the right position, so a patient top will work with you until you get things in the right spot.  Hope you enjoy.