AngusStevensxxx

I have a request for trip with a private dungeon or with sling room - Cities requested - Nashville, Atlanta or Vegas. (although there may be room to navigate to other places) I've done some preliminary research but hoping my homeboys here can help me out with some inside knowledge so I can make this client happy!

Another inaccuracies/scaremongering- cashapp is anonymous and you can use any name you like for it - the provider who receives payment will know your cashapp profile name ONLY which can be literally anything you want - including something like crazy like "josh282282". As confident as you are posting under that handle - you can feel just as confident sending money through cashapp under the same handle. No one can track down your information like that and extort you. It is a very safe way to send small amounts of money.

I think the OP posed a more unique question - 'how can we make it safer?', rather than 'should we or shouldn't we?'. The question requires a bit more nuanced discussion that has gone over many repliers.

What a disappointing reply from a faceless, anonymous poster. I choose to believe your heart is in the right place and I loathe to get into a tit-for-tat but I do have to point out some inaccuracies in your post. Do you ever get called out to strangers addresses to attend inside someones house or apartment all on your own? Do you ever have to give out your address to patients? Do you ever get asked to go inside hotel lobbies wearing bow ties and wait for the client to greet you? Do you take bookings from anonymous style profiles on rentmen? Congratulations on your alleged, very prestigious profession - But you are not put in vulnerable position that we are. We are certainly not the same providers, but IF you are a doctor, the only commonality is that we both help people. I pay a deposit to make advance booking with my I go to my hairdresser (which I go to monthly) I pay deposits when I book hotels I pay deposits to advance bookings at restaurants. Here in NYC I even paid a deposit to book seats at a cocktail bar just this month! ('Overstory' if anyone gets the chance to go there - the drinks are INCREDIBLE) I am having tattoo removal (silly decisions when I was a teenager) and guess what ? The clinic takes my cc details and charges me a no-show fee when I book the advance appointment! You are correct that all professions have no-shows, but the scale at which we are inundated with fake calls and no shows is astounding. Including from some people who post here on these forums. I think you may have missed the part where I mention I offer options for clients who -for whatever reason - are uncomfortable with deposits: message me on the day and if I am available we can make an appointment. But I will not hold a spot for someone who I have never met, from a google voice phone number, or random RM account - who professes to be willing to spend hundreds of dollars but will not commit to send $20 to lock it down. Just like your 'I'm a doctor so my posts has weight' lacks credibility - so does these types of booking requests. Check out my rentmen profile - check out my twitter. I put my name behind my words, which in my view gives it some weight. Telling people to "Do not listen to the above escort." as if I am going to scam them is pretty rude and I take great offense to it. I am a geniune, kind and trustworthy person - I have proven myself, and have the reviews to back it up. How does this protect me from fake bookings, prank bookings and no-shows again? (rhetorical question because the answer is: It doesn't.) But thank you for that very unhelpful advice! Once again -somebody who professes to be willing to spend hundreds of dollars but will not commit to send $20 to lock it down lacks credibility. Finally - I am glad you profess to love & respect us. This post you just made didn't feel really respectful and loving. It actually made me feel the very opposite.

Provider here: All of these things are just common sense. These are good standard rules to live by! - except rule #3 which is unreasonable in my view. (There would be no way to verify the ID they show you is genuine anyway, but - to each their own.) My discretion is something I value really highly and I give my clients the exact same respect in return. Let me explain why I have deposit requirements: The amount of last minute cancelations I have had, the amount of times I have been booked for fake appointments and gone to hotels only to have the client magically stop replying when I am only one block away, have made it impossible for me to work without a deposit from clients I have not met. This happened once to me 7 times in a row btw: Either fake booking or last minute cancel. It has meant I have had no choice but to either quit or implement a deposit policy, but I try to make it as easy, safe and discreet as possible. My policy is - if you want an advance booking: You can send deposit by cash app (anonymous + private) or Venmo (anonymous + private) I only require a small deposit - can be as little as $20-$50. whatever amount you are comfortable with, just send something to show me you are legit and serious. I have over 50 positive reviews, you can contact the reviewers, you can see my pics, my address, etc. If despite all that that you are STILL uncomfortable with deposits, that is totally OK, I get it and totally understand peoples hesitation - some clients are in the closet or married, maybe they have a job that could be jeopardized and requires higher level of discretion, and after all you do read the horror stories here from people who send deposits of $1000s to providers with wonderful photos and no reviews, - there could be a multitude of reasons why they do not feel comfortable with deposits - you can still just message me on the day of the appointment- and if I am still available, we can get together and we WILL have a fun time. The clients that are not comfortable with doing Venmo/cashapp - they more often than not still message me on the day, so I have found this system works well for these clients too. If they don't message, it's not a problem as I haven't cleared my calendar or refused other potential bookings. If you send me a deposit - I do then refuse to accept any other bookings in that time slot. If you don't send a deposit and I keep the spot for you and you then cancel last minute - I am left in the red and its just not a viable way to conduct business. Since I implemented this system it has weeded out almost all of my cancelations, and actually increased my bookings. Just to note- I get that people are worried about scams - as they should be - but you may not be aware that: Providers get contacted by scammers EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. We get contacted by pranksters EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. We get contacted by time wasters who are literally jerking off while metaphorically jerking us around EVERY. SINGLE. DAY! Just today I have been contacted three by fake accounts saying "I want to send you cheques just give me your bank details!" (of course they don't open with that, but they waste our time chatting first, usually pretending to want a multi hour booking). When scammers contact us pretending to be clients - we have no choice but to reply as initially, we can not tell the difference between a genuine enquiry and a false lead. A client who says that they are willing to spend a few hundred dollars on a provider who has many reviews - but won't spend $20 on a deposit to lock it down - unfortunately lacks credibility. I have proven to you I am real, authentic and genuine, a small Venmo or Uber allows you to do the same! We really put ourselves out there and asking for a minimal deposit is not a stretch too far. To surmise- The OP gives really good advice. Take it! The post is not about 'are deposit good or not', but how to do harm reduction and I think the points raised are wise and are super sensible - but of course there will be a chorus of anonymous profiles shouting "no deposits! scammers!" I would bet the farm a good deal of them like to be able to cancel last minute! Have fun out there guys! Be Kind!

Thanks - will find that and check it out. If anyone else has a friend or can give me a referral here please do!

Hi guys - I am kind of new to NYC and I am looking for a female provider to work with. I am bi and I get request for bi/straight couple sessions and I don't have anyone on hand I can message to work with - so looking for someone reliable that can help out. If anyone knows of any female providers that they can put me in touch with : please reach out! AngusStevensxxx - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - AngusStevensxxx: Blue Eyed Aussie in NYC - over 47...

I don't think the OP was referring to real cancelations - life does happen - but people who are contacting with zero intention of making it to a booking - essentially leading him on with sex talk with the promise of a booking that is never going to eventuate.

I have had an instance where 7 bookings in a row were canceled last minute - from plain ghosting to medical emergencies, my girlfriend stole my bank card- someone even said their dog ran away at the dog park that morning. A big red flag would be the amount of time this 'client' has spent talking to you adn sexting you - Serious clients do not do that. Because of this: if i have not met you before and you want to book in advance, I need a deposit. I have both Venmo and cashapp set up in private and anonymous settings - nickname rather than real name, so very secure. They can send a deposit as little as $20, just *something* to show me they are serious. I have almost 50 5-star reviews, and have given them photos of my face, my very butthole, my dick, my address - if they can't send me even $10 to lock an appointment down they are not serious. I can understand some guys are on the DL or just nervous about deposits (which is why I set up non-traceable and private methods to do so) and if they are still nervous that is totally OK - if clients do not want to send small deposits, they can contact me on the day - and if I am still available we can make it work! I know it can be disheartening when you put so much of yourself out there and are a genuine guy and you get treated like this. It's not fair, but don't be discouraged. I encourage you to download the app "mr.number' and search for every number that contacts you - as well as leave reviews on that app for clients who do this to you also. I wish sites like COM would allow us to have a feature like this for usernames on RM but they don't. The sheer volume of guys who contact providers to string them along and waste their time is staggering - I almost left the business as a result when I had 7 in a row - had book hotels and extended my stay and everything- luckily I got an overnight and they covered my costs - but i left even. Since my 'deposit for future bookings policy' that issue has dropped for me significantly and it hasn't hindered my bookings. ( I had a recent trip to Austin where I let the policy slide and what do you know? every day I had no show/cancelations!) You will learn to pick the scammers too - which is a DAILY occurrence - We unfortunately MUST engage with these people as when they first reach out we can;t distinguish whether they are real or not - but just have some vetting set up. it ruins it for everyone as it can come across rude or unwelcomeing, finding the right balance can be tricky! For the pople who are antideposit : Clients on these boards complain about scammers setting up ads- they are able to quickly remove them and I always say - use common sense never send a deposit to a new profile with no or few reviews! never send a large amount. I hope my advice helps!

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Anyone know why Rentmen won't allow clients to read the comments in reviews or see the rates posted? I know clients can use a VPN to see this but I have found when clients can read the comments previous clients have left me it helps me out a lot.

Yesterday I received enquires via text from 13 people, and 8 others through the rentmen website - texting back and forth for varying amounts of time. There was 3 bookings made as a result of this - one which never showed up, and then the other two cancelled within 30 minutes of their arrival time, after I had showered prepared for them. One message conversation was "hi are you available" I replied within 3 minutes "hi! thanks for reaching out. yes I am available today." That was the end of the conversation no other message was sent. However, most conversations are longer - One client today had a long chat (over 57 text messages confirming address, availability, rates, a video chat to confirm I had sent real photos, discussion of wants/needs/desires for bookings, locations, payment types etc. this started at 10am and went off and on all day until This client then cancelled the booking 30 minutes before he was due to arrive and he said he was in another state and now not coming to NYC for another month. So that is roughly 20 enquires a day - which means I average I am chatting with roughly 140 people a week - MOST of whom have zero interest in making bookings, but instead get pleasure from simply engaging with providers. (This also does not include the amount of scammers that contact us DAILY as well.) I think distinguishing who is genuine and who is not is probably the hardest part of this job. connecting with people and having sensual encounters are the easy and fun part. What happened to me today is not unusual - it is the norm, so I guess it makes us wary of who we can give our energy too until we meet, I know for sure the original poster would find that when clients and provider meet - every text after is fine! yeah Rentmen has had an issue with this that has been effecting both provider and clients- and it sounds like the issue has 'driven you crazy too!'. I think when we list the dates of travel as say for eg 1/12 - 1/15, it goes by Hamburg time, not the local time that is in that particular city the provider is in, as the rentmen website is based from there. So we set the travel dates , and then the site is not reflecting that date in real time - adding to the amount of 'double questions' we receive I guess. I agree the reply you have written is much much better than the one you were sent. Apparently the new version of the website will be more clear and not leave profiles listed up in cities once the provider has left that city. I'm sorry that the providers you have dealt with have been so short and rude with you. Hopefully this particular issue is rectified now the site has been updated to minis that! I probably shouldn't have answered in this thread - I had just been advised of this forum and wanted to make a few posts so no one uses my name has a handle - and my comments were meant as friendly advice to get better results for you guys (and us)!

not rules - just friendly advice! 😃

As a provider I can say this - we receive MANY MANY MANY messages daily and very few from actual clients and there are a few ways for us to spot the time wasters and fakes - I have spent 8 hours in one day interacting with fakes. 1. they have not read the stats in our profile. "How big are you? Where in the city are you? Do you host or do in calls? Do you top?" All of this information is listed on my profile - by asking this it shows me you have not bothered to read it why means you are not serious. If I am spending this amounts of money I would read the profile. its a HUGE red flag. you will get a short reply "Check the details on my profile!" 2. Asking what city am I in. This drives me crazy - when traveling the RM site LISTS THE DATES. I like to advertise 2 weeks before I travel to a city - but people do not bother to even look at the travel dates when clicking the profile. often I will put "DC - 3rd/4th/5th" and people will message and then we go to lock in address and it is in DC and it is the 1st and I am in NYC. 3. Messaging asking "What are you into?" when you are contacting a provider and you are paying for a service - you should be telling us what YOU are into. I enjoy a WIDE range of activities and am very sexual - that's why I do this job! I do not have the time to list *EVERY* thing that turns me on. Tell us what you are looking for so we can save you time as well. 4. Rates? the amount if times you get a one two word message is really shocking. you will get a more attentive reply with "Hi there- saw you add on RM, was wondering about your rates? Im interested!" instead of 'Rates?" The BEST first messages have a few things in them - include your name. That you saw our add on rentmen. briefly say what you are looking for, and rough estimate of time you are looking for, where you are located if it is an incall you are wanting. SIMPLE! For eg. Hello Angus, I hope you are well. I saw your profile on Rentmen. I am in lower east side, and am looking for a bottom who likes to kiss. Is there a time you are available tonight, and what are your outcall rates? This shows me that you have seen are looking for something and it matches my profile. gives me a time, a place, and a name. It will grab my attention.