Contacted the provider and he responded promptly. He had some trouble accommodating my original timing request and kindly offered some additional dates and times that worked for his schedule. We agreed on a later date and time, and when I went to confirm the appointment and location the night before, I asked about the scope of services and methods of payment, stating I was looking for something sensual. He stated he only did “professional.” I ended up canceling the appointment because our respective expectations for the services provided and cost did not match.
I’m a bit annoyed because he tried giving me a hard time about my request, saying that I should have said something sooner and that I’d be depriving him of money. I told him I wouldn’t be bullied into spending money on something that wasn’t what I wanted, and he shared equal blame for not setting expectations sooner. I also told him that it was way better to have the discussion well in advance than an awkward interaction in person.