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robear

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  1. I don't think that kind of nasty comment directed to a provider is necessary or appropriate in this forum.
  2. As is often discussed, "sensual" and "erotic" are vague terms that can mean many different things in practice. An advertiser might change his ad for lots of reasons, including managing expectations of prospective clients. However, if you're an experienced client with a provider, and the service provided has changed, why not simply ask? It seems a case where actual communication would be better than assuming or making up stories about what has happened, there could be erroneous assumptions on both sides. An honest exchange might either improve your relationship with the provider, or allow you decide not to come back to him.
  3. I've had one (and only one) masseur begin with me on my back, working from top and bottom to center and the happy ending in the first part of the massage. Then with that great relaxation in effect, over and onto the back etc. Although very unusual, it makes sense in that the effect is to produce an almost coma-like state.
  4. Not scientific, but my impression is that circ is rare in Asian cultures, except for Muslim groups. Asian body types often have short foreskins, you rarely see the long, overhanging skins of some men from other cultures (African, Latin, European, etc.), so it's often not particularly apparent.
  5. Seems to be pretty clear, what is the question?
  6. robear

    HPV

    To echo BN above, the reason for the age limit associated with the vax is the assumption that any sexually active person of an age (and we know that SOME of us have bodycounts in the thousands!) will already have been exposed to the virus in some of its many forms. The original impetus was to vax teenagers before they become sexually active, although that age consideration has been revised upward. You might begin by asking your doctor for an antibodies test to see if you're already positive. I believe that if so, they will also analyze what strains of the virus you carry, only a few are problematic. Better yet, take up the whole matter with a clinician informed of men's STIs and whether the vax might be useful for you.
  7. That's his porn site, try allensi.com for more info about his services. He has always presented as an escort, masseur and sacred intimate. I have seen him many times for massage and he's quite good at it. Before each massage he asks if you want anal touch (clear and above-board). If yes, at that point in the massage he dons a latex glove and uses actual lube for that part, which I really appreciate because it puts the client in charge of his own experience, and maximizes comfort and hygiene. Again, he's really good at it, but it wouldn't entail anything else except by advance arrangement for a "play date."
  8. Congratulations of your evolving sense of self and your sexuality. Enjoy the ride. LOL There's some great advice offered on this thread, especially around focusing your specific needs, and your own health and safety. I'd add a caution not to load too many expectations on any single encounter. Enjoying sex with male partners is a skill you need to learn, just as you had to learn to be with women. It doesn't come fully formed, and no encounter, paid or otherwise, is going to fulfill all your fantasies. Arrange a meet, see it through, and learn what worked and didn't. As the cliche goes, it a journey, not a destination.
  9. Pasta Grannies Elderly homecooks in Italy, usually preparing homemade pasta dishes. A lifetime of skill and experience in those hands. Chinese Cooking Demystified Steph+Chris, he's American, she's Chinese, both are adorable. Currently based in Thailand, deep dive into the hows why and wheres of Chinese regional cooking. Souped Up Recipes Simplified Chinese home cooking for the western kitchen Pailins Kitchen Pailin Chongchitnant, beautiful and charming, demos authentic Thai home cooking Not Another Cooking Show Stephen Cusato, bro-ish scion of a cooking family, wonky deconstructions of complicated cooking Orsara Recipes Pasquale Sciarappa, retired Italian chef from old country. Demos straightforward and simple Italian home cooking from NJ My Name Is Andong Arseny Knaifel, adorable Russian-Jewish-German cub based in Berlin does deep dives into world dishes that interest him. Not as active on YT as he used to be, but there's a lot of back content there. I'll stop now.
  10. That is true. Not necessarily for injectables, perhaps. However, I think for men "aroused" is a continuum, not an absolute state. A guy may not be sexually into his partner, but still can be stimulated, especially if he's in the right head space and has a talent for performance. Vitamin V can help that along.
  11. I suspect every college campus in the world still has a GH at the last stall from the door on the third floor of the library. College boys will always want their cock sucked anonymously between classes and that's just more efficient than anything else. Straight(ish) boys probably don't want any kind of face-to-face grindr meet just to get their knob slobbered. There's plenty of old-timey bathroom cruising out there in some places, as evidenced by tons of online video content shot with phones. (OMG that that should have existed when I did such things ...) But the whole culture of street cruising that flourished in moreorless the 70s-00s (bookstores, rest stops, alleyways, parks, etc etc) has passed.
  12. Have to agree with the "how would you know"s, except perhaps a Trimix injection would happen at the time of the meet. In any case, it would say to me the gentleman of the hour is thoughtful and deliberate about providing his best experience to me as a client. I'd count that very much a plus, this site abounds with stories of indifferent providers just looking for quick cash.
  13. I don't know how any of this works, but in regards to the provider, perhaps you could contact him via the same channel you booked him and explain briefly that you intended a gratuity that didn't go through, how can you get it to him? He'll likely appreciate a Venmo or whatever, but it's his choice.
  14. His ad copy suggests his English is rudimentary at best. I guess something things don't need language, but pre-arrangements might be limited.
  15. Just guessing, but PS is a really saturated market. RM alone has 126 advertisers, plus a few dozen more nearby, and of course PS is a frequent stopover for traveling providers. Supply and demand.
  16. Looks great, hope to visit some day
  17. But have you gotten responses to that on OF? The OF platform TOS police know exactly what that means, too, and it's what they are looking for. If the CC responds at all he could be banned. Better to DM on Twitter, Insta, etc.
  18. A note on contact via Only Fans (not JFF or any of the others), as I understand it the platform enforces a strict policy against any discussion via messaging of in-person meets with content creators. If the CC even replies to tell you that, they could lose their account and any money due them, without recourse. I've read many tales of woe online (mostly by women) where CCs have been banned without warning because of a relatively innocent chat. You might want to take discreet inquiries to other social media platforms.
  19. I assume the ad sites collect and verify accurate ID info from advertisers, primarily to be sure the site gets paid for the ad. This would include legal name and address, DOB, citizenship, CC info, etc. All of that is behind the scenes. What goes IN the ad is up to the advertiser. Parsing ads for inconsistencies seems silly, they probably could be found on every ad there and are of no concern to the site.
  20. There's always a "cat and mouse" aspect of erotic massage, to me it's why it's fun. A lot of providers will recoil from too many explicit "do you do this, do you do that" inquiries, especially from a new unknown client. If that's what you want, escort service is what you're seeking, at appropriate rates. As has been attested here many times, repeat visits with a masseur you click with often improves the experience, as provider and client both get to know each other's boundaries and expectations. Loading a lot of expectations on a first, possibly one-off, visit will often lead to frustration.
  21. Agree that Pasha is an excellent masseur, the real deal. He has noticeably put on muscle in the past few years and really looks great. See him for the massage and eye candy, not for any extras because there won't be any.
  22. With his ad taken down so soon after your meet, it seems likely the provider had already decided to leave "the business," for reasons unknown to us, and having nothing to do with you. He might simply have not wanted to keep the appointment but didn't have the kishkes to flat-out cancel. That doesn't justify behavior, of course, but might be of some comfort that you simply engaged the wrong escort at the wrong time, and your interaction was collateral damage to his life choices in the moment. Chalk yet another one up to experience.
  23. Small metallic implants under the skin of the penis are called Yakuza beads, among other names. They may not be featured often by providers, but are not that unusual among fetish players. Like all piercing/genital mod styles, they are used to heighten sensation and focus attention on the goods. In some configurations they may provide an enhanced sensation to a bottom sex partner. Think ribbed dildoes or sleeves.
  24. Hi Ziggy, welcome to the forum!! Erotic interaction for money is illegal in NYC and almost all parts of the US. A business openly facilitating such a thing is likely to be raided and its staff prosecuted. Discretion is a virtue for posters on this public message board describing private interactions, which I think you'll see if you read some of this very long thread. To the point, there is no business in NYC where a customer "can expect" more than the legitimate massage he's paying for.
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