What are your red flags?

[marylander1940]

7 minutes ago, Archangel said:

@marylander1940, you just need to stop being a shameless apologist for escorts. 

I didn't know I was perceived that way. Thank you for your feedback! 

They (providers) versus us (clients)! 

 

Edited September 19, 2024 by marylander1940

[Archangel]

8 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Thank you for your feedback! 

Happy to oblige. Hopefully it produces a change in behavior 😉 

[marylander1940]

8 hours ago, Archangel said:

Happy to oblige. Hopefully it produces a change in behavior 😉 

They versus us... Sad!

Please point from now on when am I biased towards them.

Happy to be their "apologist"!

We should walk on someone else's shoes! 

Edited September 20, 2024 by marylander1940

[+ nycman]

7 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

We should walk on someone else's shoes! 

I’m not sure if this was intentional or not, but it is damn funny!

[marylander1940]

7 minutes ago, nycman said:

I’m not sure if this was intentional or not, but it is damn funny!

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Poor grammar and/or the use of the terms VIP, serious only, generous, upscale, exclusive, etc. make me pass.

[GentJ]

On 10/1/2025 at 5:05 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

Poor grammar and/or the use of the terms VIP, serious only, generous, upscale, exclusive, etc. make me pass.

Poor grammar? Well there goes like 80% or RentMen 🤣

That said, I just wanna call out that the RM chat app doesn't auto capitalize for some reason, at least on Android. Anyone else notice that? Sometimes I just can't be bothered to fix it.  

[+ poolboy48220]

On 10/1/2025 at 5:05 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

Poor grammar and/or the use of the terms VIP, serious only, generous, upscale, exclusive, etc. make me pass.

A local provider's ad name is "RUTheBank". Nope, pass on that one.

[SthJrsy]

When someone texts "Hello" and then nothing else. I don't know why but the follow up is never good. Or just says "rates?". Or when your ad contains your hours, location  and pricing and they waste your time by asking all of those things and then don't bother to respond to you. We are still humans, have a little bit of respect.....

Also, I wish potential clients were a little more discreet. I am licensed. So the moment you ask me something that can potentially risk my license, I can't take you as a client. Had you just booked the massage, you'd probably get what you wanted.

[+ DrownedBoy]

When an escort starts arguing over what they will and won't do after you made an appointment.

Cancel. Immediately. Haggling providers are as annoying as haggling clients.

[SecretProvider]

asking me questions that are already on my add. 

 

best example - "Host?"

it clearly states on my profile I host. 

 

it shows they just are not serious,  they haven't even read your profile. 

one word messages in themselves are also red flags.  It's rentmen, not grindr.