What % of the time do you providers have actual sex with your clients?

[MeatHead]

Escorting is not always about sex for all we know. But percentage of the time do you actually have anal sex? 

[misterhumphries]

3 hours ago, nycboi said:

Escorting is not always about sex for all we know. But percentage of the time do you actually have anal sex? 

I'd be interested to know, too. An escort on top of his game knows that the brain is the largest sex organ.  I've always believed a skilled, sensual escort knows what buttons to push to keep a client happy without necessarily going all the way. This theory excludes hungry, exclusive bottoms who only want their booties stretched.

[Keenan]

For a one hour appoint probably about 25% of the time or about 20-25 minutes would be anal based on my experiences.

Keenan

[MeatHead]

4 hours ago, Keenan said:

For a one hour appoint probably about 25% of the time or about 20-25 minutes would be anal based on my experiences.

Keenan

But are most apponts anal? 

[JTtorretto]

[This is prolly the most fascinating question / topic Ive seen posted]
 

15% 

[+ Jamie21]

16.34% of sessions 

 

[+ Pensant]

As a client, roughly 90%.

[+ nycman]

I’m confused about the question.

Is it…

A) what percentage of hires involve anal sex?

Or is it

B) what percentage of the time is spent with actual fucking?

To answer both questions as a client….A) 100% and B) 99%.

(but everyone knew that already….didn’t they?….grin)

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[DWnyc]

Are we only defining “actual sex” as “anal”?

And re anal, the follow up question then is something like:

- what % of the time are you as a client disappointed / feel short changed etc

Not sure what the equivalent question would be for a provider. 

[MikeBiDude]

1 minute ago, DWnyc said:

Are we only defining “actual sex” as “anal”?

Not totally off topic…but I’m amused at some of the younger men I encounter where “sex” is intercourse. They will say “no sex”….but beyond that it often seems anything and everything else is on the table…I’ve had a LOT of fun with some of these “no sex” GenZ/millenials.

[+ Lucky]

Isn't a tongue in the ass also anal sex?

[DWnyc]

The pre booking discussions can often seem anal …

[MikeBiDude]

3 hours ago, Lucky said:

Isn't a tongue in the ass also anal sex?

Based on my post above, no….the younger crowd only considers penis penetration “sex” 🤷🏻‍♂️

[+ DrownedBoy]

Zero. I only bend over or stick it in for someone I'm actually seeing.

Besides, I hire for the stuff boyfriends might not like. That combination of beating, domination, interrupted with kissing....I'll stop now.

[NJF]

4 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

Based on my post above, no….the younger crowd only considers penis penetration “sex” 🤷🏻‍♂️

They must be ardent followers of a certain former POTUS 

[+ DrownedBoy]

17 hours ago, NJF said:

They must be ardent followers of a certain former POTUS 

Nah. In the late 90s, studies found that teenagers had that attitude. To paraphrase one article,  bjs were the new "making out."

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

26 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

Nah. In the late 90s, studies found that teenagers had that attitude. To paraphrase one article,  bjs were the new "making out."

The late 90s was the same time as that aforementioned former POTUS.  It all depends on the definition of "sex", and the definition of "is". 😆 

Personally, I don't count penetration with a condom as sex because there is no physical contact. 

To answer the original question:  As a client, roughly 95% of my hires involve anal penetration by at least one penis.  The other 5% involve anal penetration by only tongues and fingers.

Edited July 25, 2024 by Vegas_Millennial

[soloyo215]

On 1/2/2023 at 3:09 PM, socurious said:

Escorting is not always about sex for all we know. But percentage of the time do you actually have anal sex? 

Any reason why anal specifically?

Giving or receiving?

23 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

Zero. I only bend over or stick it in for someone I'm actually seeing.

Besides, I hire for the stuff boyfriends might not like. That combination of beating, domination, interrupted with kissing....I'll stop now.

That, IMO, falls in the category of sex, if you get sexual pleasure from it.

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

The late 90s was the same time as that aforementioned former POTUS.  It all depends on the definition of "sex", and the definition of "is". 😆 

Personally, I don't count penetration with a condom as sex because there is no physical contact. 

To answer the original question:  As a client, roughly 95% of my hires involve anal penetration by at least one penis.  The other 5% involve anal penetration by only tongues and fingers.

I believe from my recollection of the testimony he gave, that person from the 90s said “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” This was interpreted at the time as meaning sex but a quick referral to the dictionary would have shown sexual relations meant genital to genital contact. 

[Your Man in Arlington]

For me, it's almost always a given: out of 40 or so encounters, there were four without penetration: 2 because that was what was agreed upon ahead of time, one where I couldn't perform, and one where the guy couldn't perform (he was still able to shoot a huge load later with other activities).

So yeah, as a client, almost all of the time... but I screen for that up front.

Edited July 25, 2024 by Your Man in Arlington

[+ WSPigBrooklyn]

As a client, I make it clear ahead of time that I want to get fucked and that I want the provider to cum. There are a few other things I include. I guess I am a fairly demanding client but Of all the scorts I have hired only one did not fuck me. He actually couldn't get it up (drugs I think) and only one other didn't cum.Neither were tipped nor hired back (nor reviewed on RM)

[+ Kevin Eagle]

I usually allocate 10 min of the hour for non massage activities, but that varies depending on client's wishes. In terms of anal, I usually bottom around 40% of the time

[misterhumphries]

On 7/24/2024 at 2:17 PM, Lucky said:

Isn't a tongue in the ass also anal sex?

For me, no. Anything involving the mouth is EATING -- oral sex. Anal sex is actual penetration by a BIG ole HARD dick i.e., fucking!

[Redwine56]

On 7/30/2024 at 12:03 PM, WSPigBrooklyn said:

As a client, I make it clear ahead of time that I want to get fucked and that I want the provider to cum. There are a few other things I include. I guess I am a fairly demanding client but Of all the scorts I have hired only one did not fuck me. He actually couldn't get it up (drugs I think) and only one other didn't cum.Neither were tipped nor hired back (nor reviewed on RM)

Wow!  You have high standards of expectation.  😉

[TonyDown]

On 7/24/2024 at 2:17 PM, Lucky said:

Isn't a tongue in the ass also anal sex?

...or a finger?