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Sativa is always the best because it’s an upper, Indica is dower, and Hybrid is a blend of both. Hybrid for me always brings me down more and seems to lean more indica, which is why I prefer to just smoke sativa.

8 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I think there may need to be some “clarifying” of the topic. For me, it’s gotten to a point where I haven’t even really been able to meet friends. Most everyone I meet now is from a hookup app, client or the very occasional bar guy. But it always seems that: if it’s not mutual sexual attraction, it’s nothing. Or, if we do meet and there’s mutual attraction, the friendship is over soon as things don’t seem able to pan out or they too fucking lazy to put any effort in making things work.

Would that have to do with being in the biz though or just guys are hard to connect with as a whole? 

Not at all. If they’re truly your friends no judgement would be placed on you for doing your own thing. Also, not everyone needs to know every detail of one’s personal life either. 

I’m surprised that providers are being booked with this price. I always have people try to negotiate my rate with me.  

6 minutes ago, nycboi said:

Do you cum in every session when you take more than 1 client? Does the client gets mad if you don't actually cum?

I always make sure I cum with each client as well. 

6 minutes ago, nycboi said:

Does viagra really help? How is it?

I personally don’t take Viagra, when I have taking Cialis it does work.

You treat each client as it’s the first client of the day, if there is more than one. You have to perform and the show must go on. 😈

On 2/25/2022 at 9:58 AM, nycman said:

All sexually active adults are at risk of getting STDs. 

The actual risk is variable depending on sexual acts, number of exposures 
and the risks level of your sexual partners. Most escorts are frequently sexually 
active with different partners. That alone places them (and conversely you)
at a higher risk of catching STDs. Add unsafe sex into the mix and the risk 
skyrockets. 

Please realize that I’m not "whore shaming" anyone. I love sex, and I have it 
as often as I can with as many different partners as I can. Nonetheless, we
need to be honest with ourselves and the risks we expose ourselves to. 

"Knowledge is power"….and….."Trust no one with your sexual health".

Took the words right from my mouth. Thank you! 🙌🏼

Anyone who’s sexually active is always at the risk of catching an std. Its just the known risk you take when you have sex, especially as gay men. All it takes is one sexual encounter for you to come in contact with an STD. It’s always just important for everyone to be educated on stds/hiv, as well as monthly testing to prevent spreading. Also like to add the importance of being on preventives for HIV such as PreP.

I don’t think there’s really a different approach, like others have stated I think being direct and getting right to the point of what you want is really the same with both long sessions and short. Direct communication and transparency always makes things a lot easier with both parties. Whether it’s BFE, FF, Vanilla, E Massage, it’s just important to say exactly what you’re looking for.  I’ve found that they’re guys who just like to talk about the idea of meeting, seeing nudes vs actually doing it. 

5 hours ago, wayout said:

I'll be traveling to F.L. soon and have been exploring various options available for hiring.  I am seeing a range being quoted from 300 to 500 per hour (although someone traveling there for a period of time just after posting this quoted me 250).

🥰welcome to Fort Lauderdale 

This is the best time to come.

Fort Lauderdale local here 😈😈😈

On 2/21/2022 at 5:19 AM, Lucky said:

Men need to get off. It's strange that the powers that be would interfere with that when the parties are all consenting adults.

You can wine and dine someone to get you off, but just exchanging money raises eyebrows.Of course, the cops have been known to get their needs taken care of too in similar fashion. They don't get arrested for it.

It’s the world we live in unfortunately where not only is sex demonized, but the business of taking someone’s money in exchange is not allowed. The people who make the laws are known for being hypocritical and doing the same exact thing behind closed doors.

On 2/22/2022 at 6:01 AM, Alexphilly said:

Yes I've even gotten into a situation where the other escort thought the client was paying me more than him sheesh I think this occured a few times ughhh .

Yeah sometimes more than one person can be too much, especially when it’s really unorganized. 

6 hours ago, xyz48B said:

I can’t understand why. It baffles me. 

I don’t either, people get off on playing games. 

This might be the case with stuck up inexperienced guys. I do think charging someone 900 for 2 hours is a bit much, but that’s just my opinion. If you tell the providers what you’re looking for it becomes a problem I’d say just move on to someone who will be nice and reasonable with price. Contacting several guys is normal, so you can keep your options open and see who will respond but also give it time. I will add, I’ve had my share of people who hit me up with no intent of meeting and just games galore. 

Oh Part time for sure. Like the others have said its way too unpredictable to be full time, might be great and busy for some who do it full time though.

18 hours ago, chevrox said:

Just had the following initial interaction with a provider. For the record, I ALWAYS ask for the rate and a few clarifying questions if not clear in the provider's profile in my first text and I've never had any problem. In this particular case, I was hoping to book him last night when I first texted. He didn't respond until the morning (understably, since I texted late at night) but didn't answer any question. Then the conversation got weird and somehow escalated. Am I the asshole here and should I have approached him differently, either initially or in the subsequent interaction? (Provider number blurred to protect his identity; as for mine I use the same username on RM so why bother).

 

Yikes 😬 you def escaped that one, all questions you asked are normal, he’s clearly having a bad day. His comment about flakes I get it, but that doesn’t give him the right to just be an asshole to a potential client who was simply polite and interested. You’re better off❤️

I’ve had “clients” straight up message me and tell me to shave everything and to hit the gym harder to get a six pack, that way I’ll get hired more often. I had another guy today messaging me to tell me to shave my beard cause men shouldn’t have those germ traps on their face. 😂😂

FF usually is referring to “Fist Fucking”

Anytime I travel ill always get coffee/breakfast in the am and I’ll go somewhere for lunch at least. Honestly though UberEats is what I usually do, it’s just easier. 

13 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

thank you for posting this! 

 

You’re welcome ❤️❤️

Yes, I’m referring to the Reagan  administration mainly, as they watched gay men just die. I’ve watched footage of press conferences and anytime they would ask what they were doing, his team and journalists did nothing but laugh. It’s sick. Everything Fauci did to help gay men with drugs was amazing, although a lot of people didn’t react well to AZT. 
 

On 12/1/2021 at 4:36 PM, Charlie said:

I remember the first time I went to a showing of the quilt at an armory in NYC in the late 1980s. They had thoughtfully put boxes of Kleenex throughout the exhibit, and I needed them when I encountered the names of men I had known but didn't know that they had died. The quilt is much larger now. Thanks for posting this.

That honestly made me tear up. I cannot even imagine what it would’ve been like back then, and to see friends  just die and ones you didn’t know died. Gay men dying left and right, an the government laughing without doing a single thing.

Rimming is amazing both ways, just as long as both have a clean ass to rim. 😈