italianboyph

Yeah I think it's always good to communicate exactly what you want and exactly what you're looking for. Everything else will fall right into place.

If there's water left, you always make sure you're in shower/toilet 10mins or so after you do it, or how ever long it takes to push out. You may think it's all out , but it's also  better to be safe. If you get too deep you're gonna wanna make sure you're in there until it comes out. It's a process and you don't wanna rush it, so take your time. 

Did he FR you or did his account just randomly show up

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Everyone has a right to run their business in the manner that works best for themselves. That's rather the whole point of having your own business. If someone doesn't want to massage a grotesquely obese person I don't have a problem with that. Money doesn't buy everything.

No doubt they have that right, but chances are their business won't do well imo. 

On 4/14/2023 at 3:20 AM, Jamie21 said:

I think there’s no good reason for requiring a picture. It’s just because he’s being picky about who his client is, and that is a sign he’s doing the work as a way to earn a bit of money from his sex life. So beware if you’re asked for a pic.

There are ways of getting around the recognition issue of buzzing in to a secured building. Many intercoms don’t have video anyway. Just give the client a password to say. And if meeting in a hotel lobby I usually just tell my client what I’m wearing and where I’m sitting and they find me. 

I saw a client recently at a hotel and sent him a description of what I was wearing once I’d arrived in the lobby. He texted back with his attire. Was easy to find each other. Only once I’d sent the text did I realise that I couldn’t really be missed…I had my portable massage table next to me 😂
 

Exactly, I think that's just part of it and that's why it's not for everyone. I don't think providers should demand to see a picture of a client.

Is say go for a provider that has a good amount of reviews and even ask anyone on here if they're familiar with that provider. 

Yeah, I just kept to physically have on the profile. A few years back they actually let you put the rates on your profile

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

I think my only pet peeve is the flakiness and games that come with this.

Yes, but it can also be turned off.

You can also see if someone read your message with the double checks

The used to allow you a few years back, but then changed it mostly cause its technically not legal here. 

Some might, but I've never ask for pics for the simple reason is a lot of men lien privacy and discretion, which I completely understand 

Just be honest and upfront about your desires that you wanna do with him, nothing wrong with that. 

I think when it comes to bottoming it always just depends on your body and how it's going that day.

5 hours ago, BtmBearDad said:

To build a bit off of the “you should shave that body” comment directed at @italianboyph, as someone who prefers a naturally hairy body, from a provider perspective, is there a polite or accepted way to ask -of those who go back and forth shaved to hairy- what they are at present? I asked one provider many moons ago, in what I thought was a polite way, I.E., “may I ask if you’re currently hairy or are you are shaved?” He took great offense - replied with something along the lines of “if that’s all you’re looking for there are plenty of guys who are hairy” and some more commentary about him being more than a hairy body. To be fair, hairy or smooth is not a deal breaker, it’s merely a preference, and given his pics showed a mix of hairy and smooth, I wanted to know what to expect. 🤷🏼‍♂️

I don't think it's offensive to ask if they're shaved or natural, especially if they're presenting themselves in different ways. If someone is hairy in their pics and they show up completely smooth/shaved, when you're expecting them to be hairy, you'd be disappointed. 

14 hours ago, Just966 said:

The beard looks very sexy on you! I hope you didn't comply😊

Thank you. And no I didn't

Most if not all the clients are older men, if someone has hang ups on age then they shouldn't be doing this. 

RM For Basic Profile is 30 bucks a month

then gold is 80

I don't think as a provider were able to take down reviews, if we could I think all the bad reviews that have been left wouldn't exist. 

I'd have to say it's mostly the games and flakiness with some.

I don't mind either way, but I always prefer contact via text phone just cause I feel it's a little more serious vs RM messages.  Most people read the message cause it says they do, and don't respond. I get some people don't want their real numbers out for discretion and which is why RM is preferred for some, which is fine. The auto messages on RM for some providers basically have messages that say to contact them via phone if you're serious about meeting, which I think is because of flaking.

It's simply just leather/festish/kink

I don't feel this is really anything new, cause it's still always been "illegal". It's just another idiotic thing conservatives just wanna make public to act like they're gonna crack down on something. 

Make sure your diet consist of lots of fiber, I'd also prep a few hours ahead. Either get a douche bulb with a longer tip, or a shower attachment. Another trick to take Imodium before you prep, that way there's no accidents. 

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