italianboyph

Sorry this has happened to you I can relate. I think guys who message without a single hello and request to see pictures is a big one. Guys who message you just see nudes with no intention on booking, even though it was planned.

I usually do yes, because it makes planning everything easier. That’s not to say last min requests don’t happen though. 😙🤪

Trust me I fully relate and understand completely, as it’s happened to me quite often. It’s exhausting and really annoying honestly. Making plans and them either not showing up or even responding ghosting. People get off on playing games.

Eyes open are always good because it becomes more intimate and engaging.

Yes we are.

Sometimes things happens and our bodies react. I think in situation like this always make sure the provider/ doesn’t feel worse then they may already. Shit happen, clean up and find a way to still enjoy the company that you have.

We all have insecurities, a good provider would make you feel welcomed and make sure you're comfortable. Don't be too hard on yourself. 🥰

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I don't think so. I get why it might be of concern, especially if there's a pattern. I've been reviewed many times and they're all real and legit.

Everyone is different, some guys do both, some like to just receive. If you're looking to receive just always be transparent and tell the provider what you're looking for.

I’ve stated before I’ve never expected tips, as a lot of times it never happens, so when clients do give me a tip I’m usually floored and grateful. I think it also varies too from massaging vs escorting.

No issue with finding one, I’ve done 3 somes with couples. I’ve done separately as well, and charge as you would a single person, but charge both people since they’re two of you.

That’s understandable and trust me it happens to me all the time getting flaked on , especially if they’ve ghosted. I just think first meeting someone you’ve never met and asking for a deposit in this circumstance is just a big no. It’s usually the same formula too, ask for a deposit via PayPal. I think in any case if someone does do it via PayPal, make sure you do it Pay Pal Goods and Services.

You should never send a deposit, especially if it's someone not known, and when they ask via Pay Pal it's usually always a scam.

It's perfectly normal and never be afraid to ask. I've been hired by clients who have foot fetishes and have ask for similar/and same thing. It's fun😘

A few things to say. G is something that you really have to be careful with or it could be dangerous. Him falling asleep while on it, is a form of "falling out". Him not disclosing to you prior to him see you that he was on G, is a red flag, he needs to be honest. When someone is on G and they're falling out, you can't let them fall asleep. I've had clients who've messaged to book me and then after we finalize it, ask if I'm providing party favors. I will flat out say no I do not, and to them it's a complete deal breaker. A lot of times when people PNP they want someone on their level. If someone is gonna use any form of drug, they need to be transparent for both parties.

I've been hired by clients who are into piss play, in all different forms.

I’ve stated this before, I don’t expect a client to send pictures, because I know a lot of men are discreet and or private.

I feel you and it does take its toll on you. I've had several clients who will say they're on their way and then not even show up. Even with meetings that were planned ahead of time and you remind them.

This forum is also good place to see which and get the 411 on providers, so you know who you're meeting.

Sometimes shit happens, guys both clients and providers can prepare and still an accident can occur. You have to remember every one's body is different when it comes to it as well.

Yeah sounds like you dodge a bullet, a lot of this just seems very odd. This is also supposed to be fun for you at the end of the day and not difficult.

I thought it was always if you had an account and messaged a provider to show you've had interaction with them.

Yeah usually the other person has to have signal on their phone as well.

I've always used a separate number for my own privacy.