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I'd have to say it's mostly the games and flakiness with some.

I don't mind either way, but I always prefer contact via text phone just cause I feel it's a little more serious vs RM messages. Most people read the message cause it says they do, and don't respond. I get some people don't want their real numbers out for discretion and which is why RM is preferred for some, which is fine. The auto messages on RM for some providers basically have messages that say to contact them via phone if you're serious about meeting, which I think is because of flaking.

It's simply just leather/festish/kink

I don't feel this is really anything new, cause it's still always been "illegal". It's just another idiotic thing conservatives just wanna make public to act like they're gonna crack down on something.

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I think you just need to make it clear exactly what you're looking for but if something happens that you weren't expecting to be open to it. You're also paying for an hour service and even if you came already, him getting dressed right away isn't right. If you wanna explore facefucking, make it known but also make the move to do it.

I don't think it's rude at all. Not everyone celebrates the holidays with family or friends, and if they do it still doesn't hurt to ask.

I get that completely, and flakiness either way is always bad. If I genuinely couldn't meet someone, I would try to find out a time where we could and I could accommodate to figure something out. I would never flake on anyone it's just not who I am. I think the only difference is clients can always move on to the next, and it's not the same for us.

Oh for sure, I just don't get what people get out of making plans and being time wasting and flakey. If they have no intention at all, then don't hit providers up at all.

Sometimes clients just want sex, vs more intimate, sensual, kissing, cuddling, with sex but in more of a boyfriend way.

Just let him know that you want foreplay and for it to be sensual then lead up to sex.

Guys can be flakey, nothing you're doing is wrong.

Kissing is extremely intimate, so some might not kiss because of that.

Of for sure, that's why I don't usually send pics unless I'm actually being hired?

It's not confirmed until you both agree on a time, date, and location. I get the frustration he's talking about, I'm sure we've all been there with the constant back and forth, games with some clients. Until you both agree on when to meet, then it's not officially confirmed.

I think so, but I also think it depends on the city you live. Where I live it's not really a "big" market to begin with.

The time wasters is always a pet peeve of mine, if you have no intention to meet me and just wanna play games and waste my time, don't hit me up. It's always a constant back and forth and leaving messages left on read. Thank god for RM showing that you're able to see that the other person read your message, I think a lot of people don't know that. The impersonation of cops is just funny af, don't they know a cop would never message you randomly.

I always wonder the same thing, cause every time I go to check if there's availability it seems to be always booked.

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I agree, but also providers aren't always free. If I'm not free I still eventually get back to the client, that's just common courtesy. I just think hitting someone up with the no intention of meeting, or just to see dick pics is messed up. This obviously is talking about clients who play games,

I don't know, I wouldn't waste anyones time. I always try to make accommodations the best way I can, but if I couldn't meet I'd just say I can't or we could pick another time. I do think it's just odd for a client to hit providers up, ask them to meet and then when it comes time to meet you get ghosted, in my experience. Or if clients will hit me up and ask for nudes and then once I do, you don't hear a thing.

I always wonder if it's a kink for some people to hit you up and leave you hanging. Like a form of phone sex talking about it happening but knowing it won't

Yeah, I get it. For me it's very very rare I ever meet people where I live.

Oh shit, I'm sorry that happened to you yeah I think there should be a page to talk about bad clients, I've had a few crazy ones. Yeah now it really makes you think about this stuff. I'm always very cautious, because I just don't trust people.