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I don’t mind either way, ive had some clients worry that the two providers wouldn’t be into each other/compatible. So in cases like that it’s good for me to pick someone out that we’d both like. I’ve been in situations where a provider has contacting me about a client wanting a 3some and the providers chose, also I’ve had the client call while with the provider already. Anytime I’ve ever done it, it’s always been a good experience

I’ve never had security, but usually if it’s a late late night sometimes the client usually has been up for quite some time. I’ve never been in a situation where I’ve worried about my safety though.

I don’t think so. As many know bathhouses can be hit or miss and can be really bad or could be good. It’s def a lot different being that when you hire someone you know what you’re gonna get.

Both. Personality goes a long way at the end of the day, so when you click with someone it’s always a plus. Also tipping is nice too, because not everyone does it!

Poppers, Lube, Gum, Mints, Toothbrush, Mouthwash The esstientials depending on what’s requested

I get the personal private life thing separate from work. Some guys may like the mystery, but honestly most guys wanna see your face. You’d be booked a lot more if your face was just there. Just my opinion and from past experiences.

I think it all just depends on the agreement. In my experience with overnights, they us usually start sometime in the evening into the next morning/late am.

I get people are busy and get stuff happens and for me I believe in second chances, but I don’t believe in games. For example I’ve had clients who set dates and time, and then when it comes to that day won’t answer at all or even give a heads up that they aren’t coming. Then I’ll get an apology weeks later, then to say let’s set something up and I say ok. Then the day comes and the same thing happens again. So for me that’s when I strike cause I don’t have time for the games. I also think some guys get off on the phone sex aspect of it and like talking about meeting up,but not actually meeting. I think if clients have no intention on meeting they shouldn’t contact you, because changing your schedule around for someone not to show up or meet can be exhausting. I do think if someone couldn’t meet because of work, I’d understand.

Oh not at all... you like what you like. I think the issue tho is more the toxic masculinity with saying “ it’s getting out of hand”. “ men should be men” Nail Polish doesn’t define whether someone is masculine or feminine. That’s all

I think you missed the point tho.... people are making a big fuss about PAINT! My point was if people are gonna say men should be men and women should be women, I think you should have the same energy for women then. Cause pants were originally made for men but women now wear them because they were told they shouldn’t. Live and let live... if you don’t like nail polish that’s ok, but when people saying men should be this way and that way... well

Def Rentmen.... to me the other ones have never really been a hit.

Exactly! once a straight man does something that gay men get ridiculed for, that’s when people accept it. Straight men have worn polish too and no one questions their masculinity.

I know plenty of masculine men who have worn nail polish. That’s my point is nail polish doesn’t define whether someone is masculine or not. Look at me. Every gay man Masc or not has feminine qualities. Also you’d be surprised with who’s gonna get hit on fem vs Masc, you assuming that the Masc will be the one to get the attention over the fem says it all. And there’s the straight dudes who are into the punk scene who wear the polish. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Just a thought

Well make sure you tell women not to wear pants since originally they were made for men. There’s nothing wrong with liking masculinity, but your toxic masculinity that you were taught is out of line. Nobody has a problem with girls being tomboys but once a man does anything outside of the norm “ oh no. Feminine things don’t define whether someone is a man or not. Can’t tell you how many times I was told what a man should do and what makes a man when I was a kid. But if you’re gonna talk with your toxic masculinity at least make sure you’re informed about history, men have been wearing make up, skirts, heels, wigs, since the beginning of time. So don’t judge, live and let live. 🤷🏻‍♂️

That part!

Usually depends... you would think with a bunch of men in town it would. Depends I guess, maybe this year it will be since it’s the first official ones back since covid.

It’s always been a thing. I like it I also think nail polish doesn’t define someone’s masculinity. I think more people are becoming more comfortable with feminine/masulinity, because neither define you.

I put available now if I’m not doing anything at all in that moment. I’ve noticed too that if I don’t put I’m available I get more calls. It honestly just depends on the day for me.

Honestly I think the most out there one had to be scat

For me, it’s what sexually satisfies you and turns you on.

Anybody who’d reject you based off physical looks shouldn’t be in the biz. Any provider would be lucky to have you and the ones who reject you again shouldn’t be providing. I’ve never rejected anybody for anything, it’s also not my place to do that. The truth is that I’m here to provide, not judge. I understand the rejection for size because I’ve been there. Just keep your head up cause we’re not all AHoles🥰

Yeah I notice the patterns too... they’ll ask the rate then ask me to unlock pics.... then when the times comes no show.

if I had a dollar for every-time Ive had multiple clients flake on me, id be One rich man. The worst is when you set and time and date, then they don’t even text back the day you’re supposed to meet. Just this past weekend 3 alone, and it sucks. I think people should a least have the decency to text back instead of just ghosting. The worst is on the chat, and it says they read the messages. I’ve had guys say they’re on their way and no even show up. I’ve even gone to them, they block while I was in elevators, and not even answer the door. The games are unreal

I personally don’t shave and trim any of my body hairy other then my neck. If you’re gonna do it use an electric razor cause you won’t get razor bumps

It just depends on the market you’re in. I know that in a place like Miam I’m a sore thumb compared to all the pretty manicured smooth muscle Boys, because I’m beefy and hairy vs a place like Texas I have more of an a vantage with a rugged look. Everyone has different tastes at the end of the day, just be yourself. Most clients do look for tops tho, just putting it out there. Again though everyone’s different and all looking for different things so just be open. Also some advice, always perform as if you’re performing for the first time with each client. They’re taking their time to see you, so give it your all. Cause a pretty face won’t get you far if you’re not putting in the work. Good luck... and welcome. ?