italianboyph

I think you just need to make it clear exactly what you're looking for but if something happens that you weren't expecting to be open to it. You're also paying for an hour service and even if you came already, him getting dressed right away isn't right. If you wanna explore facefucking, make it known but also make the move to do it.

I don't think it's rude at all. Not everyone celebrates the holidays with family or friends, and if they do it still doesn't hurt to ask.

I get that completely, and flakiness either way is always bad. If I genuinely couldn't meet someone, I would try to find out a time where we could and I could accommodate to figure something out. I would never flake on anyone it's just not who I am. I think the only difference is clients can always move on to the next, and it's not the same for us.

Oh for sure, I just don't get what people get out of making plans and being time wasting and flakey. If they have no intention at all, then don't hit providers up at all.

Sometimes clients just want sex, vs more intimate, sensual, kissing, cuddling, with sex but in more of a boyfriend way.

Just let him know that you want foreplay and for it to be sensual then lead up to sex.

Guys can be flakey, nothing you're doing is wrong.

Kissing is extremely intimate, so some might not kiss because of that.

Of for sure, that's why I don't usually send pics unless I'm actually being hired?

It's not confirmed until you both agree on a time, date, and location. I get the frustration he's talking about, I'm sure we've all been there with the constant back and forth, games with some clients. Until you both agree on when to meet, then it's not officially confirmed.

I think so, but I also think it depends on the city you live. Where I live it's not really a "big" market to begin with.

The time wasters is always a pet peeve of mine, if you have no intention to meet me and just wanna play games and waste my time, don't hit me up. It's always a constant back and forth and leaving messages left on read. Thank god for RM showing that you're able to see that the other person read your message, I think a lot of people don't know that. The impersonation of cops is just funny af, don't they know a cop would never message you randomly.

I always wonder the same thing, cause every time I go to check if there's availability it seems to be always booked.

Swiss navy usually

I agree, but also providers aren't always free. If I'm not free I still eventually get back to the client, that's just common courtesy. I just think hitting someone up with the no intention of meeting, or just to see dick pics is messed up. This obviously is talking about clients who play games,

I don't know, I wouldn't waste anyones time. I always try to make accommodations the best way I can, but if I couldn't meet I'd just say I can't or we could pick another time. I do think it's just odd for a client to hit providers up, ask them to meet and then when it comes time to meet you get ghosted, in my experience. Or if clients will hit me up and ask for nudes and then once I do, you don't hear a thing.

I always wonder if it's a kink for some people to hit you up and leave you hanging. Like a form of phone sex talking about it happening but knowing it won't

Yeah, I get it. For me it's very very rare I ever meet people where I live.

Oh shit, I'm sorry that happened to you yeah I think there should be a page to talk about bad clients, I've had a few crazy ones. Yeah now it really makes you think about this stuff. I'm always very cautious, because I just don't trust people.

Not that I'm aware of, Im sure there is and providers could use this as well. It would be good being that they're some people you have to watch out for as far as scamming, not paying, flaking, dangerous, harassing.

I know RM used to let us put the rates there, which I do miss cause that way it was always on the profile. I didn't realize that now they have a filter for it on there.

I don't think so, I think guys just with pay the rate and don't even think about tipping. They're also clients who know the Business, who do tip. I think it honestly just depends on the client, I don't think it has anything to do with the provider being good or bad.

Trust me it happens all the time, I'll get no calls and then when I about to leave a city that's when I'll get a call. I always prefer advance just so I can plan out my day and have it a bit organized. I've had clients who with book an appointment with a date and time, and when it comes to that and it's confirmed I won't hear from them and my text will be ignored. After that usually just let it go, and line you I will put a note and of course I'll save the old text messages. Guys will flake and then keep contacting me over and over to meet and then flake again. The games are stupid, and the leaving people on read on RM when contacting is another thing. If you're gonna book an appointment and contact through RM then to flake, I think they should all know that we can see if they've read the message.

Canceling because something comes up is one thing, cause this is life and shit happens. Some usually state they'll rebook, but if they do it multiple times at that point it's just all a game and you should just block them

It's annoying I just see the post of going out of your way to waste someone's time. If these clients aren't serious just want phone sex, to see nudes and no follow through, then they shouldn't hit people up to hire.