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Hey guys... love the forum...! Anyone with any information on this guy? https://app.rent.men/VictorRios He's traveling to my city and - man - that foreskin! Bottom when I hire - gym fit - drug free - fit healthy lifestyle - more into BFE. Thanks guys.

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Bump. Anyone ever take the plunge? I am in Miami looking for an uncut Top BFE. Thanks guys.

Bump... looks like escorting is back on the menu. Anyone have any experience? Looking for a BFE uncut top in Miami.

Thanks to everyone who responded. Learned some things... gained some insights... which is always a good thing! Moving on - hope everyone has a great week! Be kind to each other.

I got it. And as I said I took your criticism about not responding to his "?" to heart - reflected - and now have Venmo'd him the cancellation fee. Going forward I will make a distinction between an inquiry and an appointment - which - made sense to me. So - hopefully both the provider and myself - have gained some insights. I have hired regularly for a long time - and never got this kind of reaction before. The reaction seemed disproportionate to the moment. My comment as to whether he "should be in the industry" really stems from his reaction to his week - when he was so angry on the phone - that all his clients had flaked. The - emotionality - was real. The anger was real - and he is not a young kid. He's been doing this for a minute. And - you are in a high stress industry - but hopefully a rewarding one as well. You seem to have found a way to engage professionally -a set of rules and boundaries that allow you to keep your sanity. Hope he finds the same. Thanks to everyone for the advice. Lessons learned all around... And as I said - most of my experiences with providers have been positive.

Update: He came back requesting the "half fee" I offered that he initially refused. I will pay it just to - be done. And - also - as posters have suggested - I should have responded to his "?" - and it is clear that he had a very bad week. I am a fan of taking responsibility for the part that is mine - and not taking responsibility for the things that are not. In the future I will be clear that I am not "booking" until I am ready to "book" - and that I am "inquiring" not booking. This was an anomaly - most providers I have worked with in the past have actually been very professional. I would imagine being a provider can be very stressful - and it's not for everyone. He should probably set up a "way of working", including deposits, and boundaries and not put the onus on the clients.

I agree with you. I think deposits are the way to go. When I suggested that to the provider for the future - he went off on a rant that if he requires deposits he won't get the clients - which - i disagree with - but - at that point he was not going to hear anything I said. Thank you for your thoughtful and helpful response.

Yes I agree. I should have responded to the "?" - even just to say - still in flux so don't wait for me. But - also - given the comments here - I don't think I did anything particularly shitty. I think, as someone else pointed out, that he didn't actually lock down his appointments, made a trip to the city and was upset and angry by the time the week was done. And - I pissed him off too. I get it.

Thanks guys. I am actually a fan of the "deposit" - and suggested to this guy he start implementing it since apparently he had what he thought was going to be a weeks worth of clients disappear. My takeaways are - to be more clear that I am - "not booked until we have a date, time and place confirmed" and that the provider is free to book anyone else in the meantime. Love the forum. You guys are the best.

Hey guys... this is a genuine question. I will be interested in getting your thoughts. I just had an interaction with a provider that turned - well nasty - actually. I always like to see what I could have done differently - if anything - or is this really someone's issue. I was planning a business trip about a week before the trip was supposed to take place. I reached out to a few providers in the city that looked like a match. I reached out to one - and said - I was planning a business trip for the following week and that although I wasn't sure how the schedule was going to shake out... if it went as I had hoped - Friday or Saturday would be my availability. Asked whether he would be available in there - and rates etc. I closed with "I will get back to you when I have more details." My boss - being my boss -kept changing plans so I could not - in my view - finalise anything. The provider reached out on Thursday with a ?. I didn't answer it because I still didn't know. On Friday - the plans changed. The provider reached out again - and I said that I was sorry but the venue changed and I would not be around. He was incredibly angry. In his view, I had "scheduled" an appointment. The text stream was - wild. From his perspective - he had traveled to this city because people told him they wanted to hire him - but almost everyone canceled that week. I can't speak to that. The texting went on for a while - and he said he wanted to talk to me on the phone - which I agreed to do. He read me the riot act - pretty aggressively - about bothering people when I wasn't sure of my schedule. That in his view it was definitely happening on Friday or Saturday. My view was - it isn't considered a booking until we have a date, time and place. I offered half his fee - trying to see it from his standpoint - which he said was not enough. I did not feel that I had done anything that warranted a full fee. I have never had a provider get that angry before. I really respect the work providers do - this was surprising to me. When I have given less than 24 hours notice for an actual appointment where we have agreed on a date, time and place - I have paid. Thoughts?

Just met up went him in Boston. Wow! Just wow. PM for details. I will absolutely repeat.

Bump - I'm heading to Boston and looks like he's there!

bump. no takers? Might just take the plunge and report back.

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