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Hey guys... love the forum...! Anyone with any information on this guy? https://app.rent.men/VictorRios He's traveling to my city and - man - that foreskin! Bottom when I hire - gym fit - drug free - fit healthy lifestyle - more into BFE. Thanks guys.

Hey guys... just a heads up... if this guy is in your city I can't recommend him highly enough. https://app.rent.men/AlphonseG He's not an escort - but his Tantric skills are legit. He takes pride in his work and it is phenomenal.

Bump. Anyone ever take the plunge? I am in Miami looking for an uncut Top BFE. Thanks guys.

Bump... looks like escorting is back on the menu. Anyone have any experience? Looking for a BFE uncut top in Miami.

Thanks to everyone who responded. Learned some things... gained some insights... which is always a good thing! Moving on - hope everyone has a great week! Be kind to each other.

I got it. And as I said I took your criticism about not responding to his "?" to heart - reflected - and now have Venmo'd him the cancellation fee. Going forward I will make a distinction between an inquiry and an appointment - which - made sense to me. So - hopefully both the provider and myself - have gained some insights. I have hired regularly for a long time - and never got this kind of reaction before. The reaction seemed disproportionate to the moment. My comment as to whether he "should be in the industry" really stems from his reaction to his week - when he was so angry on the phone - that all his clients had flaked. The - emotionality - was real. The anger was real - and he is not a young kid. He's been doing this for a minute. And - you are in a high stress industry - but hopefully a rewarding one as well. You seem to have found a way to engage professionally -a set of rules and boundaries that allow you to keep your sanity. Hope he finds the same. Thanks to everyone for the advice. Lessons learned all around... And as I said - most of my experiences with providers have been positive.

Update: He came back requesting the "half fee" I offered that he initially refused. I will pay it just to - be done. And - also - as posters have suggested - I should have responded to his "?" - and it is clear that he had a very bad week. I am a fan of taking responsibility for the part that is mine - and not taking responsibility for the things that are not. In the future I will be clear that I am not "booking" until I am ready to "book" - and that I am "inquiring" not booking. This was an anomaly - most providers I have worked with in the past have actually been very professional. I would imagine being a provider can be very stressful - and it's not for everyone. He should probably set up a "way of working", including deposits, and boundaries and not put the onus on the clients.

I agree with you. I think deposits are the way to go. When I suggested that to the provider for the future - he went off on a rant that if he requires deposits he won't get the clients - which - i disagree with - but - at that point he was not going to hear anything I said. Thank you for your thoughtful and helpful response.

Yes I agree. I should have responded to the "?" - even just to say - still in flux so don't wait for me. But - also - given the comments here - I don't think I did anything particularly shitty. I think, as someone else pointed out, that he didn't actually lock down his appointments, made a trip to the city and was upset and angry by the time the week was done. And - I pissed him off too. I get it.

Thanks guys. I am actually a fan of the "deposit" - and suggested to this guy he start implementing it since apparently he had what he thought was going to be a weeks worth of clients disappear. My takeaways are - to be more clear that I am - "not booked until we have a date, time and place confirmed" and that the provider is free to book anyone else in the meantime. Love the forum. You guys are the best.

Hey guys... this is a genuine question. I will be interested in getting your thoughts. I just had an interaction with a provider that turned - well nasty - actually. I always like to see what I could have done differently - if anything - or is this really someone's issue. I was planning a business trip about a week before the trip was supposed to take place. I reached out to a few providers in the city that looked like a match. I reached out to one - and said - I was planning a business trip for the following week and that although I wasn't sure how the schedule was going to shake out... if it went as I had hoped - Friday or Saturday would be my availability. Asked whether he would be available in there - and rates etc. I closed with "I will get back to you when I have more details." My boss - being my boss -kept changing plans so I could not - in my view - finalise anything. The provider reached out on Thursday with a ?. I didn't answer it because I still didn't know. On Friday - the plans changed. The provider reached out again - and I said that I was sorry but the venue changed and I would not be around. He was incredibly angry. In his view, I had "scheduled" an appointment. The text stream was - wild. From his perspective - he had traveled to this city because people told him they wanted to hire him - but almost everyone canceled that week. I can't speak to that. The texting went on for a while - and he said he wanted to talk to me on the phone - which I agreed to do. He read me the riot act - pretty aggressively - about bothering people when I wasn't sure of my schedule. That in his view it was definitely happening on Friday or Saturday. My view was - it isn't considered a booking until we have a date, time and place. I offered half his fee - trying to see it from his standpoint - which he said was not enough. I did not feel that I had done anything that warranted a full fee. I have never had a provider get that angry before. I really respect the work providers do - this was surprising to me. When I have given less than 24 hours notice for an actual appointment where we have agreed on a date, time and place - I have paid. Thoughts?

Just met up went him in Boston. Wow! Just wow. PM for details. I will absolutely repeat.

Bump - I'm heading to Boston and looks like he's there!

bump. no takers? Might just take the plunge and report back.

Hey guys... looking for a great uncut top. Anyone with intel on this guy? https://app.rent.men/JoeyJockxxx

Hey guys... bumping this - he's in Boston. Anyone with experience?

Hey forum... I am heading to Boston - looking for a great uncut top into BFE... anyone with intel on this guy? https://app.rent.men/Lindoo_X Thanks so much guys. Love the forum!

Bump. Anyone with recent actual experience? Looking for an uncut Top in Boston.

LOL... I checked on that... he's on par with other providers.

Hey gents... I'm traveling to Boston. Looking for an uncut top. Anyone with intel on this guy? He's great on chat but "needs to be discreet".... Any info would be appreciated - or anyone with uncut top suggestions for Boston https://app.rent.men/HungUncutNJuicy

It was one of those situations where - you wonder whether you should say something - but - he was such a nice guy... In the end, I would not have hired him if I had known his current body status (just on my preferences - nothing to do with body shaming) - but - he had a good attitude - and - sexy foreskin lol. But yeah - lesson learned.

Nope! I think I was a bit disappointed in his appearance - but that's on me really - if it mattered to me I should have asked which version of his pictures was he rocking at the moment. I just "assumed" the pictures with the later dates were his latest look. The sex was - good - not mind blowing but solid... and he seems like a very sweet guy... a little shy - English is a little bit of a struggle I think as well.

Hello forum friends... I am laughing at myself. For a long time I had my eye on https://app.rent.men/HairyXLmssgs ... read some "meh" reviews on here - and two of his RM reviews were also 'meh"... - (but good reviews too on RM). But I should ALWAYS TRUST THE FORUM. Was supposed to meet up with one provider the other night - last minute schedule change and he couldn't meet - I was so horny LOL - I went back to "HairyXLmssgs" - and it was indeed - a mixed bag. PM for details. Upshot - super nice guy - very sweet - but - when you go to his link - if you look at the dates his pictures were uploaded - his "newer" pictures are more fit and muscular - and the "older pics" are much heavier. I figured he put on COVID weight but had lost it. Well - it's the reverse. He's much heavier now - which isn't necessarily a bad thing. If you like super beefy with a belly - he's your guy. Add another 15 pounds to the picture with the hot pink wall. And he's not 6' tall. Just a reminder to myself - when the forum says "meh" - it's probably a meh. Very sweet guy though... So if - big belly very beefy guys are for you - go for it.

Bumping. Anyone?

He looks amazing! Thanks so much.