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It definitely varies for different people. When I’ve done overnights, We would play a bit, go to dinner, watch a movie in bed together, have a drink, play some more, cuddle a bit, sleep, then wake up with some play, have breakfast. Like I said it varies and depends on what the client wants to experience. I’ve also gone to see an art Exhibit with a client as part of the overnight. Just do whatever you’re comfortable with.  ❤️❤️❤️Hope this helps

Honestly if it’s comes to it, cash would just be much better.

On 1/17/2022 at 1:47 AM, TopBunk said:

What are some easy ways to greet/ communicate for the first time without sending an awkward list of questions?

Things I'd like to know:

-rates (up front, nothing hidden. I hate when there's a hint of bargaining or "add ons")

-what you do (top, bottom, vers, kiss, nipple play, rim, suck/blow, etc). I can't trust profiles to be accurate, sorry.

-host or travel restrictions

-availability (this can be specifics like Weekends only, or general like whether you're open to same-day appts )

-sti info, prep/prevention status

-any extra photos/links you're willing to share

I think it’s always good to start out the conversation with a “Hello”  and then tell the provider you’re interested in meeting, but have a few questions. As a provider I don’t think anyone should have a problem answering the questions you want to know. Just make sure you communicate and let them know exactly so it can be clear both ways.

I’ve always made sure I let clients know ahead of time so they know in advance. I’ve always put my travel dates as well in any city I’ve traveled to. 

If you’re paying for the time, you should stay for that time. Any provider that’s trying to rush you out the door, obviously shouldn’t be hired again. 

I prefer to book sessions In advance, it’s just much easier and I feel organized. Having everything planned in advance also gives anticipation for meeting as well. Sometimes I’ll have clients that will call real late in the night and want right now. That’s not to say I haven’t taking requests right away either. 

when I first started using RM they allowed you to post your rates on there, it soon changed right after. It’s the same with them changing the term escort to performer/porn star. I do wish they’d let us in the US post it though.

3 hours ago, TumYum said:

interesting comment about "anger" - one of my regular providers (who has mentioned the "good energies" I carry with me, btw) told me that especially lately he has had to deal with a lot of angry people --

may i ask - what does that actually "look like" to you?

I usually don’t let bother me. It’s just been a few things where people vent heavy about other people and things that pissed them off. Not sure how to really say, cause you can tell when someone is angry and upset. Its rare but 

Love hairy 😈

Who ever contacted first usually for me as well. I will always make sure I make time for the other person too. 

I think communication is a big thing that a lot of people just lack. Like stated above, clients will book and then not show up, call, or even text back and leave you hanging. I’ve been with clients, who have seem a bit angry at times and take whatever frustration they have going on out on me and I usually don’t pay it any mind.  All around I think people should just learn to communicate and treat people the way you wanna be treated. 

On 12/30/2021 at 11:35 PM, KensingtonHomo said:

So my husband and I hire together because we play together. With some guys it's just their hourly rate; for others it's 1.5 times their hourly (this feels correct to me); and for others it's double. Double feels like too much because it's like like the escort is doing double work. 

I'm curious where the providers on here stand on that and if you're charging double is it just because it's two people? 

 

I feel like the normal rate plus 20% -30% would be normal. I think it’s best always to discuss with the provider what page you’re both on to meet in the middle. 

Me personally, I do think a little boost is needed, but I also think charging an extra 200 dollars is quite dramatic. Cause as someone else said does a 400 service make it better than a 250? I’d like to hear more. 

We’re related but I will say one of the things that we both cannot stand, is people acting weird and the constant sexual questions about us. At the end of the day were brothers, it’s the same as if anyone had a sibling, you don’t have sex with them correct ? I understand the whole twin fantasy, but that’s not happening in this department. They’re just boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed, and respected. 

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On 12/31/2021 at 1:13 AM, TopBunk said:

... Is it rude to ask them if they'd be into it? Assuming they're strangers or not. Kissing cousins?

Yes it is. 

They used to send texts notifications to your phone if someone messaged you online, but I don’t think it would do it every-time someone messages you. I’m pretty sure they send to email, but still I only know someone has messaged me if I physically go on RM to view my messages. Which is why I always prefer to have someone text my phone directly. 

It is weird that it being on RentMassuer, that they’re asking about HIV Stats. RM I understand. RM also has it on their site for it, and yes I put mine up. 

At the end of the day it’s online gay hooking up. People do the same thing on apps, talks about planning to meet  and nothing happens. I’ve heard stories from both sides of the spectrum.

Definitely spread it across stuff that needs to be payed.

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1,000 sounds nice indeed I’ll cast vote for 200

It’s always a good idea. Who doesn’t like a fresh beer pair of cute undies/jock. It’s hot

When I first made my profile they always, made you verify through your ID/License. 

https://rent.men/italianboyph
 

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If they suspended your profile, I don’t think you should.

I don’t ever expect a picture, cause I know that for some this is a discreet thing and it comes with the biz. Providers have to respect and understand what you’re getting into, cause most of not all won’t have pictures. If you’re a professional, then you should know that you shouldn’t ask for a picture.