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I think you just need to make it clear exactly what you're looking for but if something happens that you weren't expecting to be open to it. You're also paying for an hour service  and even if you came already, him getting dressed right away isn't right.  If you wanna explore facefucking, make it known but also make the move to do it. 

I don't think it's rude at all. Not everyone celebrates the holidays with family or friends, and if they do it still doesn't hurt to ask. 

I get that completely, and flakiness either way is always bad. If I genuinely couldn't meet someone, I would try to find out a time where we could and I could accommodate to figure something out. I would never flake on anyone it's just not who I am. I think the only difference is clients can always move on to the next, and it's not the same for us. 

Oh for sure, I just don't get what people get out of making plans and being time wasting and flakey. If they have no intention at all, then don't hit providers up at all. 

Sometimes clients just want sex, vs more intimate, sensual, kissing, cuddling, with sex but in more of a boyfriend way. 

18 hours ago, CuriousD said:

Hi pre warning om a total newb to this and it will be my first encounter.  This is the scenario I'd like to have "sitting on the couch talking then that leads to kissing or groping and then love making.  More sensual exploring than just fucking. I pretty much want him to do everything to me. Sorry to be clumsy.  How can I make that kind of scenario sound more professional or clear to convey to a provider?  
 

Just let him know that you want foreplay and for it to be sensual then lead up to sex. 

Guys can be flakey, nothing you're doing is wrong. 

Kissing is extremely intimate, so some might not kiss because of that.

On 11/23/2022 at 2:34 AM, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Well I know one thing: I’ve decided that because of this, I’m going back to limiting how much free “material” I’m putting out there. If someone hasn’t booked an appointment, then they really shouldn’t be seeing all of what I offer anyway. 

I don’t want for things to revert to what men4rent once did (disallowed any nude pics in ads), however: I’m seeing less merit in “barring it all” on my ads. RentMasseur already has it set up that way, and I seem to get more clients from it sometimes than RentMen. 
 

I even wrote an email to them sharing my opinion. I’ve said long time ago we should get some form of “credit” whenever clients look at our private pics. Their paying for a membership doesn’t necessarily put money in our pockets. And having nude pics out waiting around for people to book appointments, is too much of a stipulation. 
 

Sometimes, I feel we are moreso advertising to each other versus actual clients. Escorts are getting frustrated at potential clients because they are seeing the goods, without actually having to book an appointment, and that’s just not fair. That’s why I’m getting out of the rat race.  People are booking appointments, and then cancelling on us for shit reasons that don’t have anything to do with us. Meanwhile, we get paid $0 for the content that we put out. 
 

That’s why I just don’t have time for the bullshit. The idea of getting less clients with deposits does get uncomfortable especially during slow times. But trying to win over dudes who aren’t committed to booking, is time consuming.

Of for sure, that's why I don't usually send pics unless I'm actually being hired?

It's not confirmed until you both agree on a time, date, and location. I get the frustration he's talking about, I'm sure we've all been there with the constant back and forth, games with some clients. Until you both agree on when to meet, then it's not officially confirmed.

I think so, but I also think it depends on the city you live. Where I live it's not really a "big" market to begin with. 

The time wasters is always a pet peeve of mine, if you have no intention to meet me and just wanna play games and waste my time, don't hit me up. It's always a constant back and forth and leaving messages left on read. Thank god for RM showing that you're able to see that the other person read your message, I think a lot of people don't know that.  The impersonation of cops is just funny af, don't they know a cop would never message you randomly.

I always wonder the same thing, cause every time I go to check if there's availability it seems to be always booked. 

Swiss navy usually 

On 10/1/2022 at 10:34 PM, Boink said:

On the flip side, I, as a client, wouldn't waste anyone's time. But I find it odd when a provider advertises his services continuously, and yet when I reach out multiple times with the utmost sincerity and respect in hopes of arranging a meeting, I am not granted the dignity of a response of any kind.

Two sides to every scenario.

I agree, but also providers aren't always free. If I'm not free I still eventually get back to the client, that's just common courtesy.  I just think hitting someone up with the no intention of meeting, or just to see dick pics is messed up. This obviously is talking about clients who play games, 

On 9/30/2022 at 10:56 AM, Boink said:

As a client, I've wondered this about some escorts I've reached out to.

I don't know, I wouldn't waste anyones time. I always try to make accommodations the best way I can, but if I couldn't meet I'd just say I can't or we could pick another time. I do think it's just odd for a client to hit providers up, ask them to meet and then when it comes time to meet you get ghosted, in my experience. Or if clients will hit me up and ask for nudes and then once I do, you don't hear a thing. 

I always wonder if it's a kink for some people to hit you up and leave you hanging. Like a form of phone sex talking about it happening but knowing it won't 

Yeah, I get it. For me it's very very rare I ever meet people where I live. 

On 8/19/2022 at 2:20 AM, Vulgarii said:

 

 

There was a client that roofied my coffee. He lives in Westwood and is an old mostly unknown actor. I wonder if anyone has had the same experience.

This happened in 2015 a year before the Bill Cosby allegations came out and I remembered a year later hearing models like Beverly Johnson say they were given a cappuccino and then 40 mins later, they started hallucinating and were f-cked up. I was like wow that sounds soooooo familiar, luckily I had the strength and consciousness to run away too and I slept in the floor of the back of my car. I was terrified and I was f-cked up the next day too. 

 

There's also a sneaky way to roofie someone that a female escort publically stated and read about her nightmare client on Mr Number...he would drink an herbal tea and then go down on his escorts. They would pass out and he would brutally rape and beat them. I suppose the same thing could be done to men when rimmed.

 

Anyway, it is essential for providers to have some sort of network to inform others of dangerous encounters.

Oh shit, I'm sorry that happened to you yeah I think there should be a page to talk about bad clients, I've had a few crazy ones. Yeah now it really makes you think about this stuff. I'm always very cautious, because I just don't trust people. 

Not that I'm aware of, Im sure there is and providers could use this as well. It would be good being that they're some people you have to watch out for as far as scamming, not paying, flaking, dangerous, harassing. 

I know RM used to let us put the rates there, which I do miss cause that way it was always on the profile. I didn't realize that now they have a filter for it on there.

I don't think so, I think guys just with pay the rate and don't even think about tipping. They're also clients who know the Business, who do tip. I think it honestly just depends on the client, I don't think it has anything to do with the provider being good or bad.

Trust me it happens all the time, I'll get no calls and then when I about to leave a city that's when I'll get a call. I always prefer advance just so I can plan out my day and have it a bit organized. I've had clients who with book an appointment with a date and time, and when it comes to that and it's confirmed I won't hear from them and my text will be ignored. After that usually just let it go, and line you I will put a note and of course I'll save the old text messages. Guys will flake and then keep contacting me over and over to meet and then flake again. The games are stupid, and the leaving people on read on RM when contacting is another thing. If you're gonna book an appointment and contact through RM then to flake, I think they should all know that we can see if they've read the message. 

Canceling because something comes up is one thing, cause  this is life and shit happens. Some usually state they'll rebook, but if they do it multiple times at that point it's just all a game and you should just block them

It's annoying I just see the post of going out of your way to waste someone's time. If these clients aren't serious just want phone sex, to see nudes and no follow through, then they shouldn't hit people up to hire.